no, it will get fit from lots of orgasms. great for working out the muscles.
silly man.
IIve been around the block a time or two in my day, and have found dramatic differences in vagina tightness. Some were so tight it was nearly impossible to get in, but pure heaven once inside, while others I could slip right in and not feel a much. I think wetness is also a factor in how a pussy feels, but its been said time and time again on this site that women come in different sizes just like men do, in depth and width.
One shocked me...because the vagina...was simply enormous. I didn't, but I probably could have put my arm inside her.
I think the size variations are similar to cocks, most are pretty much the same size give or take, but there extremes at either end.
I also think that there is a difference in feel sometimes. I don't know whether that is because of more lubrication or because of a better fit, but some are definitely silkier. Then of course the woman knowing what to do with it makes a huge difference.
Vagina's are tight tight when unaroused.
I think men who state the preference for tight vaginas are refering to inexperienced women, neat "looking" vaginas, or a deluded sense of tight = virtue.
I am not trying to insult anyone here... but I could definitely tell the difference when having sex with a girl that i had known to have been around a lot compared to some others... but meh i don't really care. she was hot and wanted to have sex with me, so how can i really complain?
So this means all my years of sitting or walking around in public tightening my vaginal muscles and potentially looking stupid is all in vain???
Do any of you girls have a self insecurity about yourself that you do things to try and perfect the way your partner wants you.. or you think the way your partner wants you?
There is most definitely notable differences in vaginal tightness between women; I also don't see any reason why repeated use wouldn't stretch it out or loosen it. When women are with a guy with large girth, doesn't it take a while to get used to it? Wouldn't that getting-used-to-it phase be one in which the muscles were relaxing?
And I don't think swingers are the best sample for vaginal tightness, they may be a little mores stretched out than your run-of-the-mill girl.
I am a swinger, I associate with swingers, and let me tell you, the things these girls can do with their pussies would astound you...it is very common with many women this fear - if we fuck we will be loose and they will be able to tell. It is complete bullshit.
The loose slur is part of the slut mythology to judge women and control them. The best fucking I get is with women who have had more sex than the combined membership of the British Women's Institute.
Women say they prefer a man who knows what he is doing, I have the same attitude towards women. "You ain't had no juicy lucy, till you been loved by one of these" :biggrin1:
Sex research is horrible and the field of sex study is in the Dark Ages. It's time to update that Kama Sutra and figure out how in detail to connect the many varied people of planet earth together better.
How can all of these differences find their place in the spotlight for admirers to come by?
I wasn't gonna say anything, but I don't think I'd want to get lost in there. I guess she's saying there is a difference, eh? I'll buy her a salami.:biggrin1::biggrin1:
Obscene nomenclature for female genitalia has always been the preserve of low status males. Working for a gilt edged Wall Street company with a 6 figure salary does not preclude some men from this behaviour, however it brands them as low class and sexist (in the sense of being afraid of women) and in its primitive rutalustic trading of insults is/was a way of impuning a woman's reputation, honour and virginity. The only places I have seen this sort of bullying is in semi criminal areas of Naples and in middle class American colleges (fraternities) which proves the old saying you can take the man out of the slum but not the slum out of the man.
Generally, if you can fit three fingers inside of you, that is considered to be loose
pussy does not "usually" return to normal 12 months after childbirth. Some women can have two kids and it goes back to normal right away, then the third does her in and some can also have only one kid and have a loose pussy afterwards
If you did take the time to read the thread you would notice the sentiment was on "sexual activity does not make a pussy loose" This is a fact.
Honey
And to HollyBlue - you claim that you haven't experienced any loosening - fine, that's your experience, but two things : one, please don't call me ignorant for having a differing opinion,
and two, don't you think your kegels would have something to do with keeping your muscles toned?
Sesshomaru said:I find that a tight pussy actually restricts the flow of lubricating liquid because there just isn't enough room for it to do it's job. A loose pussy has much more room and in turn is much, much wetter. The juices flow right on out.
What a crock of shit. What women have you been with ??? Every single women I have ever fingered has easily been able to take 3 fingers inside her......jesus.
I think you're right Honey but maybe he was speaking about a pussy you can fit 3 fingers in without any special effort or pressure to open it (i've seen one of them, a friend of mine: redhead, tall and with big lips) and then consider that male fingers are usually much bigger than women ones
Women's vaginas vary in size and shape naturally as do cocks. Nature's way.
I'm beginning to think we need a sticky on female biology. I'm dumbfounded at the inane things some people believe.
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Yes, I totally agree about the inanities and the need for a FAQ or a sticky.