threesomes

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  1. themember

    themember New Member

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    whats up ladies
    have any of you had mmf threesomes?
    if so let me hear your experiences
    ive always thought about tag teaming a girl with a friend of mine i think it would be hot
    not bi or anything but i think id like double teaming a girl for some reason
    my gf also thinks it may be hot and is willing to try, and since i wouldnt be touching the guy shed have no reason to be jealouse of me
    but me on the other hand...if i ever do this should i try to make sure the guy isnt bigger than me..better looking than me..ect
    or should i do the best to make sure i find a well endowed good looking guy for her...i dont think im the jealouse type but i hear that its a different story after its over with

    anyway let me hear your thoughts
    and i doubt ill ever do this...but just in case i do i wanna know what to expect
     
  2. Not_Punny

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    I sometimes do threesomes -- my bf and another guy. What I like is sucking one dick while I'm being fucked doggie style; or I'm on my back and one guy is fucking my mouth while the other guy is fucking me with my legs up. They also take turns watching while touching themselves. Sometimes, a "third guy" will ONLY sit back and masturbate while watching the show. The two guys never touch or play with each other.

    The most fun part is the FUN of it. We joke, laugh, talk dirty, etc. It's NOTHING like what you see in porn movies -- it's more like going to a ball game (double meaning intended). Maybe it would be more like a porn movie if we added some B&D elements to it, but I have yet to try that with a threesome... hmmmm, maybe I will...

    But I digress.

    If the "third guy" is a "virgin" at this, make sure he's not a regular member of your social circle in case it gets a bit weird.

    BUT, if the third guy is already a player (has done this before), no problem.

    And make sure that the third guy is NICE to your gf afterwards and respectfully thanks her or gives her a thank you card. Good manners are essential. You HAVE to thank the "hostess" for having you... and a hostess gift is always welcome.

    Oh, and as far as safety goes, condoms, condoms, condoms. My bf is safe, so I can suck him no problem. But without a condom on, I will not give a full blow job to another guy. I'm very strict about safety.
     
  3. themember

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    yeah i think it would be moer just laying around and having fun if i ever did it...i probably wont though id feel like i was corrupting my gf..she seems to be more like..yeah it would be kinda hot but i dunno if id like it
    so i think ill lay it to rest...but in the future when im single i definately want to tag team some girl with a buddy or two..have you ever done DP? i once used a dildo on the front and penis on the back and she went INSANE screaming louder than ever before..but shes a little scared to do it again since she was really sore after
     
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    Nope, never done double penetration. I know some people like it, but it kinda worries me. I'll probably never do it.
     
  5. Heather LouAnna

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    I've had many a threesome. :) We had one last night actually. lol It's usually a male and female couple for me, though I have been with two men as well. The latter is a little overwhelming, if both gentlement are well endowed, so be very nice to the lady involved. :)

    Being in a mmf threesome with two gentlemen who're (haha, I said whore) not bisexual can feel a little off at times. The girl gets all the attention but also has the arduous task of pleasing two men. It's not for everyone. :)

    Unfortunately, I've never actually been in a threesome with three women. I have, however, been in orgies where there was more than three women involved at a time.
     
  6. Osiris

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    I had a great experience my third time doing it, but the first and second time sucked.

    Hopefully the failures of the first two times I'm going to relate will help you avoid the problems inherent in smoe threesomes.

    Time number one: A really good friend of mine had a girl who wanted a threesome. Well I knew them both and they wanted me to be the third party so I said sure. two weeks later I found out they had broken up because she then asked him how he'd feel if she did a one-on-one with me?
    Lesson: Make sure your relationshipo is either rock solid or that it isn't one you are going to be worried about losing in the end.

    Time number two: A girl I was strictly having a sex based relationship with wanted me and a buddy of mine to double up on her. We did and I thought it was great. My buddy on the other hand hated it. His thought? I got more play because I was "bigger" than he was.
    Lesson: Pick someone similar in build, that is secure in their cock size, or that doesn't suffer from penis envy issues.

    The third time I avoided all the above and I had numerous threesomes with the two I had my third experience with.

    Good luck and hope this helps.
     
  7. IchWill69

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    Well, in my experience you need mature people who can seperate sex from love if you plan on having a girlfriend you care about shared with another man who is in your social circle.

    Discretion and good manners are key and bring a good sense of humor. Have fun with it and don't be afraid to talk about it afterwards too each other as unspoken feelings just weird everyone out. In short, it should be something you guys did, had fun with, and are unashamed of.
     
  8. Not_Punny

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    Hear, hear! Well said, Osiris and IchWill69... perhaps we should author a threesome textbook together... might take some practice first (my bf seconds that motion!) :wink:
     
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    I hate to be pedantic but a MMF threesome is by definition bi. If you're just talking about tag-teaming with no MM contact then it's called a MFM threesome... :p
     
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    Have done 3some with both 2 guys and me another girl and a guy... have done DP and I love it!!.. but imma kinky bitch.. aint too much i havent done :biggrin1:
     
  11. themember

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    nothing wrong with being kinky..thanks for the advice everyone
    and girls..who have had two guys at once..did you find you reacted to different sizes regardless of skill
    i mean if you were on top
     
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    Loveitbitch and Hotmilf....you women are amazing. Wish ya lived next door.
     
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    :biggrin1: My best partners are those who live abroad..... I always get caught with the ones who live close lol
     
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    Never had one but hopefully one day i will get the nerve to.

    I think id like to have a MMf threesome with the guys interacting with each other as well. And if i was going to be intimate with a woman id prefer to keep at least that first time between just the two of us with no male participation.


    Also, i doubt id be worried if either guy was big. actually i doubt i could take 2 big guys at the same time
     
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    I love it when you talk dirty!! :biggrin1:
     
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    Threesomes can be a blast. Ah, memories.
     
  17. Not_Punny

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    To tell you the truth, size was only an issue once, and that was when a guy was smaller than average (maybe 4" erect). He never stopped apologizing for his size, and I wanted to clamp my hands over my ears!

    It would have been soooo much more fun if the guy had been "cocky" about SOMETHING... abs, biceps, mouth, hands, tongue, sense of humor... ANYTHING.

    Lesson: If your Maker didn't give you a bigger dick, look around and find what assets/talents He DID give you... :wink:

    Sigh... we'd never get any work done!:wink:
     
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    This is one of my longest running fantasies. One that I actually want to make happen. (As opposed to other fantasies that are best left as just fantasy.) I have tried to get it together a few times but no luck.
     
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    i'm jealous of all you guys that did this,especially more than once.closet i ever came to this was me gettin' sucked by the girl while my friend had her bent over a kitchen table....i got another chance a few years later but my buddy came all over the girl before anything got really started.
     
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    Hey there. I followed your advice and link. I love MFM threesomes as well - so if you and your BF are interested sometime, let me know. Sounds like we'd have a lot of fun together.

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