I met my now wife while she was on holiday from Africa in Australia. She was looking for someone when we were introduced, but not to gain access to my country. She was looking for the good man that she couldn't find in her homeland.
To the cynics and a word of advice to all: Western men are in demand in the rest of the world. We are often seen as treating women well, as treating them as equals. We are seen to be honest, reliable and trustworthy. There are countless wonderful women out there waiting to fall in love with men like upward curve and myself.
And those women? Often they are feminine, supportive, loving and sensual. Perhaps less likely to be selfish or to turn the sex tap off after a few years. Love and committment mean a lot, and love means making a man feel special, and sex makes a man feel special. Therefore, the effort is made in many ways, including love and sex.
Think about this. There are many women out there who are the real deal, who want to find a good man to share a life with and to be a good father to their children. They will make him king of their lives, and because they are wonderful women they will be queens.