10 Reasons I Am Bi

There is quite a bit of discussion about the basis for a bisexual orientation. Some believe that everyone is born with a very diffuse sexuality, so that we all start out as essentially bisexual, but social and psychological forces pull most people closer to one end of the heterosexual/homosexual spectrum.

Others claim that sexual orientation has already pretty much been fixed when we are born.

In my own particular case, it seems to me that I started out with a strong but pretty unfocused sexual energy and with a great interest in the bodies and sexual organs of both males and females. I feel that, had my experiences been somewhat different, I might have ended up decisively on either the heterosexual end of the spectrum or the homosexual end.

I have started to put together some thoughts on how I think it was that I ended up where I am, kind of in the middle of the spectrum of sexual orientation. I decided to organize these thoughts in the form of a list of “10 Reasons I Am Bi”. So here is the first installment. Some have to do with my nature from the get-go, others have to do with forces beyond my control, and still others feel like something approaching conscious decisions.

I welcome comments about how the experiences and perceptions of others compare to mine.

10 Reasons I Am Bi

#10 Cock and only cock

Cock was all I knew through crucial years of my development since I never had sexual contact with anyone at all until late in my teens. Consequently, my own cock was all I experienced year after year after year. After being that cock-centered for so long, there was no way that social pressure to be straight was going to be completely effective.

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Thank you for posting. I am also bi, and will eagerly await your further thoughts on this topic.
 
I am truly a hippie at heart. When I was young I remember, "make love, not war". Sex was making love, it was fun, it was clean, it was pure." The act itself was a part of all healthy relationships. For years, in my way of thinking you had to have sex for your relationships to be real. This was with one or both sexes. If you didn't have sex, you were just going through the motions and probably more of an acquaintance. True, I did have several friends in high school that I didn't ever have sex with. Though, I feel like the sexual energy was there. I think if I was young in this day and age, I would probably go ahead and make the first move. Back then, we were inhibited though we may have had the feelings. There I said it!
 
That sounds like a good point ... but then in my perspective, pussy was all I knew until my late teens as well. Same as you, but reverse. After years of being so "pussy-centered" I was ready for cock when I finally got it... and never wanted to go back to solo.. or just pussy.

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Since I was around 9 or 10, I enjoyed playing with other boys and looking at their cocks. I started dating girls in high school but still enjoyed jacking with other guys. I enjoy being with men as well as with my wife. A report I recently read said something like 76% of women are bisexual and most men are straight or gay. Interesting I thought.
 

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