What do gay men think of Pussy/female ass

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gotta say that i don't especially enjoy looking at my own vag.
i mean, i wouldn't go as far as, ''ew! ew! a vagina! i'm going to vomit!!'' but it's not exactly beautiful. i prefer the neat & tidy front view to the no-holes-barred gyn shot that porn is so fond of these days.

i partly blame the aliens films. those face huggers ruined it for me *shudder* talk about nightmares!

That's me somewhat. I don't mind the front view, but the gyn shots in porn are gross looking to me. And yeah, I think all pussies (that I've seen - only in porn and er, health films) are ugly - and I'm a straight woman!

What boggles my mind, however, is how many straight women think cocks are ugly. I blame that at least partially on a repressive upbringing (the women I knew who thought cocks were ugly also seemed to think that women weren't supposed to enjoy sex. And they thought I was weird! :eek: )
 

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na, i think dicks are kinda ugly.

not grotesque and vom inducing. just not aesthetically pleasing.

a penis ain't meant to look like Kate Moss in heels. It's a gnarled, warped creature.

Blasphemy! Penises are wonderful, wonderful things!

Certainly I'm no fan of the minge. Perhaps if I were inside one, it might feel nice, just like a straight man might enjoy a dick up the ass without being gay. But it's extremely unlikely I'd ever get that far. I wouldn't go so far as to say "vomit" but I definitely don't see the appeal.
 

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Pussy doesn't groos me out, but it certainly doesn't turn me on either.

I think a lot of gay guys play up the "ew, pussy, vomit" thing.

I'm sure being inside one feels great - I just can't get past how unwelcoming they look on the outside. Granted each one looks different but all the flaps, skin folds, holes and fuzz are not inviting to me. I do not understand the guys that want to much on such a thing. I totally understand the thrill of fucking a hot, wet hole though.
 

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It depends. I'm grossed out by some vaginas, but also grossed out by some penises. On the other hand there's lot of both that I think are beautiful!
 

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100% gay here and totally grossed out by the thought of even getting close to one...have never seen one in person, only in straight porn and I was watching that to see the man's cock
 

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Personally i think the above poster and other gay men that are "grossed out" or revolted by the female anatomy are just presenting a hetero phobic response whether consciously or unconsciously as a reaction to the homophobic response of most heterosexual men when presented with homosexual situations.

Me personally im not revolted by pussy it fascinates me, i'm not turned on by it, although to be honest im not really turned on by looking at just a cock either however the naked body to me has always been a work of art and i can look at a pussy and say quit comfortablly "that is a beautifull pussy" just as i can with a cock.
 
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Personally i think the above poster and other gay men that are "grossed out" or revolted by the female anatomy are just presenting a hetero phobic response whether consciously or unconsciously as a reaction to the homophobic response of most heterosexual men when presented with homosexual situations.

True, to the extent of the fact that some gay/straight men/women, genuinely can feel repulsed.

The 'gross factor' with some gay men. It's comparable, and related to the average heterosexual male's exaggerated outward response to large breasts, and 'shaking of the ass' that permeates Western society daily. And this response that some gay men have formulated can be called 'reactionary heterophobia'. And can arrive due to repression through witnessing peer's disgust at male/male imagery, and excessive, outward delight towards straight imagery.

This reactionary type of heterophobia does not carry the same violent and repressive overtones that most homophobia does. It is instead a defense or coping strategy. It is not often publicly expressed like most homophobia. And, in reality, it's not going to help the individual or others.

I suffered from it while I was younger, so that's a self-diagnoses.

These days I am quite angered by this hetero-normative brand of media that will only submit male/female based literacy and imagery in their medium. Needless to say, sofa and bed tv adverts make me feel uncomforted by the highlighting of this hetero ideal.

“IT’S NOT LIKE GAY PEOPLE DON’t NEED BEDS, TOO!!” I scream in my head when they come on.
 
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I'm about as close to 100% gay as possible..

I have been in a relationship with a woman I loved very much. Cock and the male body turn me on immensely. I look at men constantly and no doubt know the depth of my sexual orientation. However, I think a woman's pussy is beautiful. On occasion when I see (in my opinion) the perfect pussy, a shaven pink pussy, I can pop a boner and masturbate. Most pussies are beautiful, and I like a hairy pussy too. Tits are beautiful and ass is too, even though I don't really get into ass. Most sexual acts are beautiful and hot, both gay and straight.

But as said, I am overwhelmingly and predominantly gay. I am not sexually confident of myself around women at all. I could possibly have sex with a woman again, but cannot be instant with a woman as I am with a man. The two attached photos are both teriffically hot to me.

I hope my opinion helped a little.
 

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I do love boobies.

I think it's funny that so many gay men still find women's breasts fascinating. Maybe they're so awesome that even people who aren't sexually attracted to them still like them.


I'm sure being inside one feels great - I just can't get past how unwelcoming they look on the outside. Granted each one looks different but all the flaps, skin folds, holes and fuzz are not inviting to me.

That's interesting. It never occurred to me that any were unwelcoming. From my perspective, a pussy seems to be beckoning me to get closer. Probably because both of us go into it with preconceived notions, right?
 

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The pussy looks like there is something missing there...a dick. Don't know why but pussy never really did it for me ever. I can appreciate a nice curvaceous woman, but it doesn't turn me on.
 

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curiosity...

the guys who are repulsed. is it due to some type of trauma? porn foisted on you, girls making passes at you, vulgar and upsetting locker room talk?

Nice question. In my case, no, none of the above (anybody making a pass at me is flattering; I can talk nasty in the locker room, etc). I just have the same vomit-reaction that my straight male friends have to sucking dick---not only does it not turn me on sexually, it actively repulses me. And it's been that way ever since I can remember; no traumatic experiences, etc. When puberty hit, I remember my buddies talking about "snatch" this and "pussy" that and all I could think of was their dicks.
 

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Nice question. In my case, no, none of the above (anybody making a pass at me is flattering; I can talk nasty in the locker room, etc). I just have the same vomit-reaction that my straight male friends have to sucking dick---not only does it not turn me on sexually, it actively repulses me. And it's been that way ever since I can remember; no traumatic experiences, etc. When puberty hit, I remember my buddies talking about "snatch" this and "pussy" that and all I could think of was their dicks.
do the vom thoughts come just at the idea of cunt,
or only at the idea of touching/smelling/tasting cunt?
 

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My thoughts on vaginas: been there, done that – would do it again. First of all; a vagina is a beautiful thing considering this is where life begins. Esthetically; not so much - physically; amazing feeling. The only issues I’ve had with vaginas…what they’re attached to (no offense to our female members). Women are too much work; men are easier to deal with (in my opinion). On the other hand, my boy has never been with a woman before and the thought of a vagina is disturbing for him. As for str8 porn…love it (although some of the guys are cheesy).
 

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Most gays think pussy is a "dead cat"...I guess i would feel physical pleasure if fucking a pussy but i don't see myself in a relationship and in continuative sex with a woman!