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My bf is a cuckhold when i suck other guys cocks.....
Cuckold? Cuckolding? What is it?
weird word, that's for sure. But I must know...
Cuckold? Cuckolding? What is it?
weird word, that's for sure. But I must know...
Actually, the traditional, original term means "a man who has an unfaithful wife."
But in time, the meaning has been expanded to include:
1. knowledge, acceptance, and approval of his wife's unfaithfulness (and even participation with the wife in her affairs.)
2. A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men,
3. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis,suffer from premature ejaculation,'enjoy' sexual humiliationand are rarely able to satisfy their wives. (These are not ALWAYS present but some traits generally define a cucked husband.)
Below are a couple of sites I refer back to for my information. The first has some really interesting material, if you enjoy reading.
A Modern Cuckold Definition | Cuckold Tales
Urban Dictionary: cuckold
(I love urban dicitionary because people get to add
their take on a term. Sometimes they apply, sometimes are just for fun.) :tongue:
But if you use google (your best friend) you will find much information about this type of fetish.
Actually, the traditional, original term means "a man who has an unfaithful wife."
But in time, the meaning has been expanded to include:
1. knowledge, acceptance, and approval of his wife's unfaithfulness (and even participation with the wife in her affairs.)
2. A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men,
3. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis,suffer from premature ejaculation,'enjoy' sexual humiliationand are rarely able to satisfy their wives. (These are not ALWAYS present but some traits generally define a cucked husband.)
Below are a couple of sites I refer back to for my information. The first has some really interesting material, if you enjoy reading.
A Modern Cuckold Definition | Cuckold Tales
Urban Dictionary: cuckold
(I love urban dicitionary because people get to add
their take on a term. Sometimes they apply, sometimes are just for fun.) :tongue:
But if you use google (your best friend) you will find much information about this type of fetish.
You will produce stronger seed to impregnate my wife and produce alpha-children I will be happy to raise as my own, .
Women are supposed to be programmed to find the best genes for their offspring,
so presumably they are following their genetic coding by finding well endowed males more sexually attractive see this.
As someone turned on by the cuckold fantasy, I've been thinking about "... why?" for a while. Why would there be men, such as myself, who think there is nothing hotter than deferring the a sexual relationship between his primary partner and another man? This is a situation most men would have a strong negative reaction to, to say the least!
After trying to understand this for many years, I've come up with a theory. I think there is an evolutionary basis for the cuckold thing being erotic to some men as a reproductive strategy.
While the evolutionary benefits for a woman to "cheat" are fairly obvious (genetic diversity in her offspring, and access to men with higher quality genes than the man who long term pairs with her), there could also be an evolutionary explanation for why some men would eroticize their wife or LTRs infidelity.
The more common reproductive strategy, of course, is for a man in a long term relationship is to prevent his woman from coupling with rival males. Therefore the woman he is with, if she chooses the reproductive strategy of "cheating" to get the better and more diverse genes than what she can get from her long time partner, she has to take a risk of her primary partner finding out. I imagine back in pre-civilized times that risk could be pretty high -- even deadly. In fact, concerns for safety -- including the danger of abandonment by her loving partner during times of pregnancy and early childhood for her young -- are really the only mitigating factors for why many more women wouldn't choose this reproductive strategy.
But with a male who is accommodating of her strategy, or better yet erotically excited by it, the risk is removed. Thus, this could be a very attractive quality in a man.
Therefore such a man would presumably have access to more women with better genes to choose from, to long-term partner with. Even though he may end up taking care of some children he didn't father, presumably he'd have some kids from his genes also.
This tendency in some men may also have another basis in natural selection. Much, probably most of the time, the secondary sex partner would be chosen based on superior physical size, penis size and strength to him (among other qualities). Many males who objected passionately to their mates sexual partnership with this type of man might have been killed off before passing along their genes, unlike their more accommodating brethren.
If you look at it that way, you can see how the this tendency in some men could be good for the "cuckold," the "wife," the "bull," any children that come from any of the coupling that occurs, and the species as a whole. Everyone gets to fuck their way up the gene pool -- even the alpha male, as he gets to fuck the woman and move on to new ones with a better possibility that his young will be cared for by a surrogate father.