I think its more about personal preference, as to loose vs tight. Ive been around the block a time or two in my day, and have found dramatic differences in vagina tightness. Some were so tight it was nearly impossible to get in, but pure heaven once inside, while others I could slip right in and not feel a much. I think wetness is also a factor in how a pussy feels, but its been said time and time again on this site that women come in different sizes just like men do, in depth and width.
To say its okay for some women to need a big dick to get off, but for a guy to want a tight pussy makes him insecure, is very hypocritical to me.
I think there is an average for women's sizes, and most fall into a middle type range. I have been in loose ones that couldnt get me off even after hours of sex, and tight ones that made sex insanely good. But those are just my opinions and my experiences.
This.
Some women must be extremely stupid/ignorant and/or pathetic. Either they refuse to believe the fact that vaginas differ in size, so they can blame the bad sex on his "small" penis, or they simply don't know that vaginas differ in size.
Some vaginas are bigger and/or more loose than others, and women need to accept this. Even young women who haven't given birth can have huge and/or loose vaginas.
But it's funny that nearly all women believe that they have incredibly tight vaginas...