tips for deep anal

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  1. B_bottom87

    B_bottom87 New Member

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    I've been using a new dildo its 10" long but slim i want to get the whole of it inside me but i struggle to get passed 7-7 and half inches i see pornstars do it with ease but i can't. Any tips that will help me male or female help would be grateful :smile:
     
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    Sniff some poppers.

    This info is provided for entertainment purposes only :tongue:
     
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    angle helps big time, with me and my partner we were doing it doggy but the he told me to stop coz i was hitting something inside so i stopped adjusted so my hips were higher and my cock entering in a downward angle, that seemed to work better
     
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    Try taking it while on your back. When you want it inside, push it so it's heads toward the front of your body.
    You may get to a point in your body where there is a sharp curve that leads into the sigmoid colon of your body and from there you'd need to reapply lube and basically restart the anal part of the sex, but I've never needed to get anything that deep in there yet. :tongue:
     
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    Not to stomp on bottom87's post but I'm hopping to piggy back on it as we have a very similar question. She is female and and I'm a Bi male with an anal sex question.
    I've had the same problem but with my new lover. He is about 9" long and 2" in diameter, (thats 6" in circumference). Anyway, when my male lover and I first started to have anal sex, he would hit the point of pain at about 7" of insertion, but after a couple of thrysts he could get in my ass all the way except when I'm on my back, with my knees against my chest and my ass pointed up to receive him as deeply as possible. Then it Hurts when he plunged deep. Really Hurt. Is this part of the body ( the deeper part of the rectum) flexible enough to expand so that I can take in his cock all the way with some practice?
    I'm new to anal sex with long and large diameter cocks.
    TIA
     
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    What is the sigmoid colon? And how far up the rectum is it?
     
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    You can try this. It works for me. I use a really thin and long soft dildo to dilate. It solved the problem for me. I found that it doesn't need to be as wide as his penis and when starting, trying to use a wide one is counterproductive. The one I use is 3/4" wide, I think. It slips in there easily.

    If you do a search for old threads on the subject of having anal sex (with a big penis is implied here) there are a lot of great threads with a lot of information. It's worth the trouble if you really want to learn.
     
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    ive heard any more then 6 inches inside is very dangerous to do..! Is a few inches more worth it?
     
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    The sigmoid colon is the area before your colon (which you clean before you have anal sex). It has its own separate sphincter muscles that are farther up your anus and can be between 7-12 inches into your rectum. Apparently it's better than anal sex once you can get it in, but I've never take anything that far into my anus. :eek:
     
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    I'm 6.5 inches long and have penetrated several people of both genders without any problems and I have been penetrated (anally) by two different guys that are both 8-9" (I'm new to anal) and very thick, (about 2" in diameter, or 6" in diameter) without problems until they penetrate me to about 7 inches or more...…….But everything has to be done properly. See the other posts on this subject.
    Hope This Helps……..
    Jim
     
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    I have a 8.5" dildo and have taken guys over 8" that went passed the 'second ring'...the right angle is important to be able to take it...cleaning out and using lube are important too.
     
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    Great information to know.
     
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    Relax and enjoy is all i gotta say
     
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    i love doggy he can get into my ass deeply and his cock really hits my prostate and i can sometimes have anal orgasms that way
     
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    I think some people must go about anal all wrong. Aside from a few times when I was young and inexperienced, I’ve never set out with anal sex specifically in mind. Perhaps that’s the main mistake most guys make. I can’t think of one time that anal wasn’t wildly successful to some degree.

    Since I don’t study anal sex I can only offer some successful tips that have worked for me…

    First and foremost - Become an expert in oral sex… Start with just going down on her. Then when she’s getting soaking wet; lie down on your back and guide her pussy to your mouth. During the 69 style oral sex session; dude on bottom. Give her an orgasm or two… Use your tongue and hand(s). When she’s getting really into it (you’ll know by her body movements, how she’s handling your cock, her grip, etc… and what she’s saying/mumbling) - start playing with her ass. Push around the hole while licking her, slip a lubed finger in (shallow) – tease her for 5 to 10 mins – slip a thumb in her pussy and a finger in her ass – keep licking and sucking! Slip two finger tips in and spread her ass open (slowly). Leave it alone for a min or two and go back to her pussy. Tease her; make her want you. Generally speaking, before I’m done with this initial 69 position, I will have worked two to four fingers in her ass. Your mission is to ease her into it, let her trust you and loosen her up…

    More times than not, she’s asking me to get inside her; fuck her, fill her up or something similar. Let her beg! You can go to missionary, reach down and continue playing with her ass while fucking or go to doggy and continue playing with her ass. If moving to doggy; remember to keep changing the pace – deep, hard, soft, slow, shallow, her head low and ass high, her back straight, and so on….. At some point, let her back on to your cock; sit back on your heels and put a pillow under your ass; let her control the depth and pace. Circle the tip of your dick around her ass periodically and at some point, position it right on her ass and let her back onto it. Nearby lube is handy, but pussy juice and spit also work. Let her control the pace and depth. At this point, you can flip her on her side or stand up (keep her ass up in doggy position) and put your feet in front of her hips; now, you can take long strokes and pound if your both ready. A note of caution is to keep lubed so she isn’t in too much discomfort the next day – you’ll want her to invite you back on that ride!

    Happy fucking!
     
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    I have a very large cock and always manage to get it into my boyfriends' sigmoid colon but only once have I had it in my sigmoid colon. It is 1000000000 times better than the prostate. It drives you crazy. It was so good I made him do it to me 3 more times that day. While I had my orgasm, every time he thrusted and touched my sigmoid colon, semen would gush out of my penis.
     
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    Try anal on an exercise ball. Deep penetration and very fun.