Teach Me How to Deep Throat

[B_talltpaguy]

I am terrified of the "pop." Could I break something? Do I really just need to have courage and just push it?

Well, don't get violent on yourself, but no you won't hurt anything. Once you stretch out your throat a bit, it gets used to it and doesn't pop or feel uncomfortable anymore.

 

[hud01]

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[petite]

Have to ask the important question, how big around is his shaft?

I knew that someone was going to eventually ask me this and I was avoiding it because I don't want to arouse any kind of competitiveness or anything, and because I'm really not sure how he'd react over me doing this, but I suppose it's a practical consideration, so with a lot of reservations, here I go...

He's not here with me, so I'm guessing here, using a bottle Cross & Blackwell Cranberry Chutney to help. Okay, the shaft part is larger than my wrist around and I can easily get my thumb and my middle finger around my wrist and touch my fingers together. My wrist is just over 5.5" in diameter. I can't get my thumb and middle finger around the shaft of his penis and touch my fingers together without squeezing it, there's about 1/4" where my fingers don't touch, so I'm going to guess that the shaft diameter is between 5.75-6" in diameter. The head is ridiculous, mushroom shaped and enormous. I think that the head is just about the same size as the fattest part of the bottle, which measures just under 7" in diameter.

Actually, I can sort of fold my middle finger under the thumb, so the shaft may be a little bigger around than that, maybe 6.25" around. Okay, I've found what I think is a more accurate method of estimation using a freckle on my forearm for a reference point, my latest guess is 6.125" for the shaft.

Edit: Forgot to add that when I use the bathroom many times I gargle with a large amount of Listerine. The alcohol in it slightly de-sensitizes (SP) the throat and then I spit it out on the dildo to help lube it.

I had heard once that you can use listerine, but I had forgotten that. I also heard cold or hot orange juice, but I can't remember which one, cold or hot.

 

[hud01]

I knew that someone was going to eventually ask me this and I was avoiding it because I don't want to arouse any kind of competitiveness or anything, but I suppose it's a practical consideration, so with a lot of reservations, here I go...

He's not here with me, so I'm guessing here, using a bottle Cross & Blackwell Cranberry Chutney to help. Okay, the shaft part is larger than my wrist around and I can easily get my thumb and my middle finger around my wrist and touch my fingers together. My wrist is just over 5.5" in diameter. I can't get my thumb and middle finger around the shaft of his penis and touch my fingers together without squeezing it, there's about 1/4" where my fingers don't touch, so I'm going to guess that the shaft diameter is between 5.75-6" in diameter. The head is ridiculous, mushroom shaped and enormous. I think that the head is just about the same size as the fattest part of the bottle, which measures just under 7" in diameter.

No competition, just trying to figure out if you have a shot. A 7 inch around head, might be too much. If you did get his head down your throat it might hurt him.

My mouth might be bigger than yours, but I start to max out at 6.75 for a shaft. I can do 6.5, not always comfortable, but always can do. 6.75-7 is where it has to be the right day. Of course I am talking about a dildo which is much rougher than a cock. Anything above 7, not happening.

PS the only thing you have to worry about is people, myself included, would love to see pictures of a beauty like that.

Part 2 now how long....:biggrin1:

 

[hud01]

Forgot about this great amateur one.

Jin - Shoot at home, Free Streaming Porn

If you have a tape measure at home, you could spice things up tonight. Suck on him until he is hard and then measure and get back to us tomorrow..

 

[B_willy5904]

This suggestion may require you and your boy friend to be more sexually open than you currently are.

My wife, and the other women we swing with, learned to deep throat me and my buddies large cocks was by watch us guys. As the girls watched us guys suck each other off, and deep throat each other, they learned by example on how to work our big cocks.

Today my wife is a great deep throater; she can take some incredibly huge cocks balls deep into her throat. That said, my best buddy still gives the best head of all the people we swing with. But I do enjoy her practicing to get better everyday.

 

[petite]

Forgot about this great amateur one.

Jin - Shoot at home, Free Streaming Porn

If you have a tape measure at home, you could spice things up tonight. Suck on him until he is hard and then measure and get back to us tomorrow..

I'm actually a little nervous, Boyfriend looked uncomfortable when I told him what I was doing and was not re-assured when I told him I was seeking practical tips. I don't think he likes the idea of me talking about his penis on the internet.

BTW, thank you for the porn links! I appreciate that!

This suggestion may require you and your boy friend to be more sexually open than you currently are.

My wife, and the other women we swing with, learned to deep throat me and my buddies large cocks was by watch us guys. As the girls watched us guys suck each other off, and deep throat each other, they learned by example on how to work our big cocks.

Today my wife is a great deep throater; she can take some incredibly huge cocks balls deep into her throat. That said, my best buddy still gives the best head of all the people we swing with. But I do enjoy her practicing to get better everyday.

We are more conservative than many people on this site, but not completely vanilla.

When we were sharing stories with one another about our previous sexual experiences, I told him about the best sexual experience of my life, which was a threesome with two of my ex-es at once, one bi, the other straight. I'd had a lot of sex with both of them in the past so they both knew my body well I knew their bodies well, and it was incredible. One of these ex-es is the only person from my past that he's jealous of, and although I failed to anticipate a competitive reaction, I wasn't surprised when Boyfriend wanted to "out-do" his perceived rival. Even though Boyfriend is possibly the straightest person on earth, he instantly offered to do another one with me and a very good Bisexual Friend of his offered to be the third in our threesome and the idea of this friend sucking his cock turned me on immensely and Boyfriend was up for all of it.

Here's the problem. Bisexual Friend has gotten married to a beautiful woman who is literally a decade younger than me, and his bride said something and gave me a look at their wedding reception that implied that Bisexual Friend had not only told her about the threesome idea, but that she wanted one, too. Honestly, if Boyfriend were less attractive, less hot, and less of a catch, I'd probably jump at the "fair trade" idea, but in my nightmares the end result would be that Boyfriend ends up with young hot wife and me and Bisexual Friend are very sorry we made a dumb mistake.

 

[petite]

No competition, just trying to figure out if you have a shot. A 7 inch around head, might be too much. If you did get his head down your throat it might hurt him.

When we started having sex he insisted that I could not hurt it and that I should not be worried about that. This is one of my favorite memories, he got out of bed and thwapped his penis against the wall while saying, "See? You can't hurt it!"

I'm positive that your mouth is probably larger than mine. I am petite and that probably does mean that my throat is thinner, too, but I've seen some videos online that seem to suggest that this isn't a problem? Can anyone with a really wide penis give some feedback on whether getting deepthroated is ouchie or fun?

My mouth might be bigger than yours, but I start to max out at 6.75 for a shaft. I can do 6.5, not always comfortable, but always can do. 6.75-7 is where it has to be the right day. Of course I am talking about a dildo which is much rougher than a cock. Anything above 7, not happening.

Absolutely, a real penis would get "squeezed" and have give that wouldn't hurt as much. I've experienced this phenomenon with toys in other places other than my throat.

PS the only thing you have to worry about is people, myself included, would love to see pictures of a beauty like that.

Part 2 now how long....:biggrin1:

This made me laugh! I doubt he'd be up for that. I have only one photo, a polaroid I took when we started dating. I teased him that I'd use it to blackmail him if he ever made me mad!

 

[hud01]

I'm actually a little nervous, Boyfriend looked uncomfortable when I told him what I was doing and was not re-assured when I told him I was seeking practical tips. I don't think he likes the idea of me talking about his penis on the internet.

BTW, thank you for the porn links! I appreciate that!



We are more conservative than many people on this site, but not completely vanilla.

When we were sharing stories with one another about our previous sexual experiences, I told him about the best sexual experience of my life, which was a threesome with two of my ex-es at once, one bi, the other straight. I'd had a lot of sex with both of them in the past so they both knew my body well I knew their bodies well, and it was incredible. One of these ex-es is the only person from my past that he's jealous of, and although I failed to anticipate a competitive reaction, I wasn't surprised when Boyfriend wanted to "out-do" his perceived rival. Even though Boyfriend is possibly the straightest person on earth, he instantly offered to do another one with me and a very good Bisexual Friend of his offered to be the third in our threesome and the idea of this friend sucking his cock turned me on immensely and Boyfriend was up for all of it.

Here's the problem. Bisexual Friend has gotten married to a beautiful woman who is literally a decade younger than me, and his bride said something and gave me a look at their wedding reception that implied that Bisexual Friend had not only told her about the threesome idea, but that she wanted one, too. Honestly, if Boyfriend were less attractive, less hot, and less of a catch, I'd probably jump at the "fair trade" idea, but in my nightmares the end result would be that Boyfriend ends up with young hot wife and me and Bisexual Friend are very sorry we made a dumb mistake.

Or it could be the best night of your sexual life.

 

[petite]

Or it could be the best night of your sexual life.

Maybe we can find a better situation someday that wouldn't involve my horny straight big boy having sex with a woman 10 years younger than me, who is probably a bit of a freak in bed considering who she married and the suggestion that we share. That's also intimidating.... Or maybe if they lived further away. Much further away. Maybe they'll move someday and then I wouldn't feel like I was setting myself up! Yeah, I know I'm possessive. I'm know I've got a good thing.

 

[SpeedoMike]

very educational...

 

[need2bsexy2]

I have only been deep throated once in my life. I did "pop" into her throat. My penis actually buckled before I popped down her throat. One of the best sexual experiences of my life. To feel her upper lip against my stomach and her lower lip against my balls was heaven. Unfortunately life changes moved her away from me.

 

[hud01]

Maybe we can find a better situation someday that wouldn't involve my horny straight big boy having sex with a woman 10 years younger than me, who is probably a bit of a freak in bed considering who she married and the suggestion that we share. That's also intimidating.... Or maybe if they lived further away. Much further away. Maybe they'll move someday and then I wouldn't feel like I was setting myself up! Yeah, I know I'm possessive. I'm know I've got a good thing.

No it isn't really posessive, it is insecure. If the couple are freaks in bed, they are matched and she isn't going to leave her husband for your bf.

You keep mentioning the fact that she is 10 years younger. If he is that hot and really cared about age, he would be with a woman 10 years younger now, but he is not, he is with you.

Now back to DT, what is your plan of action?

 

[petite]

No it isn't really posessive, it is insecure. If the couple are freaks in bed, they are matched and she isn't going to leave her husband for your bf.

You keep mentioning the fact that she is 10 years younger. If he is that hot and really cared about age, he would be with a woman 10 years younger now, but he is not, he is with you.

Now back to DT, what is your plan of action?

I'm no fool. You act like no man has ever ended up leaving a woman as the end result of having a sexually open relationship or a threesome. I have had many friends who have decided to tempt fate only to end up wishing that they hadn't. Boyfriend is a catch in many ways other than just what's in his pants and before we began dating all my friends wanted him, so I'm well aware of his ability to make women want to chase him. I actually heard that he had a very large penis before we ever started dating because four of my friends spied on him while he was changing when they went swimming once, those perverts, but I thought my friends were exaggerating in order to be really humorous, because the telling of that tale took place over beers with a lot of giggling. One of those girls is still mad over it. She actually said, "Well, I guess you won." I did. And I plan on keeping him for as long as he's worth keeping.

Regarding the DT, I've messaged some of the big boys on this forum and asked them about getting DT-ed, but none have answered back yet. If any of them do, I'll ask for permission to post their responses here!

 

[petite]

Some help from a Google search:

Videos of women discussing how to deep throat

Another forum discussion on DT

Deep throat made easy

 

[petite]

Boyfriend came home and the advice in the first videos about being able to breathe "around" his penis doesn't work with him at all. His penis fills up the back of my throat so that it totally cuts off all the air. Still can't get it down my throat, but I gave it a valiant effort.

 

[someone1]

wow im impressioned that your trying to learn how to, more women should be like you!

 

[petite]

wow im impressioned that your trying to learn how to, more women should be like you!

Good grief there's been a dramatic change in Boyfriend's behavior ever since I seriously began this. He's out right now buying bottled springwater and a nice Highlander scotch and groceries for our night tonight. He was already a great boyfriend, but there's a definite change in the level of his desire to please me. It's motivating. I think this might be a win-win situation.

 

[lipsaflapn]

another great numbing agent is chloraceptic. my wife tried some "deepthroat gel" from an adult shop but it didn't really work as well as the chloraceptic.

god bless you for giving it this kind of effort. i wish my wife was as dedicated. deepthroating is by far the biggest turn on for me. both visually and physically.

you should check out the google group "dttech". excellent forum for the subject.

 

[hud01]

Boyfriend came home and the advice in the first videos about being able to breathe "around" his penis doesn't work with him at all. His penis fills up the back of my throat so that it totally cuts off all the air. Still can't get it down my throat, but I gave it a valiant effort.

No do not try to breathe.......If you watch the Belladonna vid...Even the pro says not to