Would you be able to ignore cock size for love?

[NCGUY1972]

Im slightly bigger than you and my wife says its a good size. She means it though. there are other issues going on if she is treating you like that only you and her know what they are.

 

[omgurbig]

I'm guessing you hardly ever have sex then.:frown1:

Your assumptions are incorrect. Plus this threat is not about me...let keep our opinions to the subject at hand.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Geez. I thought that kind of multi-posting the same shit in different forums wasn't allowed? I guess now it is. Before the mods would merge them into one thread in the appropriate forum.

Oh well hell. 

Moderators are not magical and don't see everything. If you want threads merged, report them, and ask. If they agree, they oblige.

 

[esoteric212]

I'll throw a picture up in my profile. I'm just rattled severly from this...cukcold? jesus...I don't know why I keep posting in here, the answer is obvious at this point.

It matters to some women and to others it doesn't. Either way don't put up with that shit if they throw it in your face as such. I'm not looking for humiliation but perhaps I was fishing for some kind words or reassurance that would help me look at the situation in a different light and not let it fester.

Sorry for the double posts, I have a habit of asking questions over and over even if there is no right answer.

 

[puckman4]

your dicks as big or bigger than 75% of men in porn she told you she had bigger because she was tired of hearing about it

 

[esoteric212]

She was tired hearing about it? I bearly brought it up, she'd just say these things randomly seemingly without provokation.

But this thread should be dead by now. I beat this dead horse ruthlessly.

 

[Tactfulgal]

I'm not looking for humiliation but perhaps I was fishing for some kind words or reassurance that would help me look at the situation in a different light and not let it fester.

Most of the responses here have told you it wasn't really about your penis. In other words, that you should be looking at the situation in a "different light." You've responded by shooting those suggestions down and defending your original assumption that it really is about the size of your penis. So it's difficult to believe that an alternative viewpoint is really what you were looking for.

 

[esoteric212]

look at my photo bro

 

[esoteric212]

Tactfulgal, you're right. I haven't been open to the possibility that it was just said out of pure spite vs. actual dissatisfaction. It's hard to believe a woman that "loves" me would do something like this just to get to me without having another reason.

Ok I get it women can be cruel, but it's fucked and it's screwing with my head cause now. what Redz_rulz said is actually on point, not gonna lie. That's what I'm starting to believe as of now, either way whether I'm right or you're right it hurt so much that I'm looking for answers none of you can really give me. That's where the repitition comes in, I see what you're all saying and I'm sorry for posting the same question twice. I have my own issues to deal with now so I can move on from this.

 

[185248]

Love is a many splendored thing, many would say so is a bigger cock.

 

[deleted509196]

Yes, if I love someone cock size isn't a deal breaker, though I will say it's good when a guy has the "whole package" so to speak. However, as others have said, that is not 'small'. Actually my bf did once say he isn't very big, but he is, he just has low self esteem. I remember when I first saw it thinking "wow" and believe me most guys I've known aren't bigger than average and some are smaller, but I've never been obsessed with size, it's who it is attached to that really matters.

 

[twoton]

Yes, absolutely people can be in love despite the "wrong" penis size. My wife has told me lots of times that she loves me for reasons other than my size. She went so far as to say we're sexually incompatible. But that was just one time, and she wasn't angry when she said it.

By the way, no ladies have answered the OPs last question about who ruined them all for you.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

By the way, no ladies have answered the OPs last question about who ruined them all for you.

It's an absurd question that I assume is due to some SPH fetish.

 

[hungthickone]

I can see what she likes, that awesome bod!

Yes, absolutely people can be in love despite the "wrong" penis size. My wife has told me lots of times that she loves me for reasons other than my size. She went so far as to say we're sexually incompatible. But that was just one time, and she wasn't angry when she said it.

By the way, no ladies have answered the OPs last question about who ruined them all for you.

 

[twoton]

I can see what she likes, that awesome bod!

Thanks.

And I said "wrong".......not too small.....:biggrin1:

 

[amazinggrace]

If you mean love in the way that I would feel special when with him.. and that I am a positive in his life? I would. For me it would be not the size as much as the man who is behind it.

 

[Popyuu]

pretty womanes ignore all when wanted or kan. ignorance ignore. brain rock ignore. secure inside ignore yes great. dont guy be that! love love love!!

 

[B_slimjimpencil]

100% agreement there. OP wants either validation or humiliation. Hard to tell which.

THIS. I know this is a continuation of another thread, but if a woman is dating you, your penis size is not an issue. The only reason to not understand this is if you lack basic logic or secretly get off on humiliation. It's pretty simple, she knew what your dick was like a long time ago, if it was an issue the relationship wouldn't have gotten as far as it did. She didn't just wake up one day and realize oh, I've been unsatisfied but never realized it. The above quote is completely right, she got mad and wanted to hurt you and that's how she decided to do it. And I think you know this, it's been covered, and yet you're still posting about it as if the issue was really your dick. So I'm calling BS, this is cuckold fantasy and you're just a little better than others at masquerading it as something else.

I think if this was a case of genuinely seeking validation there would be pics posted (going by previous experience). I'm leaning towards humiliation... but not OPs. He reads like one of those guys who gets off on people abusing his partner/women are all slaves to the huge cock, etc etc.

If it's a genuine scenario, there was no point to this thread - everything was said in the other one. The repetition and the fact it's the only subject he's posted on since he got here is what makes it seem fetishy to me. I'm just skeptical. The question seems incongruous with the surroundings I guess. JMO.

your dicks as big or bigger than 75% of men in porn she told you she had bigger because she was tired of hearing about it

I seriously doubt it's his true size. Or this story is completely fabricated and OP is just looking for size validation.

^ these

 

[B_gundyone]

I would be honest with the guy if he didnt satisfy me however that is not all on his shoulders. It takes two and open communication. Also' i think your size is great. I love looking at really big ones but alot on here are honestly to big for me they are just nice to look at. 8 to 8 1/2 inches is just perfect to me. She was a bitch and you shouldnt focus to much on her

 

[Spoiler]

My wife was in a great relationship at one point then it was over. We got together and then he tried to get her back. He had a small dick so she stayed with me. She said she cod never marry him because a life of unfulfilled sex was something she couldn't do.