Teach Me How to Deep Throat

[hud01]

This may be a little OT, but for those who can't DT yet, or for an alternative to keep your man happy, watch some of the Klixen videos. She focuses on the area right behind the head and man can she make a guy squirm with pleasure.

http://www.lpsg.org/152390-klixen-handjob-and-blowjob-queen.html

 

[Rikter8]

Dumb question, but I haven't heard it mentioned:

For those of you that Can Deepthroat - do you still have your tonsles?

 

[D_Machelle Longclaws]

Dumb question, but I haven't heard it mentioned:

For those of you that Can Deepthroat - do you still have your tonsles?

i still do its not a problem c:

 

[petite]

Hey Petite,

I have the same problem as you. My b/f has an unusually large head of his penis also, and while I can get it all the way to the back of my throat, the head of his cock is too big to get past a certain point. I do not want to force it for the same reason as you (popping sound? No thanks...) My mouth may be smaller than it needs to be, especially at the back of my throat...his cock literally when way back in my throat goes out past the two rows of teeth (very thick) and I find it impossible to get it past where it stops at the back. I'm trying and not gagging at all, but cannot succeed in getting it past that point.

Wow, I love your avatar! Whew!

That's exactly what happens to me! I'm going to do what Belladonna implied you should do in the video and get some dildos in graduated widths, in the squishiest dildo material that they make! I think if I started with a much thinner one and then worked my way up in width that it would be easier.

I was actually considering buying the ones intended for butt play to do this, because they tend to be built so that if it "breaks" you can pull all of it out, either via a string inside or something. I am terrified of trying this at home alone and dying, so I thought that would be an important practical point to make about toys down the throat. I know Blowfish.com always mentions whether a toy is "safe" for butt play based upon whether it was built like that, so I'm going to get those, I think.

The one time so far that I've mangaed to get it down there, using the "grow in my mouth method" a few days ago, my throat was sore for an entire day afterward, not badly but I could feel it. I don't think it's just magically going to pop down there without some sort of stretching occuring in my throat, or at least for my throat to become accustomed to the width to relax. Of course, the grow in my mouth method seems to work, it's a natural stretching technique, but I can only do it once every blowjob until I need to breathe.

I apologize, I'm rushed for time right now and don't have time to read the whole thread.

Thank you for responding and sharing your tips, I appreciate it!

A doctor mentioned using your fingers to slowly deactivate your gag reflex, which seems more convient. He actually suggested doing it 12x/day but I can't seem to remember to do it more than twice. Guess I need to put it in my phone...

This may be a little OT, but for those who can't DT yet, or for an alternative to keep your man happy, watch some of the Klixen videos. She focuses on the area right behind the head and man can she make a guy squirm with pleasure.

http://www.lpsg.org/152390-klixen-handjob-and-blowjob-queen.html

I don't mind when the conversation strays off topic, just as long as it comes back again! Thank you for the video!

 

[Enid]

Wow, 12 times a day? Yikes. The best success I've had was brought about by a combo of doing the toothbrush exercises (since I brush my teeth religiously anyways -- that way I never forget) for about 10 to 15 seconds each time (3 to 5 times a day, I brush after each meal or snack) and using the legs up in the throat swab fellatio position. Here is the position I am talking about:

Throat Swab Sex Position

Don't crook your legs with feet flat on bed like her though. Put your feet up in the air. You can bend your knees, that's fine.

 

[petite]

Wow, 12 times a day? Yikes.

I think he meant once an hour.

Here is the position I am talking about:

Throat Swab Sex Position

Don't crook your legs with feet flat on bed like her though. Put your feet up in the air. You can bend your knees, that's fine.

I might try it, but it looks scary for a beginner! TheBoyfriend is good at responding to what I want when I put my hands on his hips and push or pull, so I feel like I wouldn't be totally out of control there. I'll give it a try and see if it helps get that big head down. :redface:

 

[hud01]

I think he meant once an hour.



I might try it, but it looks scary for a beginner! TheBoyfriend is good at responding to what I want when I put my hands on his hips and push or pull, so I feel like I wouldn't be totally out of control there. I'll give it a try and see if it helps get that big head down. :redface:

You know, it might not taste great, but some vaseline on the head, might help you. Rumor has it that little oral annie used to put it in her throat when she DT's a thick one.

 

[petite]

You know, it might not taste great, but some vaseline on the head, might help you. Rumor has it that little oral annie used to put it in her throat when she DT's a thick one.

I have never heard of "little oral annie" but the name is hilarious!

I don't know if I can do vaseline. The idea of it makes me feel squicky.

 

[Silvertip]

... I had an endoscopy without an(y) sedation ... If you're breathing through your nose, the gag reflex does not kick in ...

I had the same procedure without sedation and it was no big deal. But BoyFriend's dick is a helluva lot bigger around than an endoscope. Trust me, no-one can breathe with a cock like his down their throat.

... I put all of it in my mouth and just didn't move and I let him get harder and harder as I moved my tongue inside my mouth. It worked! It just slipped down my throat. And even better, I didn't gag or feel ill or anything! I was thinking, "OMG OMG OMG!!! It's in there!!! It's really in there!!!" ...

Sounds to me as though you're well on your way to SUCKcess! If his cock grew enough to slide down your throat he must have been close to his fully erect size, just not the full stiffness that you'll have to overcome. I'd say it's something you should endeavor to repeat as often as you can. Make sure you're taking deep breaths as he grows in your mouth so your blood is well oxygenated. Then when that big cockhead slips down your throat try not to be so excited by the experience. Think pleasant, calming thoughts and relax, relax, relax. That way you can go much longer before needing to come up for air.

... For those of you that Can Deepthroat - do you still have your tonsles?

If "tonsles" are the same thing as tonsils yes, I still have both of mine and they are not an issue with deepthroating for me. But getting back to the original post:

... 2. Getting past that spot in the back of the throat ...

The one thing I found really helpful here is to relax well past any gag tendency and then think "YAWN" though obviously without taking in any air. The yawning movement opens both the jaw and throat and helps facilitate the cockhead sliding past that point smoothly. I have had a number of guys and gals force my cock into their throats (the "pop" moment previously discussed) and frankly it's not comfortable for the guy who is being swallowed. And at its worst, the popping technique could damage one of the cavernous cylinders of the penis possibly even bringing on Peyronie's disease. No, as so many have already said the key is practice, practice, practice and it sounds as though you're enjoying the practice enough that you won't be lacking in that department. To that I will again add: relax, relax, relax as gag reflex can only be overcome mentally. And do give the yawn motion a try, it certainly made the difference for me in finally swallowing my first big cock.

 

[petite]

Sounds to me as though you're well on your way to SUCKcess! If his cock grew enough to slide down your throat he must have been close to his fully erect size, just not the full stiffness that you'll have to overcome. I'd say it's something you should endeavor to repeat as often as you can. Make sure you're taking deep breaths as he grows in your mouth so your blood is well oxygenated. Then when that big cockhead slips down your throat try not to be so excited by the experience. Think pleasant, calming thoughts and relax, relax, relax. That way you can go much longer before needing to come up for air.

I've tried it several times in the shower since then and I've had no SUCKcess so far doing it there and I wonder if it had something to do with the angle. I'm going to try it in the same place where it worked the first time, with him standing up and me sitting in my desk chair.

Last night we looked around the house for a good place to try the "throat swab" position (which has got to be the LEAST sexy name for a sexual position EVER) but with him standing up, the only place that would have been at a good height is covered with stuff right now, so we probably won't be able to do it there until next week because we're both traveling this week. We're probably both going to be in a hotel this weekend that we've stayed in before that has a tall bed that will probably work, so I might try it then.

I'm sorry it takes so long to make progress updates, but real life responsibilities keep getting in the way of fun sexual experimentation. Such is our life!

The one thing I found really helpful here is to relax well past any gag tendency and then think "YAWN" though obviously without taking in any air. The yawning movement opens both the jaw and throat and helps facilitate the cockhead sliding past that point smoothly. I have had a number of guys and gals force my cock into their throats (the "pop" moment previously discussed) and frankly it's not comfortable for the guy who is being swallowed. And at its worst, the popping technique could damage one of the cavernous cylinders of the penis possibly even bringing on Peyronie's disease. No, as so many have already said the key is practice, practice, practice and it sounds as though you're enjoying the practice enough that you won't be lacking in that department. To that I will again add: relax, relax, relax as gag reflex can only be overcome mentally. And do give the yawn motion a try, it certainly made the difference for me in finally swallowing my first big cock.

In some porn you can actually hear that pop. I didn't know what it was like to experience it or that it could be painful or dangerous. That's important to know.

I'm going to try that yawn suggestion.

He's been with wilder and more sexually skilled women than me. Before we began dating he had a regular and very discreet fuckbuddy who must have been a size queen because she loved taking him up the ass and she had no problems at all with his size and preferred it to vaginal sex. She would deep throat him. I'm extremely jealous of this woman and I have a very unlady-like personal nickname for her, so he's been careful not to give me too many details about their sexual experiences, because he's wise enough to know that it would be a bad idea and it would be unkind to make me feel less adequate.

Thank you for this information! I appreciate everyone who has contributed to this thread! It's very helpful.

 

[petite]

Update:

It's definitely the angle. Tried it again with him standing up and me in my office chair, and it worked a second time! I tried to take Silvertip's advise and stay calm, but pretty boy is too good at working what he's got and my heart was beating fast before his penis was even in my mouth. I did remember this time to take deeper slower breaths. It didn't slip down my throat very easily, but it did go down semi-erect like before and like before when I took it out, I couldn't get it back down again. But I am pleased that I really think if I keep this up, I'm going to master it.

I'm going to try it in our other shower, sitting on the edge of the tub to see if it helps with the angle problem with this method. On my knees it's just not working in the shower. Yet.

 

[Throaterrific]

Sorry, I have not read all of the thread so some of what I say may have already been stated.

To me it's just as much mind as it is physical. Sometimes when I deep throat I am in a zone that allows my mind to wander. I lose my sense of fear that may pop up when deep throating a challenging cock. It's all about the cock. If I think about gagging there is more of a chance that I will. I just try to be in a zone of giving complete pleasure to my partner.

Let's face it, giving a blow job is much more of a mind game to the giver then fucking is. The pleasure we get is in the giving. Yea there is some pleasure to how a big cock feels in our throat but mostly it's about the pleasure of giving. You either love to suck cock or you don't. If you are doing for him then and not for yourself too then you are more likely to fail.

One thing I do is squirt a little water based lube in my mouth. That lubricates my mouth and throat. It's easier for a cock to glide down your throat when you have that extra additive.

If I have a big thick cock that is challenging me, the first time I get it down I stay there for as long as it's comfortable for me not to breath. Your partner will like this to. The thickness of the cock will help expand your throat. It will help your throat to get use to the thickness of the cock. Less cchance of gagging too, if there is no movement. It's a really big turn on to me to take a guy as far in as I possibly can go and then hold it there for as long as I can. In the process you are teaching your throat to deep throat.

Hope that helped some.