Why do SOME men think that women don't enjoy giving head?

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Obviously, not all men feel that way (hopefully). But, I'm seeing it a lot on other forums and hearing it.

The mouth is an erogenous zone, and I think it's natural to want to lick someone that you like all over. Straight men, lesbians and gay guys like going down on others. So, I don't understand why men assume that women don't get pleasure out of blowjobs and only do it to please the man. Is it because you just happened to end up with women that didn't like blowjobs?

I don't think I could date a man that questioned my sexual tastes. Can a man educate me on this?
 

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Honestly, this is the best news I've read all day :)

ETA: Not sure what education I could give you, you're already bringing the right attitude to the table lol
 
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I guess they must be, personally I've never met a girl that didnt enjoy it. well, either that or they should be in hollywood lol

True, it depends on how open-minded the crowd you're hanging out with.

My experienced and kinky male friends say that most of the women they have been with loved giving oral. The more conservative guys have a different opinion.
 

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I can't imagine a sexual encounter without mutual oral pleasure. Raises one eyebrow at those who can.


I do enjoy giving more than receiving. Receiving feels good only when the man is hitting the right spot. There are have been times when receiving oral felt boring. The pros of giving is that you're doing all the work and the partner lies there enjoying it.
 

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I too never been with a woman who didn't enjoy to do oral. My gf, for instances, just loves it! However, I have a friend who said his ex just hated it, only giving him head in rare occasions (to please him). So I guess, like everything else in life, some woman like and some woman don't like.
And the same apply to men, some enjoy to eat pussy, some don't enjoy, only doing it to please their partners (sometimes not even that).
 

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My gf doesn't like to do it, so I never push the issue. What bugs me, though, is that I LOVE going down on her and even though she has always loved receiving, in the last couple of years she won't let me go down on her anymore. Not sure why...either I've gotten worse, was never really that good at it, or she's just getting less and less interested in sex (and maybe it's all 3).
 

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I find it unlikely that any man would question your sexual tastes (pun intended?) for enjoying giving a blowjob. I also find it strange when some women question some mens' beliefs which were likely planted there by some (other) women.
 

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Women don't enjoy giving oral. If you do, congrats but you're in the minority.

I've met only one girl in my entire life who enjoyed doing it. One. Oh yeah, and she said all her friends hate doing it fwiw.
 

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I don't think I could date a man that questioned my sexual tastes. Can a man educate me on this?

It could be that guys feel that way because of porn. A lot of blow job porn features "throat fucking," "face fucking," and rough, abusive stuff. So an inexperienced guy might be led to believe that's what it's supposed to be like IRL. And how many women want that?
 

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I find it unlikely that any man would question your sexual tastes (pun intended?) for enjoying giving a blowjob. I also find it strange when some women question some mens' beliefs which were likely planted there by some (other) women.

Honey, I would be more than happy to PM those threads where you can see men saying "Women that enjoy giving blowjobs have character flaws, because they're not getting anything out of it" or "A woman giving a blowjob is so demeaning. Why would you do it when the man has all of the power?"

Women don't enjoy giving oral. If you do, congrats but you're in the minority.

I've met only one girl in my entire life who enjoyed doing it. One. Oh yeah, and she said all her friends hate doing it fwiw.

That's your experience though. Another man's experience could differ, like two of the other male posters in this thread. You do realize that many women lie in front of their friends to not look like strange or slutty, right?

It could be that guys feel that way because of porn. A lot of blow job porn features "throat fucking," "face fucking," and rough, abusive stuff. So an inexperienced guy might be led to believe that's what it's supposed to be like IRL. And how many women want that?

Some women enjoy that, including some of the posters on here. I don't find face-fucking, throat fucking or facials abusive, because I find it pleasurable and am consenting to it. Just because some women may not like these acts doesn't mean that we are all the same.
 
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That's your experience though. Another man's experience could differ, like two of the other male posters in this thread. You do realize that many women lie in front of their friends to not look like strange or slutty, right?

I'm aware another man's experience could be different. I'm aware some women lie in front of their friends on this issue. That girl I mentioned who did enjoy sucking dick pretended that she wasn't into it with her friends.

But those examples and people are in a small minority. Women don't enjoy sucking dick. It is what it is. Whoever ends up with you is a very lucky man because you are a rare breed.
 

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I'm aware another man's experience could be different. I'm aware some women lie in front of their friends on this issue. That girl I mentioned who did enjoy sucking dick pretended that she wasn't into it with her friends.

But those examples and people are in a small minority. Women don't enjoy sucking dick. It is what it is. Whoever ends up with you is a very lucky man because you are a rare breed.


That's sweet of you, thank you. :)
 

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Obviously, not all men feel that way (hopefully). But, I'm seeing it a lot on other forums and hearing it.

The mouth is an erogenous zone, and I think it's natural to want to lick someone that you like all over. Straight men, lesbians and gay guys like going down on others. So, I don't understand why men assume that women don't get pleasure out of blowjobs and only do it to please the man. Is it because you just happened to end up with women that didn't like blowjobs?

I don't think I could date a man that questioned my sexual tastes. Can a man educate me on this?

I don't understand the question, and didn't you already answer it yourself? :confused: