Likewise, if you wake up and the dog (or in J's case cat :wink
is licking your cock for some bizarre reason are you a zoophile?
Would letting a guy suck my dick make me gay?
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Likewise, if you wake up and the dog (or in J's case cat :wink
is licking your cock for some bizarre reason are you a zoophile?
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Likewise, if you wake up and the dog (or in J's case cat :wink
:tongue: I love it.
And if a 20yo has one sexual encounter with an 80yo, does that mean the 20yo is a geriaphile? Or that the 80yo is a youthphile? (I'm making up these words, but you get my point, I'm sure.)
Likewise, if you wake up and the dog (or in J's case cat :wink
Sleeping and having someone sucking your cock without you giving them permission is assault in my book.' And my cat is far to bitchy to do anything with out first being given a cat treat :biggrin1:'. And you cant compare the two. I as a gay male do not buy the 'we are just 2 guys messin around' excuse.
2 males having sex is just that, its sex. And it at least makes him Bi. Was someone holding a gun to his head? The minute that cock went into another mans mouth it made him bi.
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If a gay man offers a straight man $100 to suck his dick, and the straight man accepts the offer and goes through with the sex act, does that suddenly make the straight man bi?
No that makes him a Hooker.
I know so many gay men get off on watching the zombie eyed str8 boy getting sucked off on film. And yes that guy is getting paid. But remember. He also could have said no to the offer. In saying yes there has to be in him somewhere the desire to have another man sucking his cock.
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I'm just going by what doctors and psychologists say about how sexual orientation is defined.
I guess you can believe whatever you want to believe.
What doctors and what psychologists? Cause Im sure there are plenty that dont buy into that theory.
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No one said his orientation is suddenly changed.
I tried brussel sprouts once, didn't like it. Did that sque anything within me? Just made me realise I don't like brussell sprouts (regardless of how much butter I put on it).
I didn't vote for Obama, does that make me racist? No, that just means I voted the other way.
If I have sex with a woman, does that make me bi? No, that means I was either so drunk I didn't know better and had impaired judgement or I made a horrible mistake.
The reason why this thread is getting so mired down is because the way the situation was described ASKS for an either/or answer when it's the wrong way to approach this.
You can't turn a person into something he/she is not with a one time thing. I don't like the taste of beer, regardless of how many times I tried it growing up. So I don't drink alcohol at all. My choice in that matter. The issue was settled long ago.
Over all, if that friend of his said yes, than he is a true friend who was willing to oblige another friend. If, after letting his friend suck him off, he liked it and wanted to keep it up, then he is certainly not 100% straight. If he said no, then it's no.
But one sexual act, committed between two consenting adults, does NOT set/change anyones orientation.
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1. make U gay? no way.
2. make U happy? most definitely. "What pleases your penis pleases you"
2. make U happy? most definitely. "What pleases your penis pleases you"
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just make sure your gun doesn't go off in his hair.
That'd suck...Why you think I shave my head.
just make sure your gun doesn't go off in his hair.
Why you think I shave my head.
I thought you wore a really cute hat when doing the deed? lol :biggrin1:
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Just musing MB , and while not professing to be an expert in Pavlovian response , but do you think the reason the repetitive sex of gay men with their straight wives does not condition them to be straight is because a key ingredient might be absent ? Am wondering whether the missing ingredient might be pleasure..maybe absent that the conditioning does not occur...just musing!
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oh well it depends if it's a "Say something hat day!" like in To Wong Foo.
you want me to wear a hat or go natural when we hang out Jason? :wink:
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I think your friend has a fear of labelling himself as a result of this experience. What I wonder, is why do you want to suck your "straight" friends dick? That kind of pressure and tension between friends can be really toxic, take it from someone who's been there. Ask yourself what your motives are, and what the benifits and risks would be, then jerk off to some straight porn with him. That's what friends are for.
I don't think it would make him gay.....I think its an exxperience/experiment!
I think it would take more then just you putting your cock in his mouth to make him a gay or even bisexual.
That is something people have to work out for themselves over time.
If he suddenly decides he loves suckin cock....then yes he could well then be gay!!!
I think it would take more then just you putting your cock in his mouth to make him a gay or even bisexual.
That is something people have to work out for themselves over time.
If he suddenly decides he loves suckin cock....then yes he could well then be gay!!!
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Gay? No....not unless the guy was so good at sucking cock that you never want to touch a woman again.
Does it make you bi? Yes. Without question. You have to consent. There are different gradients of bisexuality. But if you engage in a sexual act, even as the dom (fucking or getting sucked), you are still bi. You can be mostly straight, but not straight.
But who cares so much about labels, anyway? If it feels right, do it. If not, don't. Don't give a fuck about "Oh, am I gay" or anything. Just be safe.
Does it make you bi? Yes. Without question. You have to consent. There are different gradients of bisexuality. But if you engage in a sexual act, even as the dom (fucking or getting sucked), you are still bi. You can be mostly straight, but not straight.
But who cares so much about labels, anyway? If it feels right, do it. If not, don't. Don't give a fuck about "Oh, am I gay" or anything. Just be safe.
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The American Psychological Association:
"Sexual orientation is different from sexual behavior because it refers to feelings and self-concept. Individuals may or may not express their sexual orientation in their behaviors."
APA Help Center - Health & Emotional Wellness - "Sexual Orientation and Homosexuality"
And the statements on this page were reviewed by The Cleveland Clinic Department of Psychology and Psychiatry:
Sexual Orientation
Sexual orientation is defined by attraction to one sex or the other, not by behavior.
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