Yeah, if you ever check out an actual sex shop, whether it be in real life or online, you'll notice that the vast majority of the products, including all the high selling ones, are close to the size of an average man, if not smaller... ie 4.5-7" long, 4-5.5" around. There really isn't a large percentage of toys out there that are bigger that actually sell, except for the ones that are longer because of the handle portion.
So you can conclude that the women here prefer larger sizes than the average woman. What a shocker!