Hi, I never had a well hung boyfriend before marriage. But I was always intruiged by the idea of trying one out to see how it feels and my hubby also liked the idea. So he found a guy through someone's reference and we became good friends with him. I did end up sleeping with him and the first 2 times was quite painful, but the 3rd time was more pleasurable than painful. I think that from next time onwards, I will actually start liking it !! There is some truth in the idea that a vagina enjoys a big, thick penis more. But it has to be really, really wet and the owner of the penis has to be a really nice guy and not a jerk. Fortunately, we seem to have found the perfect guy. And our marriage is secure so far !