Women's views on small penis men

[deleted356736]

Was you then honest with your other halves about your real size? Or let them believe? Were they disappointed that they didn't have a higher number to tell their friends who have probably been throwing around 9 and 10 numbers?

I've had sex with more than 100 women, and never once quoted my size before, during or after. I can't remember being asked, but my wife once measured me to boast to her friends at work. This was the first time I was measured, by the way.

I remember some delightful comments before sex, and even more delightful looks (eyes wide with anticipation) after they saw me hard the first time. I think this is what makes size worthwhile, not a ruler. Size matters when a woman just can't wait to get you inside her so that she can enjoy how good it's going feel. Or maybe play with you first, a bit of oral, so she can enjoy looking at it and handling it.

 

[B_spiker067]

I lie to the ladies all the time. I tell them I'm 'only six inches', then give them a good stretch session.

When someone says they are (or tells them about) 7 or 8 or 9 or 12 they're thinking...."WTF, I can just take 6 I'll never ask for more."

I then get more return customers.

 

[mdp75]

Was you then honest with your other halves about your real size? Or let them believe? Were they disappointed that they didn't have a higher number to tell their friends who have probably been throwing around 9 and 10 numbers?

yeah i told her i was only 7 inches she shook her head and just thought I was being silly?!?!? thing is I am very very thick at just over 6 inches so it does look much larger cause of the girth. she still insists i am 9 inches so i let her think. But like i said size means nothing to her, though when we are in a group with our friends she does brag and make comments to her freinds which is cool.

 

[flibbertigibbet]

the only guy i've been with who was small was REALLY small, smaller than my middle finger. It was like having sex with a tampon. (And he was a very big beefy man)

The worst thing was that he seemed to think he was a stud and made no effort whatsoever to stimulate me in any other way, and was offended when I tried to stimulate myself.

Emotionally my first response was "what the hell is that?" Followed by "I so did not appreciate my ex enough." I carefully didn't show it outwardly though, and didn't say anything derogatory even though he treated me very poorly.

He was lowlife scum and I see his penis size as kharmic retribution.

Theoretically I have no problem with small penises though, I'm plenty happy with a woman - no dildos required at all.

 

[naughtyncgirl]

My experience is that smaller guys, once they get going, will try so hard, but at the same time seem lack real self confidence. I prefer a confident man, and it's usually the larger guys who have the confidence. So I'll take a larger guy. No offense, just my preference.

 

[faceking]

Size IS a big deal for me. It has to FIT right. And I need to feel it. Unfortunately, I've had the small penis man, and I confess, I didn't say anything. What do you say?? He was really great otherwise - smart, great job, funny, etc. etc.....but it just wasn't happening sexually.

I believe one of the hardest things to do in life is to Speak your Truth, but to be Truthful without being Hurtful. That's the challenge..... so instead, say nothing? Not much better, I know. If someone asks me what I think, I'll tell them (as many guys on here can attest to!! Don't ask me what I think and then get pissed off when I tell you!). But I won't go out of my way to volunteer information that serves no purpose.

Ultimately, maybe the gentlest response is "We're not a good fit".
(is that a cop-out?)

Course, I could take the reverse approach...."Honey, it's not YOU, it's ME. Mama's got a FAT PUSSY!"

How's that?


p.s. I've never had a "small guy rock me in bed".

That's pretty funny.

Good friend always talks about this cock she had in college... 11". Swears she measured... pretty much every other party/hanging out... she brings up this guy.

 

[nay-nay]

small penis = no thanks.

 

[5incher]

I know 5" is small so I let my g/f play long as i am part of it its not the women's fault we are not the right size so why not let them have bigger right ladies, but please ladies give us small guys a chance too thank you

 

[crossy]

Having a small one is not a problem if the guy has a lot of money according to Modern Penis magazine. I find this interesting.

 

[AmyG]

It has happened a few times and I do not say I thing. We just have sex and give him the chance to prove me wrong. Only one small guy has ever given me great sex. Most large guys do

 

[tiny_boy]

If it happened again, I would talk to him about my concerns and give him a chance to talk to me about how he plans to help me get off. This was a very unusual situation, however. He was packing 2.5", and adamant that he not have to perform oral sex. He also pulled out some of my hair, and mauled my face and neck when intending to kiss me.

I am packin just under 2.5 inches :tongue:

 

[5incher]

So ladies is 5" the line were small starts and any thing under that is no longer worth doing or is even 5" not worth taking your panties off?

 

[young couple]

So ladies is 5" the line were small starts and any thing under that is no longer worth doing or is even 5" not worth taking your panties off?

If I was looking for relationship then 5 ins or smaller wouldnt be a deal break but since I am in one I wouldnt swing with a guy that was under 5 and probably not one that was 5

 

[D_Mylor Mentallydaft]

Size IS a big deal for me. It has to FIT right. And I need to feel it. Unfortunately, I've had the small penis man, and I confess, I didn't say anything. What do you say?? He was really great otherwise - smart, great job, funny, etc. etc.....but it just wasn't happening sexually.

I believe one of the hardest things to do in life is to Speak your Truth, but to be Truthful without being Hurtful. That's the challenge..... so instead, say nothing? Not much better, I know. If someone asks me what I think, I'll tell them (as many guys on here can attest to!! Don't ask me what I think and then get pissed off when I tell you!). But I won't go out of my way to volunteer information that serves no purpose.

Ultimately, maybe the gentlest response is "We're not a good fit".
(is that a cop-out?)

Course, I could take the reverse approach...."Honey, it's not YOU, it's ME. Mama's got a FAT PUSSY!"

How's that?


p.s. I've never had a "small guy rock me in bed".

i TOTALLY get that, i wish more people could be that honest... the fucking tackle ain't the only thing that comes in diffrent sizes.... the tackle box can be bigger too..... some women have big pussies, and need a bigger penis to fill it. i can say i have been with a few, my girl of 5 years is wide but really shallow, i have a very rare medical condition that makes my cock do odd things, and when it is 7 1/2 inches and still kinda floppy i take care of her and we switch to anal for me..... but as long as a woman is HONEST and PRIVATE about it, how can you fault her for saying a guy isn't big enough? how many times dose a guys say "gotta have the big titties" "shes gotta have blue eyes" "shes gotta be this thin"
THERE IS NO DIFFRENCE! i fucking hate that double standard i will be totally honest, if a woman dosen't have large enough breasts or isn't able to handle my size vaginally AND anally I won't be with her, i have a love of my life so its totally physical.....no relationship is meant to last for ever, and if you can't make the sex part work, the rest will just fall that much quicker....

...despite the fact that for majority of women a 6.5" dick measured on top will be 8" for them, a 7.5" measured on top will be 9" for them and so on.....

Even my wife thought I was 10" long the first time she saw my cock....

Anyone who thinks 7-8" is "average" simply don't have any idea of how big a real 7.5 or 8" (measured on top of the shaft) dick is. In fact, most hung porn stars are below the 8" mark.

yeah... i have noticed women's AND men's tendenacy to be off the mark, if my dick is in a woman's hand it has been called like 9X7 from pictures... in mine (i have wide hands, i wear like a 8 1/2 glove) girls said it was like 6..... who REALLY cares about the numbers, isn't all that matters that you gasp when he slides it in and you feel the edge of the head slide across all the good spots?

 

[larry2003]

Most of us don't have a size preference when picking a man to settle down with. They are just hoping they can find a man with the whole package.

They are willing to look past the size for a good relationship. If you haven't figured that out yet...you are vacant as hell.

Theres your answer from a smart woman that would make a great partner.

 

[5incher]

I ask cause the girl i am seeing now has had a few large partners in past well lets just say all her parteners we larger then me

 

[B_625girth]

I'm a guy and I am big, so I can't comment from a woman's viewpoint. But I had a few ladies when I was single tell me it was nice to meet a guy with a big cock that was a nice guy. so guys if you are packing, be a nice guy. ladies will treat you better, and be loyal to you. being nice and being hung, doesn't mean they will all fall in love with you. your ambition(your money, or money potential is a factor), sometime your social status comes into play. some girls liked fucking the guy from the wrong side of town, ME.

 

[5incher]

this post died fast was hoping to come home to new stuff here:frown1:

 

[darkboob]

I feel I need to respond to this. I'm a dude, 23 years old, somewhat inexperienced in bed (and you can make fun of me all you want, albeit I do ware magnums so in that department it might be a bit futile) but I cannot believe you girls are so opinionated when it comes to dudes and dick sizes! 34D I loved your response to say the least, but you other girls... honestly. That is equivalent of me turning down a girl because she didn't have big enough breasts, which to say the least is stupid.

 

[Cuban]

If a girls tells me that I am like 6, 7 or 8 inches. I would say nope. And substract 1-2 inches from that.. haha. so, if she says it is 7 " I will reply "nope, it is actually 5.5" "does it matter?"
aha, I am just waiting for that moment to happen/ why would I want to do this? well, since everyone lies about their size and always exaggerate. The next guy that tells her 8-10 inches she be like nope! it is 5.5" hahah or a guy that tells her 7"she would reply with "hahah its 4" has anyone done this?