Dave NoCal
Superior Member
Fuck being naked, I long to feel comfortable shirtless...
Since I first realised my chest was not normal, I have been paranoid of being made fun of, and have not been in public shirtless since I was 12.
The exceptions were 3 years ago, I was in Williamsburg with some friends and I decided to join them in tanning, and took off my shirt. One of them then proceeded to use the indentation as a basketball goal for shit she was picking up off the ground.
The other exception was a few months ago, it was the first warm day of spring, and so I went out on the porch of my dorm to get some sun. Friends came out because they saw me out there and just asked a lot of questions, to which they are entitled but they made me feel freakish nonetheless...
So as I said before, forget being naked...I just want to be able to get a tan without feeling like an alien...
It's kind of easier for others to advise you to just get over it than to get over it. You are a really cute guy and deserve to feel good about yourself. Plus there may be real health issues involved. There is surgical correction available and it probably would be covered by insurance, especially if the indentation is compressing your heart and/or lungs. You would have a scar but could claim to have won a knife fight in Tijuana!
Dave
http://www.pectusdeformity.com/
Since I first realised my chest was not normal, I have been paranoid of being made fun of, and have not been in public shirtless since I was 12.
The exceptions were 3 years ago, I was in Williamsburg with some friends and I decided to join them in tanning, and took off my shirt. One of them then proceeded to use the indentation as a basketball goal for shit she was picking up off the ground.
The other exception was a few months ago, it was the first warm day of spring, and so I went out on the porch of my dorm to get some sun. Friends came out because they saw me out there and just asked a lot of questions, to which they are entitled but they made me feel freakish nonetheless...
So as I said before, forget being naked...I just want to be able to get a tan without feeling like an alien...
It's kind of easier for others to advise you to just get over it than to get over it. You are a really cute guy and deserve to feel good about yourself. Plus there may be real health issues involved. There is surgical correction available and it probably would be covered by insurance, especially if the indentation is compressing your heart and/or lungs. You would have a scar but could claim to have won a knife fight in Tijuana!
Dave
http://www.pectusdeformity.com/
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