Why can't a man brag about his penis?

[rob_just_rob]

my point is people brag about their cars, money, cooking skills, even sexual skills, but to brag about the size of your penis is criminal. WHY??

The other things, you have to work for. Bragging about dick size is like bragging about being tall, or being left-handed.

Or white, for that matter.

 

[Dport]

People who brag come off as insecure. That's common knowledge.

When a guy brags on his dick, the people around him think - "Poor insecure bastard, has nothing interesting to say, so he talks about his dick."

 

[dragon_9]

People who brag come off as insecure. That's common knowledge.

When a guy brags on his dick, the people around him think - "Poor insecure bastard, has nothing interesting to say, so he talks about his dick."

so I guess everyone on this site is an insecure bastard.

 

[lovinglife]

so I guess everyone on this site is an insecure bastard.

Bragging online and bragging IRL are quite different things. But, oddly enough, yes many men on this site are insecure... especially those that brag about it.

 

[Kablams]

fair enough I do believe that. but if you pull and you are in the 9 or better club. do you think someone has the right to try to take you down a peg? my point being if some big girl can be proud that shes big. Then why can't I brag about my penis. A lot of guys who have said that wouldn't brag are in the less than 8 inch club. so its like how can you say you wouldn't brag if you have nothing to brag about??

Oh man where to start?

Ok it's not okay to brag about anything. If you want to show it off, there are acceptable places for such behavior. Nobody likes to hear any brag about anything, be it money, skill or sex.

Rich people don't say, "I have a mansion and a limo". They say, "I have a house and car".

But..

Since you went ahead and called out others...

You don't have a 9" dick. There are plenty here who do and have much more dick than you. Just sayin.

That remote is only 8.5" (I have the same one). You have the remote on the side of your penis, you have it angled down, and the remote is still a tad longer than your dick.

My dick is about 7" bone pressed. But I assure you if I angle down and measure from the side I can get myself a 9" measurement, that doesn't make me 9".

Do you have a brag worthy dick? Certainly. Doesn't mean anyone likes a bragger. Especially when you brag 9+ and have 8 max.

 

[boatnik]

Bragging is one of the ultimate signs of fatal insecurity. If you have lots of money, or run a large company, or have a fleet of fancy vehicles, or have a big cock, people will find out on their own and admire you (or envy you) for it. If you have to tell people boastful things about yourself, you really don't have anything to admire or envy; you just wish you did. And most people recognize that.

 

[someperson]

It may have been more about your approach and demeanor when you bragged about your size. I havent ever had a conversation where my penis or even the penis of a man within the group came up, so I do wonder how many men brag about it and not have it come off as being the least humble man alive.

Normally one would come off as a small dick guy for doing it. actually showing off a large cock to that guy, does put that kinda of guy in his place for bragging.


should not brag if you do not have a large cock to back up what you say

 

[dragon_9]

Normally one would come off as a small dick guy for doing it. actually showing off a large cock to that guy, does put that kinda of guy in his place for bragging.


should not brag if you do not have a large cock to back up what you say

I agree! But if you do have it to back it up why do people go out of their way to tear you down? IT HAS PERPLEXED ME FOR A LONG TIME!

 

[dragon_9]

Oh man where to start?

Ok it's not okay to brag about anything. If you want to show it off, there are acceptable places for such behavior. Nobody likes to hear any brag about anything, be it money, skill or sex.

Rich people don't say, "I have a mansion and a limo". They say, "I have a house and car".

But..

Since you went ahead and called out others...

You don't have a 9" dick. There are plenty here who do and have much more dick than you. Just sayin.

That remote is only 8.5" (I have the same one). You have the remote on the side of your penis, you have it angled down, and the remote is still a tad longer than your dick.

My dick is about 7" bone pressed. But I assure you if I angle down and measure from the side I can get myself a 9" measurement, that doesn't make me 9".

Do you have a brag worthy dick? Certainly. Doesn't mean anyone likes a bragger. Especially when you brag 9+ and have 8 max.

We do I start! There is no amount of angling that can make a 7 inch look 9 inches. even if you put it next to anything. or did you disregard the tape measure pic. my bone pressed length is longer than the remote. I wasn't fully erect. it was hard to hold my phone and get a good pic, but hey if you can make 7 look like 9 you are a miracle worker (sarcasm). What the truth hurts?

 

[D_ElGrande_Cojones]

One of the reasons that I think it is wrong is because its belittling people that don't "measure up"

 

[B_verilux]

One of my best friends claims to have 10 inches when fully erect. I've never seen him fully erect, of course. But, I've peeked while standing next to him at the urinal.... Anyway, I asked him once when he realized he was "big," and he said it wasn't until later in life. The reason? He was the same size as all the men in porn. He then said that even after he realized he was big, he would never brag about it because it would be stupid to brag about something one did nothing to earn. And, besides, WHO exactly would you brag to about your big penis? Basically, the only place you can do such a thing is on a niche site like this on the Internet. Brag about your big penis at work and chances are you won't work there anymore....

 

[Shepardson]

One of my best friends claims to have 10 inches

He was the same size as all the men in porn.

You might want to ask him which one of all the ten inch guys he most resembles (assuming he's honest about stuff). Not to be confrontational, and I wouldn't preach to him about what most of those guys sizes really are, but it might be interesting to see who he picks. I've got a feeling your perception of that stuff might be a little more solid than his.

Take Care

 

[mistabobdobalina]

They say if you have a big penis you don't have to brag. That's a lie. If you don't brag then usually your small.

Half of the equation is having a big penis, the other half is actually knowing how to use it.

You shouldn't have to brag, because if you are actually good at it and treat your dates well, then your past flings can do the bragging for you.

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

A man shouldn't brag about his penis for the same reason he shouldn't brag about his salary, his car, or anything else. Because it's unbecoming of a gentleman.

 

[builder10]

Theres a difference between braggin and just tellin the truth though.

I'm big. I ain't gonna say otherwise.... Unless i think it'll scare a girl off... which def happens

 

[lovinglife]

Theres a difference between braggin and just tellin the truth though.

I'm big. I ain't gonna say otherwise.... Unless i think it'll scare a girl off... which def happens

This is true, but how often does the very specific topic of your own penis size come up without steering the conversation towards that? And why would you not stay a bit humble instead of saying something like "im huge" or your specific size?

 

[Carpe_Diem420]

"Why can't a man brag about his penis?"

Anyone CAN brag about their penis, just understand that 99.99% of people will automatically put you in the douche bag category of life.

 

[Alexander the 8]

Many men do brag about there penis along with anything else that they want people to think they have, mostly as 'one upmanship'.

I have met plenty guys in business that always try and 'get one over' you, whether that be their sex exploits, their car, their salary, their pension, their holiday destinations, their house or amount of houses, their wife of amount of wives, and offcourse their cock.
After a day of business, I have been at health clubs and facilities at hotels with some of these guys who have made huge bragging statements all day. As soon as you get into the locker room and start to get changed or indeed meet them at some stage of being there maybe in the pool, or in the showers afterwards, they all of a sudden become very quiet and reserved about their claims.

I have never felt the need or desire to brag, but as I have always done, I will answer when asked about my cock or any other part of my life, if asked.
I love the feeling of being hung and the reactions in people realising I am hung. We have plenty 'fun' parties with friends of a like minded feeling on sex and there is no doubt people are interested in 'dick size' and the novalty of it. Off course I turn up to these parties knowing I'm purposely showing my dick, but only because of the situation we are all in.

I haved met lots of woman over the years that I have liked to have been with, but have never even considered using the line I was hung try to promote my chances.

You get a lot of opinions from all sorts that you shouldn't brag about anything and depending on the type of people you are with will determine all what gets discussed and the nature and openess of the talk. I can be in certain groups that will openly ask and talk about sex and this usually extends into 'bragging' or is it bragging? Is it not just people comparing experiences and trying to gain the higher ground by adding an extra element to the dicussion?

I have a great partner Fiona who loves what I have and what we have together and she is always 'telling', 'bragging' about my size and our sex exploits to friends, but that is usually when she is asked or while they are in conversation about these items.

So I think people are undoubtably put off from 'bragging' by the overall general feeling to be reserved about your life.

 

[CuriousGuy]

Sorry, not a straight guy here, but it tickles me when guys chime in with "I don't brag about my size, but my gf does," which, of course, is bragging just the same if you believe that simply stating the truth constitutes "bragging." You've relayed the information that you are big, but somehow it's more humble letting us know someone else said it first, lol.

Actually, I don't have a problem with a guy stating he is big in the first place. Is it "bragging" if you have blue eyes and state that you have blue eyes? There's no difference if a guy says he has a 9" dick, and he does have a 9" dick.

 

[Tx8Thick]

I must admit that as a mild mannered accountant, bragging about my endowment would be uncomfortable. But I'm happy for others to do it. I was at a pool party recently and a very hot number came up to me and said, "your size is legendary - mind if I take a look". Well, that made Mr Happy even happier! I was accused of smuggling a squirrel into the party after that.

My advice is - be friendly to everyone and be honest. Modesty is overrated, but a smile and a kind "thank you" goes a long way.