Urinal voyeurism

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  1. tommasters

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    Hey, straight men. I am a big-time voyeur who loves to check out guys at the urinals of a public restroom. It seems to me that some straight men really enjoy it or at least aren't threatened by it while other guys are clearly uncomfortable.

    Does it bother you when a guy checks out your cock at a urinal?
     
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    I would never look at anyone else but I think I would laugh internally if I saw someone looking descretely. I might say something if I saw them staring and dont know how that would go.
     
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    It doesn't 'bother' me to the point that I feel threatened. I'm not a fan of it, though.
     
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    I've never noticed anyone sizing me up at a urinal. I imagine I would be quite flattered by the appreciation of a voyeur, though like anyone else, my comfort would depend on the charisma of said voyeur.
     
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    I'm a big fan of decorum, scoping a man out as he's taking a piss is a violation of privacy. I'd probably freak if I saw someone looking over the divider or leaning in far too close. Then I'd get angry if they didn't back off.

    Honestly, it just sounds skin crawling creepy.
     
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    I've never noticed, but it would creep me out if someone did.
     
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    I don't think straight guys check out other guys cocks when having a piss unless the other guy flashes a huge cock, and even then it would be a quick double take I'm sure...then eyes firmly straight ahead. LOL
    I have had many guys check me out but they are always clearly into guys and want to have a feel if you will let them, or even jack you of a little if the restroom is quiet obviously. I have done it/allowed them to do it several times and enjoyed the attention. Usually guys who have wanted to touch me said they wanted to touch me because I was uncut and feel my foreskin.
    I am not hugely hung and don't kid myself that I was anything more than an accommodating stranger who allowed a quick thrill, but I have quite enjoyed it as I say and will do it again if I like the look of the guy!
    That's my penny's worth guys...
     
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    I'd say it doesn't bother me at all, but to Big_Adam's point - if you're acting all creepy about it, expect me to get creeped out.
     
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    What they said!
     
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    Used to happen much more when trough urinals were common. More privacy now, it occurs less. It never really bothered me though.
     
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    I don't use ureyenals. I'ma cubicle bloke.
     
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    Really, who cares?

    We are all men, we've all got a dick, what's the problem?
     
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    who gives a shit...we all got em (cocks), so checking another guy's peen out at the urinals is no biggy. Just don't stare or be overly conspicuous about it. All that being said I can count on one hand the number of times that I've ever checked out another guy whilest taking a piss
     
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    thanks for the feedback, guys. i really appreciate your honesty.
     
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    Yeah, we all have 'em (cocks) så why the hell stare? Voyeurism is by definition a sexual fetish.

    There's a difference between instinctively comparing for a second and staring for a sexual purpose. One is harmless and somewhat accidental, the other is invasion of privacy. And I'm sure, in spite of its nature, that public urination at urinals is considered a private matter by most people.

    I, for one, am not interested in being included in other peoples sexual interests unwillingly. And I wont include others in mine.

    I'm sure most people would agree that it's rude to stare in situations when women have to urinate in public. Why is this any different?
     
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    I've been stared at at the urinals that don't have the divider wings, and it can some times make me freeze up--leave me alone and let me do my business
     
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    Its just a cock like noses we allgot one a quick glance maneb but dont stare
     
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    I tend to look straight ahead when I public urinals, If someone accidentally views me or quick glance I would not have a problem. Anything more than 3 seconds is kind of over the line.
     
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    thanks again, guys, for the responses.
     
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    I'll never believe that "straight guys" sneak a peek in public just because they want to compare their own. They're doing it for cheap thrills.

    I expect to be left the fuck alone in public bathrooms.