How did we all arrive here ? Were we found under a cabbage leaf in the garden , did the fairies bring us , or the stork ? No , we arrived due to a sexual act between two different genders , coitus , sexual congress/relations , rooting , fucking , making the beast with two backs , whatever . Men like sex , Women like sex ( in general terms ) , normal , delightful experience , there is even an industry built around it , pornography . Sex can be hard to get , so pornography , like prostitution , fills a gap/need , or whatever . For some moronic reason , we turn this wonderful activity into a business , a power struggle , a weapon to get things from others , etc ,etc , and worst of all , into something dirty / shameful . Shame on us . The cold hard truth is that men (hetero ) are hard wired by mother nature to want to ( i'll be blunt here ) fuck women , just as women's desires/needs are also ordained by nature . Do women deserve the same respect that i demand for myself ? , of course they do , along with equal pay rates ,equal opportunities to flourish in their self chosen fields of employment , and whatever other activity that they choose . One of the truly sad facts is that some men , indulge in horrific abuse upon Women , which , frankly, disgusts me , and i believed that the laws regarding this should be reviewed , and strengthened in such a way that these "men" ( i feel uncomfortable calling them men ) are simply afraid to cross the line . In relationships that i am in , there is no "superior partner " , no power struggles , just a 50/50 mutually agreed upon effort with two people who seek a happy and contented life , do we argue , yes , of course , but it is always respectful of the other human being involved . Do I watch porn ? Yes , when i'm single , No when i'm attached . Do i want to have sex with Women , yes , of course i do , do i think " wow " i;d like to fuck her ? , yes , on occasion , am i sorry ? no , because that's just how it is . Do i make crude advances to women , or harass them in any way ? , absolutely not . Every day of my life i treat women as i would have them treat me, simple as that . All the rest of it is bullshit , and we eat it by the ton . Sad .