The fastest a woman has had an orgasm???

[EboniGoddess]

You guys are incredible! I have had orgasms with a vibrator (ussually taking atleast 10 minutes on high) but after the first one i've never had another during the same stint. How can all of you have multiple orgasms? I've tried to keep playing with the vibrator after my orgasm and still nothing.:dunno: This is making me sad. From what i've heard in this forum some of you can cum almost instantly and I can barely get it to feel ok. Me and my ex would have sex atleast 3 times a week and he would always cum and I was so desperate to feel an orgasm with someone I let him convince me to go bareback because he said it "feels awesome". Still did nothing for me while he was always getting his rocks off. As to date, nothing but a vibrator had given me an orgasm.

 

[7x6]

It totally depends on the woman. I never made my ex wife cum through penetration. When I met her she had never cum in the company of anyone else but after a couple of years I managed to with a couple of fingers on her G-spot and some fairly rough sucking and nibbling of her clit. I got very good at this, to the point where she would cum every time but it was always before penetration. She thought the idea of switching to oral after fucking was "dirty" and, i'm ashamed to say, I went along with this. Might have been a different story if either of us had been more experienced but as it was, sex became a problem, we always fucked after she'd finished and "took to long".

My next long term girfriend was a revelation, she usually came after 15 minutes of hard fucking but wasn't into anything else, didn't like me even going down on her. Weird sex now I look back on it, very basic but her incredibly tight pussy meant I came easier than I ever have with anyone else. We'd often collapse in mutual orgasm after those 15 minutes. Wonderful basic fucking...

Another ex was like my ex-wife but far more adventurous. Took ages but we'd maybe have a good long fuck, i'd go down on her, she'd cum and i'd fuck her orgasm engorged pussy until I came. I could sometimes make her cum without my mouth but i'd usually be fucking her while she had a vibrator in her ass or i'd be using my whole hand...

Since then i've met a few multi-orgasmic women. My current girfriend cums in maybe five minutes and then again every five minutes or so. She sometimes gets impatient with me but at other times, when I finally cum after she's had 5 or 6 orgasms, she's in the mood for more, which i'm usually up for but cumming again for me is pretty unlikely. I love to oblige anyway

I also spent a while with a woman who came incredibly easily. So much so that it sounds like bullshit. every two minutes or so, usually squirting, sometimes, when really turned on they would run together and she'd be cumming for several minutes at a time. Our relationship consisted almost entirely of fucking her shuddering body and laying together in a puddle on a waterproof sheet waiting for my cock to get hard again. A true nympho. She also had the loosest pussy i've ever experienced but when she'd cum maybe 10 times or more she'd be so engorged that she'd tighten up deep in her pussy. I'd be fucking her loose, sopping wet cunt and feel the depths of it tighten around my cockhead. Then, and only then would I be able to cum.

Interestingly, all of the women i've known who can cum through penetration that i've discussed it with claim that it is something they only learned in their 30s from an amazing lover. Sadly, i've never been that amazing lover but I thank these guys whoever they were for helping these women know their bodies better.

 

[mcrw]

Multiorgasmic here. I can get off with penetration from just a thumb inside of my in about 5 seconds. During sex, continuos. That's why I'm a screamer! My clit takes a little longer, anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes.

 

[EboniGoddess]

I must say i've tried every way possible to cum....missionary...doggy style...standing up, bending over, laying on my my stomach, sideways.....everything (i have a book with sex positions).

Man, some people cum so easy like its nothing. I wish it was me. Its weird when every time the guy cums and I don't.

 

[maestro071]

Orgasms with a partner take 2 - 20 min. depending upon stimulation (stroke), foreplay, and intoitness. By myself?
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That's it... What do I do: All what I can, lol :biggrin1:

 

[7x6]

I must say i've tried every way possible to cum....missionary...doggy style...standing up, bending over, laying on my my stomach, sideways.....everything (i have a book with sex positions).

Man, some people cum so easy like its nothing. I wish it was me. Its weird when every time the guy cums and I don't.

You talked about a "vibrator on high" in a previous post, can you make yourself cum without it?, if not, maybe you should try to wean yourself off it. A guy is far more likely to be able to do the job of your fingers with his fingers and mouth than the job of a bit of fast vibrating plastic. If that just isn't going to work, maybe talk to your man and get him to use the vibrator on you. Just cumming with someone else there will break down an important barrier.

Sorry if i'm making assumptions here and you've tried all of this but I think you really should talk about it to your man, tell him you love fucking even if you don't cum but you'd like him to try to do what it takes. Personally, I find women who find it hard to cum no less of a turn on than multi-orgasmic women. In fact, my current girlfriend makes me stop eating her and begs to be fucked after a minute, she's also so sensitive that she doesn't like me using my fingers and mouth together which sometimes feels like a waste of a hard earned skill developed over many years!

It may be true that most men are selfish lovers but a hell of a lot of us aren't and find giving pleasure at least as important as our own orgasm.

 

[EboniGoddess]

I threw away my vibrator around christmas time because I had to go back to school and didn't want my grandmother to find it. I hide my stuff in the weirdest places and my grandmother always finds it. She's found "blank dvds" and she's found my cards with naked men on them. Talking about this has me thinking about the time me and my cousin (15 or 16) at the time were playing with them. As we were throwing out cards we couldn't stop laughing. And on numerous occasions my bff's boyfriend would give me and her porn and when her mother would find it (with a "I-WANNA-WATCH-IT smile) she'd always say I gave it to her instead of her boyfriend.

Back to the subject, besides the vibrator I have very sensitive nipples and I can cum just by rubbing them. Doesn't feel right when a guys licks, bite, rub or play with it though. I had that vibrator since I was like 16 and had used it so much it died. Then I got another one and kept that one till I threw it away. My teammates and my female coach (I played basketball in HS) would always laugh and me and my coach would always talk about our love of white men (even though her ex-husband and father of her 2 kids were black). I thought having sex with a white person would be a turn on but I still got nothing. For now, just me rubbing my nipples gets the job done


My last bf would get mad that I wouldn't cum and I would tell him to go ahead and cum instead of waiting. He would always ask me am I about to cum. Eventually I started "faking it" (I know) and he felt a little better.

 

[ThisSpace4Rent]

For my wife, via fingering or intercourse it takes about 5-10 minutes.

For oral it's almost instant (5-10 seconds of it and she cums really hard). I wish I could say I have some awesome oral technique, but my ex before her couldn't cum from oral so I think it's just something that really floats her particular boat

 

[Pottox]

I must say i've tried every way possible to cum....missionary...doggy style...standing up, bending over, laying on my my stomach, sideways.....everything (i have a book with sex positions).

Man, some people cum so easy like its nothing. I wish it was me. Its weird when every time the guy cums and I don't.

Well, it's possible that, when you are doing it, you are too concerned about having an orgasm, and that's counter-productive.

When you learn to relax and simply have fun, I'm sure that you, being as hot as Hell, could be able to have a dozen orgasms. Trust me, beauty.

 

[Jovial]

You guys are incredible! I have had orgasms with a vibrator (ussually taking atleast 10 minutes on high) but after the first one i've never had another during the same stint. How can all of you have multiple orgasms? I've tried to keep playing with the vibrator after my orgasm and still nothing.:dunno: This is making me sad. From what i've heard in this forum some of you can cum almost instantly and I can barely get it to feel ok. Me and my ex would have sex atleast 3 times a week and he would always cum and I was so desperate to feel an orgasm with someone I let him convince me to go bareback because he said it "feels awesome". Still did nothing for me while he was always getting his rocks off. As to date, nothing but a vibrator had given me an orgasm.

Well, I've heard or for some reason I believe that as women get older it becomes easier for them to have orgasms and multiple orgasms. It's either biological or they are just more comfortable with their bodies as they get toward 30. I believe you are still young, so as you get older you will probably learn. It might just take the right partner to get you relaxed enough to let go and have an orgasm. Some people are just shy about letting themselves go and having an orgasm in front of someone else. If that's you they you need to find someone you are very comfortable with.

 

[EboniGoddess]

Both of you quite frankly could be sorta right. I try to be as "loose" as possible and not have that on my mind but when the guy looks at me and asks me am I about to cum and I say NO they always have that look on their face as if they ain't good enough. I fell bad and always try to say "its not you....its me".

 

[TinyPrincess]

First time with my ex, it only took 5-10 secs - he wasn't even all the way in. Usually it takes from 2-30 mins...

 

[deleted3272]

Fastest ive had a girl get off was as soon as I penetrated her, mabie halfway in. It was amazing.

 

[ZOS23xy]

You might check if you are borderline diabetic; this can cause some blood flow problems (a sign of this would be chilly hands, toes and a continuous thirst.)...still might not hurt for a check up.

Or do you have inhibitions about being discovered? By Gramma?

 

[SurferGirlCA]

No matter how fast a woman has orgasmed, my experience tells me there is prolly a guy who could beat her record. :tongue:

 

[prettygirlzz]

less than a minute:tongue:

 

[apirlo17]

Both of you quite frankly could be sorta right. I try to be as "loose" as possible and not have that on my mind but when the guy looks at me and asks me am I about to cum and I say NO they always have that look on their face as if they ain't good enough. I fell bad and always try to say "its not you....its me".

What turns u on?? what do you fantasize about? i mean there's gotta be something. for the fact that u've actually cum with a vibrator, it means u can cum. there's a lotta factors involved..what state of mind are u in when ur fucking? have the guys u've had sex with evr matched the kind of guy u'd fantasize about..or have any of 'em come close to that? have their dicks satisfied u?? i mean...i'm sure there's somthing..u've cum before so a great deal of why u're not cummin wit sombody is psychological..all in ur head..

 

[B_New End]

Have you ever tried using your vibrator during sex?

 

[Guy-jin]

For my mate, she cums between 1 and 5 minutes every time from fingering or oral sex. She's extremely sensitive to touch, ticklish everywhere, she shakes almost violently when her clitoris or nipples are stimulated, or even when she's just touched enough sensually.

I've made her cum in under a minute two different ways:

First, directly stimulating her clitoris and nipples simultaneously. The key there was direct stimulation of the clitoris. For her, I have to be really careful because if I rub her clitoris just wrongly, she'll experience significant pain. I place my fingertips directly onto her clitoris and rub in a circular motion with varying levels of pressure, paying attention to her responses so I know it's not going to hurt. Simultaneously, I lightly rub one nipple with my other hand and lick around and over the other with my tongue.

Second way isn't really in under a minute, I suppose, but it could be, and I'll explain why. Before doing this, I usually kiss her, do some breast play and put pressure on her vulva to make her wet if she isn't already. I then take my index and middle finger and enter her vagina with my palm facing up while she's laying face-up, slowly working down to my knuckles, so maybe three and a half inches into her vagina. I basically wiggle my fingers up and down (as if I were beckoning to someone) as I move back and forth by an inch or so. With my other hand, I lightly rub over her clit and hold her down because this makes her go crazy and she will almost flip out. She cums extremely quickly from this! Anyway, I think it could be under a minute if I were to use lube and just go for it, but that would kind of miss the point and be less fulfilling for both of us even though it'd make her cum faster, I'm sure.

She does cum from vaginal intercourse as well, most often if I make a point of having my dickhead rub back and forth against her G spot similar to what I do with my fingers above. She rarely cums if I fuck her hard or go balls deep, though it's happened, probably because it's a really thin line between pleasure and pain for her at that point.

Experience has taught me that every woman seems to have a different need when it comes to achieving orgasm. My ex absolutely required almost violent breast stimulation, needed to be on top and needed to be fucked deeply for it to happen, and getting her off through oral or fingering was nearly impossible. So, I'm not sure what help I can give you personally.

If you can figure out how to make yourself cum, you can teach a mate to do it for you. You said you can cum from stimulating your own tits, but not from a man stimulating them. If you teach the man how they need to be touched, that may change. My current mate and my previous mate needed very different types of nipple stimulation to cum, for example.

You might also need an emotional connection to really get into the act enough emotionally to cum, too.

Good luck.

 

[B_andyo]

less than 5 seconds.