Women and rim jobs

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  1. Imported

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    parra10: Hi Ladies,

    I am curious if women enjoy rim jobs or not. I mean giving and/or receiving.

    For those of you who don't know what a rim job is, it's basically licking the anus.

    I think guys enjoy receiving it, even if they are not too forward in admitting it, but I'm not sure if this is due to the prostate somehow. I would imagine women enjoy receiving it also.

    On the other side of the coin, I would imagine women don't enjoy giving rim jobs because mens anuses, even if they are immaculately cleaned, are still large and hairy and so forth. Hardly an oil painting.

    Let me know your thoughts, I'm very curious. Thanks!
     
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    [quote author=parra10 link=board=women;num=1071207456;start=0#0 date=12/11/03 at 21:28:36]
    I think guys enjoy receiving it, even if they are not too forward in admitting it[/quote]


    I would take issue with that. I'm a guy and anal play doesn't do anything for me, regardless of what my prostate is supposed to think. I have rimmed a woman before, at her suggestion. She really liked it. It takes all kinds.
     
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    wvalady1968: One thing I've learned is to keep an open mind about such matters. Anything that is a huge turn on for my partner usually becomes the same for me. Practically any part of the body can be an erogenous area.

    ;)

    P.S. EXTREME cleanliness would be mandatory.
     
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    I have a partner now who loves to receive rim jobs. She has yet to reciprocate, but that is fine by me. I do enjoy giving them to her.. the look of pleasure on her face when I am working her. I could go on forever on the pleasures of rimming, but then I would get everyone so excited, we would miss out on the thread.. do women like rims jobs? I have found that most that I have been with do.
     
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    neatski2: I have done and enjoyed both giving and receiving rim jobs. It feels wonderful to receive, and I enjoy returning the favor.
     
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    I love a woman who can give a rim job.. :-*
    (geo has fallen in love again :D)
     
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    neatski2: lol I'm flattered... how long's the list now? ;)

    :) I had a really super first lover who taught me not to be inhibited or turned off by anything... pretty much everything about sex is to some degree enjoyable to everyone, in my opinion. I think people just learn to be inhibited and can't relax enough to enjoy all the aspects of anal sex.
     
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    Rim jobs...I have said it somewhere else and will say it here.... Rim jobs.... Yuck!
     
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    Well...for sure I do enjoy done in me but the picture of a hairy and big male anuses as you painted...its not inviting if in the heat of the moment i want go really near by there to look closer, not only my finger tips...

    But I think most men at least the str8 ones are very protective of their asses... but i think if they like it they have to give at least hints and clean up the jungle situation down there.

    :biggrin1:
     
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    As a guy, lick my anus, don't come around my lips for a kiss and when you're done with that session, I hope she got her rocks off doing it, but I certainly don't want her around anymore. As for before anything gets started, if she's into rim jobs, done it to others, put that on the resume and although a good candidate for employment, she'll never get the job. I don't want a chick that's been licking @ssholes literally and/or figuratively speaking.
     
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    Never done it
    Never had it done
    Dont really think to much of it
    But wouldnt be against at least trying it
     
  12. rob_just_rob

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    I have known women who enjoyed it. I've also known women who were too uptight to even try it (giving or receiving).

    So as always, it depends on the woman.
     
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    Yep..you are right...

    Rob, do you think that a man that like giving it like to receive it too?

    And as a male...if this situation is talking about between men, how many you heard that enjoy both situations?

    And tell me another thing too: Most males are up to try almost anything if suggested by women?

    I do ask that sometimes I'm confuse by male behaviour..for exemple: male that are into porn may have lots of fantasies and situations they like to try but sometimes they do it just in their minds and dont share with their partners bcause they may be shy or something else...:confused:

    And another thing...if a person have casual sex with different people for sure they will use condoms...does a person will drink cum, lick all privates and etc without protections while having sex with a casual encouter, or not exclusive relationship..or they will ????

    Yeh Rob...i'm asking lots of things to you...sorry...answer what you can, ok?
     
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    I'll try :smile:

    I think I posted in the newer rimming thread that while I have generally enjoyed rimming past girlfriends, I'm much more uptight about having it done to me. I tend to assume (I'm sure this is a wrong assumption in some cases) that she's thinking that since I did it to her, she has to reciprocate. Which isn't the case - I do things in bed because I enjoy doing them and/or because I want to make her feel good. I don't believe in quid pro quo sex, unless one person is always taking and the other person is always giving.

    If I'm with a woman that I am at ease with, and I know that she is doing it because she wants to (and not because she feels obligated) I'll enjoy receiving. There was one ex of mine who really was enthusiastic 'down there'... she liked to have me lie on my back, and she would push my knees back to my chest and cycle through jerking my cock/rubbing my 'taint'/sucking me/rubbing my anus/rimming me. She seemed to genuinely enjoy making me feel good as much as I enjoyed pleasing her. Those were good times :smile:

    To answer your second question - I have never had a discussion with my male friends about rimming. :eek: would be their reaction, I think. I do think that men tend to be pretty open to sexual suggestions from women. If a woman suggests something 'kinky', most straight guys - even if pretty vanilla in other ways - will be up to try it. Or so say my kinky female friends. :biggrin1:

    I can only speak for myself here. I've been fortunate (if that's the right word) enough to live out a few of my wilder fantasies over the past 3 years or so. And my personal conclusion is that some things are better left as fantasies. A fantasy can be completely tailored to your own fetish or preference and once you have 'finished' :tongue: with the fantasy it is gone. Living out fantasies involves real people, with real feelings, and their own ideas as to how the fantasy should play out. It's very easy for a fantasy to go awry as a result, leading to hurt feelings or disappoinment. So I think that might be the 'something else' (other than shyness) that you mention as being a reason males don't share fantasies with their partners. Along with the more common reason - we're afraid you're going to be appalled with how perverted we are.:biggrin1:

    Casual sex... I have never been really big on casual sex - I've only had 2 'casual sex' relationships, when I was younger and foolish, and got tested afterwards due to a bout of healthy paranoia. Anyway, I've never used a dental dam when giving oral sex. I try to have sex with women I trust, and to get to know them well before having sex. I understand the HIV risk is much lower when it comes to oral sex as opposed to intercourse, so I suppose it's a risk people are willing to take when it comes to oral sex. Personally, I make sure I get to know the person, ask questions if things are moving quickly, and if I'm in any doubt at all, I'll get tested a suitable length of time afterwards.
     
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    Thank you very much for answering me sooo clear.

    :smile:
     
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    My Gf wasn't into me rimming her in the beginning.. she said it done nothing for her.. Funny then that within a week she would be on all fours and holding her arsecheeks as wideapart as she could. When I got to her arsehole, she started a new trick. She'd push out as I ran my tongue over her anus, causing it to open, and allowing my tongue deeper access. Getting on all fours, with cheeks spread, pushing out and winking her arsehole, thats how much my gf loves being rimmed. I also need to sniff her arsehole, the scent makes me so hard and I just have to drive my tongue as deeply into her and love the flavours.
    She says just feeling my breath on her anus gets her so wet, because she knows what will follow. Illl sniff, lightly trace her Rim with the tip of my tongue, before driving my tongue as deep up her shitter as I can.
    She loves it and has returned the favour to me a few times.
    I love being rimmed by her pointy delicate tongue, it feels incredible. But licking, sniffing and eating her arsehole drives me crazy and she loves it too..
     
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    I had a majorly dumb moment and thought that ant008 was the OP.. derp.
     
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    As a femme, I like getting rim jobs. Giving..? Only if I know -damn- well the person is clean and.. there's no hair. I won't lick/suck a man's balls if they're hairy (no I'm not saying they have to shave everywhere), I won't lick someone's ass if it's hairy either. I like having it done because ANY time I think I'm going to be getting intimate with someone, I shower thoroughly as close to when I'll be spending time with them as possible
     
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    You know, I agree with the hairy part. For me to go there, the ass and grundle (trimmed balls are ok) must be smooooooth and very clean.

    Fortunately, the only person I have given or received analingus from over the last few years has been smooth, very clean, and enthusiastic. As far as giving, I think he's ruined me for other men in this area. I will still gladly receive, though.
     
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    If Im with a girl I love, as opposed to just casual, I wouldn,t care if she was showered or not. I fact I rimmed my ex after a long day out. The aromas down below were strong and when I dipped my tongue into her ring I sampled more than I bargand for. But I still rimmed. When Im horny I can get very dirty