what does sex feel like, from a woman's standpoint?

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  1. B_ILIW

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    This may seem dumb to ask, but what does sex feel like, from a woman's perspective?

    whenever i have sex, i always wonder how it feels for the woman. how does it feel when a cock enters, and thrusts in and out?
     
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    well, I don't *know* either but curiousity led me to try anal stimulation. that should give you an idea. except i would think it to be more akin to the sensitivity of your penis turned outside in as well. If that makes sense.
     
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    This is such a great question. I have always wished I could have penis for just a short time so I could feel what it likes to be a man having sex or getting blown. I would love to know if the orgasms feel similar or different. I have no way to describe what it feels like to have sex aside from the totally no descriptive *freakn fantastic!*
     
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    That's an interesting thought. I've often wondered what it feels like for a woman to have sex, so why wouldn't a woman wonder what it's like to have a cock hanging (or standing at attention) between her legs,sliding into a woman's pussy, or getting a great blowjob. I'll have to think about this one.
     
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    ^what she said^
     
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    This is extremely difficult to explain to someone who doesn't have a hole like that. Instead of going on about the real specifics, I could tell you that it feels like you can't get any closer to your partner, physically speaking, because you've let him literally in you. It makes you feel good from the inside out, whereas I imagine from the man's point of view it's a more localized "feel good".
     
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    I am sure that everyone has their own version of how it feels. For me it is an emotional and out of this world sensation. When Ed and me have penis in vagina intercourse I go into a different state of being. Yes I can feel him thrusting his dick in me and then pulsing when he cums inside me. But the emotional state he puts me in when we are together is tremendous.
     
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    disappointing.
     
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    Grammar Nazi-

    Dissapointment;

    Disappointment is the feeling of dissatisfaction that follows the failure of expectations to manifest.
     
  11. voidout

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    exactly.
     
  12. dolfette

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    exactly.

    sex feels disappointing.
    it causes feelings of disappointment.
     
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    Why is that? What are your expectations for how it's supposed to feel?
     
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    what are most people's expectations of sex?

    i'm unimpressed by the whole business.
     
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    Women do not need sex. They are just doing men a favor.
     
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    :rolleyes:
     
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    Is that why all three women I had sex with kept asking me to keep my head down so they could watch Letterman while they knitted?
     
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    I feel badly when some of you women speak of dissatisfaction.
    "with me, my woman always comes (cums) first" ,,, then its my turn. Women do have orgasms,,, sometimes two or three or four.
    When a woman is dissatisfied,,, it is the man's fault --- he is selfish and stupid.
     
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    I understand your intention and I appreciate it - but I have to say that it isn't true. If you meet an inorgasmic woman then no matter how attentive and diligent you are during sex she will not cum.

    Women's orgasms are their own. Men do not 'make' women cum, they just facilitate it - same as women don't make men cum. If a woman is not able to orgasm with a man it is not his fault - Sure, it happens plenty that a guy just fucks, shoots and rolls over. That's not what I'm talking about though. [Edit: a woman can always choose to say 'that's not good enough' and demand a better attempt at satisfaction, a lot of women seem to choose to accept it. and a lot of men seem to accept living with women who don't want sex - it cuts both ways. - I don't know why people accept that kind of thing - maybe women put up with it because society teaches us asking for what we want is slutty. If it is then I guess I'd rather be a happy slut.]

    It takes women time to find what makes them cum and some women have a huge problem getting that across to men. Some men don't want to hear it, some men think they are being belittled if a woman asks them to change what they are doing, some women find it difficult to ask. It's all about communication and finding out what makes your partner cum.

    I have read plenty of stories here about men who can't cum, gay, straight and bi - and it is so rarely about their partner's (or partners') lack of skill. The same is true for women.

    Every person owns their own orgasm - it is no one else's to give. And if a person can't orgarsm that doesn't mean they are lesser, or less sexual or less fulfilled - we're all different. dolfette is not deficient because she finds orgasm difficult to acheive, she's just physically different - perhaps there is some psychology in there too. But I'll tell you what it isn't - it isn't that the right man hasn't fucked her right.
     
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  20. dolfette

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    oh do please try not to be stupid!
    you really don't have a clue what you're on about.