Watching men ejaculate.

[adam4]

Why is it that when you guys are about to cum, you look down at your penis while it does it? It seems like whenever men masturbate and they are about to cum, regardless of whatever they were watching/doing, their eye go directly to their penis as it shoots? Is this something you do? Why?

 

[ManBonzi20]

just wanna see how the golden juice spills !!! lol

 

[adam4]

just wanna see how the golden juice spills !!! lol

Haha, but do you know why? Is it something you have to see to know you're having an orgasm? Is it reflex/instinct?

 

[Ander Baker]

I think we men (the ones that look) want to know if it's a big load or not.

 

[adam4]

I think we men (the ones that look) want to know if it's a big load or not.

Why? What would be the difference if it is or if it's not? Does that change anything?

 

[Ander Baker]

Why? What would be the difference if it is or if it's not? Does that change anything?

No, and if I watch it won't make a large ejaculation necessarily . I just like to turn my attention to the focal point of my orgasm.

 

[Jjz1109]

It's because we CAN see it. If a woman could see her orgasm, she would watch too.

 

[SlamminSammy]

Why is it that when you guys are about to cum, you look down at your penis while it does it? It seems like whenever men masturbate and they are about to cum, regardless of whatever they were watching/doing, their eye go directly to their penis as it shoots? Is this something you do? Why?

I do that because I cum a lot & far & it's visual stimulation for me to watch it shoot out.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Why? What would be the difference if it is or if it's not? Does that change anything?

Well, most men are quite visual. So seeing any aspect of sex can be more arousing (though blindfold play can be outstanding!) and watching/having a big load is definitely a turn-on for me. We also find it sexy to see our cum dripping all over our partner's body. In that regard it really helps to have a partner who enjoys this too, so we don't feel as if we're degrading them, which I've never understood, maybe that's another thread.

 

[boatnik]

When I masturbate often my eyes are closed and I am lost in the sensation of sexual energy. However, whether my eyes are open or not, right when I cum I can't help but close my eyes because the feelings are so intense. I don't think I have ever seen myself ejaculate - I only see the aftereffects.

 

[gigantor68]

Guys are generally visually stimulated more than women. I think guys like to see where women probably like to feel more than see.

 

[keenobserver]

I don't as much anymore. I think for a long time I did because I was just in awe that such sensations were possible. I can remember being pleased with a large ejaculation and surprised when an orgasm did not produce what I expected. Over the years I learned the orgasm was the goal, the ejaculation was secondary - it really happens AFTER the orgasm so is largely irrelevant. I had a guy teach me about edging and milking. In edging the goal is to delay or deny orgasm as long as possible in an on going encounter. It is wildly exciting and frustrating at the same time. Milking often focuses on having as many orgasms as possible in a single on going encounter. I can still have an intense orgasm long past the time when I can ejaculate. That was a revelation to me at the time.

I prefer to be looking my partner in the eyes or at least watching his overall reaction to the orgasm, rather than just the firework display.

 

[Ocine]

Not really in my case..

 

[french_lp]

When I jerk off alone I'm making sure I don't spill it everywhere
During sex it's definitely a visual stimulation to see your load going on a woman's body, add to the climax.

 

[Gothedrill]

i almost never look at my penis when i'm cumming. the only time i do is when i know it will be a big load. If i have been edging awhile or i have saved up a few days worth. Just curios to see how much shots out.

 

[Hatt_101]

Why is it that when you guys are about to cum, you look down at your penis while it does it? It seems like whenever men masturbate and they are about to cum, regardless of whatever they were watching/doing, their eye go directly to their penis as it shoots? Is this something you do? Why?

No not something i ever do, when ever im about to cum my eyes close and go back when im j/o. its like a sneeze , if its a good orgasm i cant keep my eyes open. so i never really look at it while im cumming

 

[933295]

I'm extra aroused by my watching my super hard dick edge for a while then shoot a huge load of thick cum. It's very erotic for me and enhances my orgasm and pleasure. Make sense?

 

[MisterVIP]

It's because we CAN see it. If a woman could see her orgasm, she would watch too.

Good answer.

To me, women seem a bit conflicted on this. They want me to cum inside, but they also like to watch it squirt.

 

[Mr Ed in Mass]

Why not.my wife always closes her eyes when we have sex.She hates to see me have a good time.

 

[teu10]

I love to see my hornyness to flow out of my cock