Women who squirt

[cobrajet]

I think one big "variable" is that the woman has learned to relax to the point where she can let it happen. Some I think just naturally "let go" during sex and so it's easier, but others mis-read some of the feeling as an urge to pee so work against it (can't say I blame them). Yes, I'm male so don't know this from my own body, but I've coached women through this and so have found some intuition.

Like most sexual things, we are all wired a little different so I've seen a big difference in how responsive g-spots can be. Mostly have noticed that the squirters g-spots swell quite a bit before squirting occurs, and other non-squirters might enjoy the same stimulation but don't swell much at all. Who knows ... it's likely a combination of physical structure and neurological wiring and psychology ... which is what makes us the fascinating beings we are.

 

[Desirevous]

I had read about squirting orgasms and wanted to try it so I followed the instructions I found on a website and it worked! For me, making it happen involves a combination of clitoral stimulation and strong bearing down when that urge to pee feeling starts--and that's the hardest part to master because that's when you tend to tighten up. The orgasm is unreal, like nothing else I've felt. I'm addicted.

 

[D_f6yiuhj]

is there a way to learn to squirt cos id like to i always thought it was just in porn and i just come and get very wet.

 

[RawDog]

I had read about squirting orgasms and wanted to try it so I followed the instructions I found on a website and it worked! For me, making it happen involves a combination of clitoral stimulation and strong bearing down when that urge to pee feeling starts--and that's the hardest part to master because that's when you tend to tighten up. The orgasm is unreal, like nothing else I've felt. I'm addicted.

Just for my edification, which website gave you that information? The reason I ask is that there seems to be a variety of "strategies" involved in getting a woman to squirt, I'd like to start building a database of techniques.

is there a way to learn to squirt cos id like to i always thought it was just in porn and i just come and get very wet.

First off, welcome to lpsg. You'll probably get a lot of various answers to your question. It almost seems like a personal thing varying from woman to woman and/or the partners involved with the act. Since I'm a guy I can't answer you directly, but my wife (from a correspondence we had with a friend) certainly can:

The key, for me, is to relax as much as possible. sometimes a drink or two first helps! Often I have been at that same point you are describing. Relaxing what I call the "I have to pee, but I can't go here muscle" is the most difficult part. We are taught when we are small to hold it until we are in an appropriate place where we can pee.This can be very difficult to unlearn. I concentrate on not squeezing that muscle or any other vaginal muscle and just let it happen.

Most information I have read or seen tells women to "push it out". That method has never worked for me. Also, I shoiuld mention that it is not as easy as they make it look in the videos! I can do it by myself fairly consistently now, but it takes a while to squirt in front of my husband.
My advise is first, make sure you are using the right toy. Second, be patient! It could take quiet some time at first. Third, experiment with different positions (on your back, on your knees, leaning over, whatever works) and different amounts of pressure! Finally keep practicing!!

Oh, and keep a towel handy.

 

[basstoo]

1st i would like to add is i think it is also phychological,when i 1st started dating my wife she said she only has one orgasm during sex I said well we can change that, with alot of patience and work she has 2,3 sometimes 4 orgasms but all were from clitioral,oral,then she started getting orgasms from penatration.but also i noticed was when i was doing oral on her and inserting my fingers in her she would tell me to turn my fingures up and in and stimulate her with a come here motion i told her that that was a G spot orgasm and said you could squirt that why,i asked her what the orgasms felt like she said she always stoped just before because she felt like she had to pee i kept doing that and told her to let go she wouldnt,so after a few weeks of trying to get her to let go still she wouldnt,1 day after having a few drinks,maybe to many we were fooling around in the bathroom she said she had to pee being alittle drunk i told her to go ahead just pee while we were fooling aroung she did and thought it was kinky but fun .the point is i was trying to let her know that she could let go and the next time i inserted my fingures and stimulated he G spot she let go and squirted across the room all over my when she was done shaking and out of breath she started to cry and said it was the most amasing orgasm she has ever had and thanked god that i made that possible,she now squirts almost all the time,sorry for the long story but by showing her its ok to let go it has changed her and us sexualy,oh and she was so proud of it she told all her friends she can do it.

 

[RawDog]

Basstoo, you need to capitalize, pay attention to your punctuation, and run a spell check if you want to be taken seriously.

 

[B_subgirrl]

is there a way to learn to squirt cos id like to i always thought it was just in porn and i just come and get very wet.

It seems to be different for everyone. G spot stimulation seems to be the most common way to get it happen. Someone else has said clitoral stimulation works. I need a hard pounding with pressure on my BACK wall (don't know what's going on there - maybe it's a B spot). So you'll have to experiment with different types of stimulation.

When you are close to squirting, you get a feeling like you need to wee. Many women tense up at this point, in case they really are going to wee. The trick is to allow it to happen. Going to the toilet before you play can help you to relax, knowing that there's nothing left in your bladder. A towel underneath you is also a good idea.

 

[RawDog]

I need a hard pounding with pressure on my BACK wall (don't know what's going on there - maybe it's a B spot).

Usually porn shows women squirting when the guy withdraws his cock from the girl's vagina. Only once have I seen it while it was inside (really hot by the way, the guy's dick looked like a barber's pole with her ejaculate spiralling down his shaft). I assumed the "pulling out" was for show purposes until someone here said that she couldn't squirt unless her pussy was empty. Apparently the cock squeezing up onto the urethra was shutting the flow. So, you don't really have a problem squirting with a cock inside you then?

I like the term B spot, by the way.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Usually porn shows women squirting when the guy withdraws his cock from the girl's vagina. Only once have I seen it while it was inside (really hot by the way, the guy's dick looked like a barber's pole with her ejaculate spiralling down his shaft). I assumed the "pulling out" was for show purposes until someone here said that she couldn't squirt unless her pussy was empty. Apparently the cock squeezing up onto the urethra was shutting the flow. So, you don't really have a problem squirting with a cock inside you then?

Nope. No problems at all. I do it regularly with my vibe. I've never in my life squirted WITHOUT something in my pussy - I'm all about penetration :tongue:

I like the term B spot, by the way.

We're getting good at coining terms around here :smile:.

I've never heard of there being a special spot there, hence I've never heard of a term for it - figured I'd best create one :tongue:. It works for me in the same way the g spot seems to work for other women.

 

[RawDog]

Nope. No problems at all. I do it regularly with my vibe. I've never in my life squirted WITHOUT something in my pussy - I'm all about penetration :tongue:

I've found the best way to pound into a woman with the least amount of recoil and the greatest depth is to pin her down by her wrists with my arms coiled under her armpits and her hands behind her head, my feet planted against the headboard, and her legs raised wide open. Does that work for you as well?

We're getting good at coining terms around here :smile:.

I've never heard of there being a special spot there, hence I've never heard of a term for it - figured I'd best create one :tongue:. It works for me in the same way the g spot seems to work for other women.

Works for me as well.

 

[bobbydrizzle]

Usually porn shows women squirting when the guy withdraws his cock from the girl's vagina. Only once have I seen it while it was inside (really hot by the way, the guy's dick looked like a barber's pole with her ejaculate spiralling down his shaft). I assumed the "pulling out" was for show purposes until someone here said that she couldn't squirt unless her pussy was empty. Apparently the cock squeezing up onto the urethra was shutting the flow. So, you don't really have a problem squirting with a cock inside you then?

I like the term B spot, by the way.

I usually get drenched in liquid during penetration, but when I pull out is when the real fun begins. It'll shoot out as if you just removed a kink in hose. Makes for quite a mess, but its so hot watching a women get off on you like that.

 

[RawDog]

It'll shoot out as if you just removed a kink in hose.

Nice choice of words.

 

[D_Reuben Stallpisser]

I've found the best way to pound into a woman with the least amount of recoil and the greatest depth is to pin her down by her wrists with my arms coiled under her armpits and her hands behind her head, my feet planted against the headboard, and her legs raised wide open. Does that work for you as well?

Personally, I've found that having her ankles over my shoulders with me on my knees is the best for pounding, though it sometimes leads to going too deep. That problem can be solved by putting both her legs over one shoulder.

 

[someone1]

squirtings hot, shame ive never had sex with a women who does :/
well one girl did but she could only do it to herself

 

[divisiblebyzero]

I love it, but i've never been with a projectile squirter, t hey have all been from g-spot stimulation or heavy clit play. I would disagree about it being as rare as winning the lotto though, i believe it's all technique. i've been able to make 6 of the last 8 girls that i've been with squirt, and the 2 that didn't were a one nighter and a short lived relationship. as long as i know it's coming and have the towels down before it's a huge turn on.

 

[divisiblebyzero]

exactly, i've asked girls if it makes them feel like they have to pee when they cum from g-spot stim and they usually say yes. once they learn to not tense up, the results are usually incredible. it's all about finding that magic spot.

there are some old Alyssa Klass vids that explain it rather nicely.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I've found the best way to pound into a woman with the least amount of recoil and the greatest depth is to pin her down by her wrists with my arms coiled under her armpits and her hands behind her head, my feet planted against the headboard, and her legs raised wide open. Does that work for you as well?

Evil man! Yes, that is very nice :smile:. Doggy is even better though :tongue:

 

[someone1]

Doggy is even better though :tongue:

i think doggy is just about everyone's favourite

 

[knowhow2useit]

I love a squirter, my friend's been with one, but I've never myself, unfortunately

 

[RawDog]

Evil man! Yes, that is very nice :smile:. Doggy is even better though :tongue:

Good to know. Shame I didn't get to "Bastard" status again though. I'll try harder. My resolve will be stiffer with the copious amount of words I will spring forth into your awaiting vessel of a brain hungry for my throbbing, pulsing -uhm- words? :tongue: