My primary goal is to make my partner happy as a bottom that means moaning for, performing for, arching my back for, crafting a role to be his desire at that moment, putting my face in the pillow, squeezing the right muscles that grip his shaft, knowing how far he is away from finishing and putting myself in a hold pattern so I'm ready to shake and shiver In his arms at the same time as he's climaxing. Then to look for hints of what type of post game he wants. Cuddling? Showering? Cleaning Him Up? FOOD! Or maybe round 2.... I'm not joking around this all goes on in my mind before during and after... What does that make me?
My primary goal is to make my partner happy as a bottom that means moaning for, performing for, arching my back for, crafting a role to be his desire at that moment, putting my face in the pillow, squeezing the right muscles that grip his shaft, knowing how far he is away from finishing and putting myself in a hold pattern so I'm ready to shake and shiver In his arms at the same time as he's climaxing. Then to look for hints of what type of post game he wants. Cuddling? Showering? Cleaning Him Up? FOOD! Or maybe round 2.... I'm not joking around this all goes on in my mind before during and after... What does that make me?
There is a whole category missing here - RECEPTIVE (the adored receptive partner). The top is active in pleasing his partner, enjoys leading and arousing. The receptive partner who receives the pleasure of hands, a mouth, rimming, a cock sliding into him, on him and meets the body thrusting of his partner with joy and relish. The Yin and Yang of sex. Would go between EQUAL and COCKY.
you're the Good Dominant
As I thought over it more I realized it varies quite a bit depending on how horned up I am. I become more and more sub the more horny I get.