who give better blowjobs? women or men?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by curious_observer, Aug 6, 2011.

  1. curious_observer

    Joined:
    Jun 12, 2011
    Messages:
    36
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Hi guys.

    Since there are enough guys of every sexual orientation, I'd like to ask especially BI men (since they have sex with men and women):

    Based on your experience, who gives better blowjob on average? Men or women? And can we generalize?

    Thanks!
     
  2. D_GlennFeckless

    D_GlennFeckless Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2006
    Messages:
    672
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1
    I've only once in my life come from head alone, and that was with a guy. Many others, men & women, are incredibly skilled and can get me close, but it always takes a little of the hand to finish it off.

    I'd say the best head is given by those who care about how you're enjoying it. Guys have an advantage there in that it's easier for them to understand the sensation, but an attuned woman who's intent on pleasing their man can be just as good.
     
  3. travis1985

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 22, 2011
    Messages:
    854
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    8
    Gender:
    Male
    Women can be pretty damn good at it, but I find men more likely to succeed.
     
  4. D_Harry_Crax

    D_Harry_Crax Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Sep 3, 2006
    Messages:
    4,643
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    13
    This topic has been done over and over again. Hint: men.
     
  5. CopperheartRia

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 2, 2011
    Messages:
    81
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    60
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ohio, Usa
    Since I learned from a gay man im gonna say men lol who knows cocksucking better than someone with a cock
     
  6. sumbodii

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2008
    Messages:
    543
    Albums:
    7
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Qwerty
    I'll have to agree, not because I've ever gotten oral from a man, but because the girl who gave me the most incredible head I have EVER received said she was taught by her gay male friend.
     
  7. BudoTitan

    BudoTitan Member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2011
    Messages:
    69
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    ohio
    your going to have to thank him for me. The things you do should be illegal
     
  8. malito

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 4, 2004
    Messages:
    1,525
    Likes Received:
    6
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Victoria, Texas
    Men. I have been married for 36 years and before that had my share of them from other women. None of them could out do what I've had done by a man.
     
  9. Draconis71

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2006
    Messages:
    1,089
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Ottawa
    Easy: Hoover... Shopvac has too much pressure...
    ... tho, Hoover's a bit thik in the hose...
     
  10. ViewingPleasure

    ViewingPleasure New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 4, 2011
    Messages:
    96
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Lesbians say that women eat pussy the best, so I'd say it follows that men give the best head. Though, since I think there are few things as erotic as a cock in a woman's mouth, I'm quite satisfied with things the way they are for me.

    I also agree with fooobar: if the head-giver really enjoys what they are doing, they will be excellent, regardless of gender. I've been fortunate to have dated 3 such women in my life.
     
  11. BlackGirl

    BlackGirl New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 1, 2011
    Messages:
    239
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    West Coast
    I agree with this. If you are in a relationship, then the man and woman should be able to tell each other what feels good vs. what does not. I think with a man eating a woman out, I mean, how hard could it be and how long would it take a guy to learn to do it, working with such a small space. As far as a woman going down a man, the man should tell the woman what he likes and she should oblige. I think people make this oral sex business way harder (no pun intended) than it has to be.
     
  12. Daisy

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 2, 2009
    Messages:
    4,940
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    138
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    California
    Yeah it's been debated. I will concede that men probably give better head but only for the simple reason that they tend to like giving it more. Actually it's more accurate to say that most women like giving it less. I am not at all typical in that I think I love blow jobs as much or more than any gay man, but my experience has taught me that most women do not. So yes, as stated above, it depends on the enthusiasm of the giver.
     
  13. syphon80

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2011
    Messages:
    168
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    chicago
    Women...
     
  14. MsThang

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2011
    Messages:
    527
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    South Florida (recently relocated from NYC)
    Hmmm so how exactly did your gay friend teach you? Did you watch him give head or did you practice on him while he guided you? I am extremely curious about this topic now.
     
  15. LaFemme

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 16, 2010
    Messages:
    7,555
    Albums:
    14
    Likes Received:
    498
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Canada.
    I think enthusiasm is the key too. I fell in love with cocks the first moment I met one. Each one has is so different and as individual as the man it's connected to. Discovering how to give pleasure with licks, sucks, kisses, caresses, squeezes and petting to each man absolutely makes me crazy with lust. I am very enthusiastic! I love doing it! And I aim to perfect it with a s/o or f/b. I think I'm pretty successful....unless every guy I've been with has lied to me, I've been told my oral skills are pretty spectacular. But just in case they aren't - I'm still willing to learn! :biggrin1:
     
  16. Infernal

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 19, 2008
    Messages:
    1,556
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Midwest, near Chicago
    I never met a woman who could do it for me. They always treated my dick like it was made of glass and they might break it. Licking it like a lollipop really isn't going to do much for me. Put it in your mouth, and down your throat, until your jaw gets tired, or I get bored. If you hurt it, I'll let you know.

    It's difficult for me to get off that way anyway, but a few men have made me scream.
     
  17. D_Doe_Ray_Mi

    D_Doe_Ray_Mi Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Jul 11, 2009
    Messages:
    988
    Likes Received:
    0
    i've been with over 200 women and three stand out as expert cock suckers. i've had my cock sucked by 5 men and 4 out of 5 were better than the best 3 women so based on my experience men who love to suck cock are far better than even enthusiastic women! Knowing what it actually feels like is an obvious advantage for men!
     
  18. CopperheartRia

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 2, 2011
    Messages:
    81
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    60
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ohio, Usa
    I had verbal instructions and a cucumber
     
  19. CobraLover

    CobraLover New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 11, 2010
    Messages:
    966
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    SoCal
    I was bi when I was younger and never dated a woman that gave good head unfortunately...all seemed to have gag reflex and be afraid that you might cum in their mouth.
     
  20. D_Ricky Dickardo

    D_Ricky Dickardo New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2011
    Messages:
    935
    Likes Received:
    1
    I have never been blown by a woman, but I would assume that most men have wider throats and can take it deeper.