Who has a J/O buddy?

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I have a wank-mate (what a lovely word wank is) and we practice as often as we can, sometimes in the strangest places!
 

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I have one but who lives in Boston (Im in nYC), so dont see him often. Id like to do more to tell the truth, but he is into this strange "edging" fantasy thing...complex to explain....he thinks we should be naked around each other, but NOT do anything overtly sexual...altho we get boned....and when one of us goes out of the room, the other can start to jerk, then "get discovered" when the other returns....he likes to stretch this out for hours.....we even sleep together, but don't touch...if one of us pretends to be asleep, the other can jerk off, but has to deny it if caught doing it.....it's kinda frustrating for me, but I put up with it b/c he's super hot, hung huge. a bodybuilder, and very handsome! Weird dilemma.....
Id like a less, um, complicated jack off buddy to tell the truth....
 
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I have one but who lives in Boston (Im in nYC), so dont see him often. Id like to do more to tell the truth, but he is into this strange "edging" fantasy thing...complex to explain....he thinks we should be naked around each other, but NOT do anything overtly sexual...altho we get boned....and when one of us goes out of the room, the other can start to jerk, then "get discovered" when the other returns....he likes to stretch this out for hours.....we even sleep together, but don't touch...if one of us pretends to be asleep, the other can jerk off, but has to deny it if caught doing it.....it's kinda frustrating for me, but I put up with it b/c he's super hot, hung huge. a bodybuilder, and very handsome! Weird dilemma.....
Id like a less, um, complicated jack off buddy to tell the truth....

This isn't "edging" IMO, it is orgasm denial.:mad:
 

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I wish! Never had. Home in Orange County (especially Newport Beach) guys are pretty homophobic. Now that I'm away at school (Staten Island) I'd love one, it'd be much easier since there's no risk of being caught by the folks.
 

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I have had a couple and wouldl ove to find another one. Just the freedom of getting naked, talking about sex, watching porn and just jerking off is a great male bonding experience. Unfortunately since I moved to Miami I havent been able to find one.
 
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JettaMatt,

I checked out the site. Is it true that the crowd remains diverse? I would think that eventually a certain age group and/or body type would emerge as dominant in this setting and others would hesitate to attend. Maybe *I'm* just too picky! :rolleyes:

I also read that all males are welcome and they explained quite well why women are not and that they investigated the legalities and all. They say they define a male as anyone with a dick. How then would the men (specifically, the gay men) react to a tran-sexual?

The pix look like regular porn pix. In fact, I recognized a few. I don't think there are actual members' pix for obviouis reasons. I was hoping for links to groups in other cities but did not see any. :mad:
 
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Jerk buds are the best. Currently I don't have a regular, but it's never too difficult to find someone on CL. I never get tired of doing it with a bud or talking about it ;o) Glad to see there are so many who realize the value of having a jack buddy.
 

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Just the freedom of getting naked, talking about sex, watching porn and just jerking off is a great male bonding experience.
I agree. It's just a luxury to be able to be that way with friends.

Marley asks sex or mutual masturbation. I like a finger in my ass for masturbation, but full on sexual intercourse in friendship is more heavy -- more than friendship. That's why J/O buddy is a relatively rare but really happy medium.
 

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For real. I definitely feel closer to my buddies who being naked around has become trivial (many drunken camping trips lifted that barrier a long time ago)
Yeah, I completely agree with fake. That's exactly the kind of jo buddy I'd like to have ;)