So to continue the thread from my last post - Pumping with a Partner - I thought I would share my experiences pumping with girlfriend at the same time. The first time we tried this, it was kind of by necessity. I had left the pump connected to the cylinder I use and it fell on the floor and the little plastic connector broke. No connector, no pumping
I went to rummag through a junk drawer looking for some crazy glue, but I came up empty. Almost. What I did find was a plastic T connnector from an old aquarium pump. It work super well and I decided to just take the connector of the pump my GF uses, and that's when I had a bit of a brain wave. I subsequently found out that lots of people join their pumps together, and since all it takes is a T- connector (I eventually found a good one in the lab at school) it is easily done.
The advantages to pumping connected have everything to do with a more intense sexual experience, and nothing to do with convenience or performance. In fact, you are forced to stay close to your partner and match their pressure, so there is even an element of inconvenience.
When we pump connected, my GF and I lube up and set a baseline pressure. This is ideally enough to get a good seal and feel a bit of tension, but not enough to actually build up enough suction to really start filling out.....that comes later!
Once we set our base pressure then we start the fun. Basically we pump so that each pump to increase suction is like a reward. What it might be a reward for is up to you!
The most intense shared session we have had recently started of innocently enough...We agreed on a pump each in exchange for a kiss. She kissed me pretty good, so there was one pump, and then I gave her a nice one, so there was another. Two pumps is enough to get a pretty good pressure going, so now I was feeling pretty hard, and even though I had not begun to fill out at all, I could tell I was above the usual pressure, so I suggested we take it easy for a while. We watched a show, we watched another, and by then I was definitely starting to notice my balls filling up. GF was getting pretty wet, and so we decided to up the ante a little. She proposed that we get a little kinky. She is really REALLY into nipple play, especially wax. I am into it too, but a little goes along way for me! When she proposed that I had to take 10 drips on each nipple before another pump I felt a little daunted. I agreed, but only on the condition that she did the same with quarter-turns on her nipple clamps. After an awkward walk to the bedside table to get them, we were ready to go. Well, suffice it to say that by the end of it I was in a bit of pain, but absolutely as hard as a rock. The next pump felt almost overwhelming, I could feel my head absolutely swollen to the max, and my foreskin was starting to stretch out and flare out at the opening. I didn't know how much more I could take, so I knew the next challenge had to be a good one. We watched another episode to let the pressure work, and I could feel my balls continue to drop and stretch out.
One of the things my GF is not really into (but I do like) is anal. The only thing she does like to do once in a while is fill her ass up with lube before we even have sex, and then right as I am ready to cum, she gets me to pull out and shove my cock all the way into her ass to cum. I don't really get how she can like that if she isn't into regular anal, but whatever, to each their own, right? Anyway, I keep trying to get her into it, and so I offered her a chance to earn our next pump by trying to get her biggest vibrator into her ass.
It was almost all over right then and there, but I could tell she wanted that pump, and so she agreed to try. She lubed up like crazy, and started working her ass with her fingers, trying to loosen up a bit. Watching her do this was pretty hot, and I was really starting to swell up, I was flexing my cock and each time, I could see my foreskin stretch out as my head flared. I was dripping pre-cum like crazy, and I could tell she was soaking wet too. Well, she was finally ready for the dildo, and after what seemed like ages, she finally managed to get the head of it into her ass past the sphincter. As she closed up over the shaft, I could see how tight she was, but she was still smiling. I told her no deal, she had to get it all the way in for the pump.
I asked her if I could push it in, and she grudgingly agreed. I knew she wanted that pump real bad, and so I told her lie back and pull her legs up and spread her ass as wide as she could. I kneeled over her, and with one hand on the pump and one on the dildo, I counted to three and the at the same time I sqeezed the pump as far as I could and pushed the remaining 4 or 5 inches of the dildo all the way into her.
We were both just about to lose it, the pressure was so intense, and knowing that too much suction is bound to cause problems, I decided we should probably let some air in. She wouldn't hear of it, but I finally convinced her it was for the best. I was also pretty desperate to fuck her, or at least eat out her pussy. I could see her lips pressed flat against the dome, and I knew she was probably more pumped than ever before. She had also decided not to pump her clit separately, and so I knew she was probably pretty swollen. Her lips were all pressed together, but I knew that there was a very tender and very swollen clit down there that was going to be begging for a nice long suck!
Anyway, I told her to ease her half off first, and so she flipped the valve on the T and let her pressure equalize. Her cup came loose, and I was right...as her pussy spread open, I could see her clit poking right out from under her hood, which had never happened before. She was so wet too, I was ready to blow. Her labia were so fat and swollen they wouldn't even touch...they were spread right out and I could see her inner lips were red and swollen, and man was she dripping!
I was ready to fuck her right then and there, and she even started teasing me by rubbing the tip of the dildo around her asshole, but she kept holding the valve end of the hose away and not letting me release the pressure. I was starting to sit up to grab the valve back, and then I felt a weird feeling I had never felt before when pumping, almost like I was peeing. Even though up until that point I was unconsciously flexing my cock, I felt myself go totally relaxed, and then after a few seconds, I slowly I started to flex harder and harder, but not through any effort of my own. I was freaked that I had done something weird and stayed pumped too long at to low a pressure, and so I told her to release the suction. She could tell I was worried, and so she did, but even as she flipped the valve, I could feel my cock flexing even harder and I started to cum. For the first few pulses, all I could feel was the flexing, no orgasm, but I kept sqeezing out load after load, and in another second, I could feel the most intense orgasm of my life! I was still in the cylinder (much to my regret!) but I didn't care. I was in heaven!
After finally coming down and resting for a few minutes, I got my shit together enough to actually have sex, but the funny thing was that after spending the last two hours telling my GF how hard I was going to pound her, I was totally spent, and I could barely even take the stimulation of letting her ride me on top. She hadn't yet cum, so she was absolutely merciless!
Anyway, since then, I have tried cumming without direct stimulation a number of times, and it remains the most intense orgasm experience I can manage. My GF hasn't yet figured out how or if it will work for her, but let me know if any of you ladies out there can offer us some advice!
The advantages to pumping connected have everything to do with a more intense sexual experience, and nothing to do with convenience or performance. In fact, you are forced to stay close to your partner and match their pressure, so there is even an element of inconvenience.
When we pump connected, my GF and I lube up and set a baseline pressure. This is ideally enough to get a good seal and feel a bit of tension, but not enough to actually build up enough suction to really start filling out.....that comes later!
Once we set our base pressure then we start the fun. Basically we pump so that each pump to increase suction is like a reward. What it might be a reward for is up to you!
The most intense shared session we have had recently started of innocently enough...We agreed on a pump each in exchange for a kiss. She kissed me pretty good, so there was one pump, and then I gave her a nice one, so there was another. Two pumps is enough to get a pretty good pressure going, so now I was feeling pretty hard, and even though I had not begun to fill out at all, I could tell I was above the usual pressure, so I suggested we take it easy for a while. We watched a show, we watched another, and by then I was definitely starting to notice my balls filling up. GF was getting pretty wet, and so we decided to up the ante a little. She proposed that we get a little kinky. She is really REALLY into nipple play, especially wax. I am into it too, but a little goes along way for me! When she proposed that I had to take 10 drips on each nipple before another pump I felt a little daunted. I agreed, but only on the condition that she did the same with quarter-turns on her nipple clamps. After an awkward walk to the bedside table to get them, we were ready to go. Well, suffice it to say that by the end of it I was in a bit of pain, but absolutely as hard as a rock. The next pump felt almost overwhelming, I could feel my head absolutely swollen to the max, and my foreskin was starting to stretch out and flare out at the opening. I didn't know how much more I could take, so I knew the next challenge had to be a good one. We watched another episode to let the pressure work, and I could feel my balls continue to drop and stretch out.
One of the things my GF is not really into (but I do like) is anal. The only thing she does like to do once in a while is fill her ass up with lube before we even have sex, and then right as I am ready to cum, she gets me to pull out and shove my cock all the way into her ass to cum. I don't really get how she can like that if she isn't into regular anal, but whatever, to each their own, right? Anyway, I keep trying to get her into it, and so I offered her a chance to earn our next pump by trying to get her biggest vibrator into her ass.
It was almost all over right then and there, but I could tell she wanted that pump, and so she agreed to try. She lubed up like crazy, and started working her ass with her fingers, trying to loosen up a bit. Watching her do this was pretty hot, and I was really starting to swell up, I was flexing my cock and each time, I could see my foreskin stretch out as my head flared. I was dripping pre-cum like crazy, and I could tell she was soaking wet too. Well, she was finally ready for the dildo, and after what seemed like ages, she finally managed to get the head of it into her ass past the sphincter. As she closed up over the shaft, I could see how tight she was, but she was still smiling. I told her no deal, she had to get it all the way in for the pump.
I asked her if I could push it in, and she grudgingly agreed. I knew she wanted that pump real bad, and so I told her lie back and pull her legs up and spread her ass as wide as she could. I kneeled over her, and with one hand on the pump and one on the dildo, I counted to three and the at the same time I sqeezed the pump as far as I could and pushed the remaining 4 or 5 inches of the dildo all the way into her.
We were both just about to lose it, the pressure was so intense, and knowing that too much suction is bound to cause problems, I decided we should probably let some air in. She wouldn't hear of it, but I finally convinced her it was for the best. I was also pretty desperate to fuck her, or at least eat out her pussy. I could see her lips pressed flat against the dome, and I knew she was probably more pumped than ever before. She had also decided not to pump her clit separately, and so I knew she was probably pretty swollen. Her lips were all pressed together, but I knew that there was a very tender and very swollen clit down there that was going to be begging for a nice long suck!
Anyway, I told her to ease her half off first, and so she flipped the valve on the T and let her pressure equalize. Her cup came loose, and I was right...as her pussy spread open, I could see her clit poking right out from under her hood, which had never happened before. She was so wet too, I was ready to blow. Her labia were so fat and swollen they wouldn't even touch...they were spread right out and I could see her inner lips were red and swollen, and man was she dripping!
I was ready to fuck her right then and there, and she even started teasing me by rubbing the tip of the dildo around her asshole, but she kept holding the valve end of the hose away and not letting me release the pressure. I was starting to sit up to grab the valve back, and then I felt a weird feeling I had never felt before when pumping, almost like I was peeing. Even though up until that point I was unconsciously flexing my cock, I felt myself go totally relaxed, and then after a few seconds, I slowly I started to flex harder and harder, but not through any effort of my own. I was freaked that I had done something weird and stayed pumped too long at to low a pressure, and so I told her to release the suction. She could tell I was worried, and so she did, but even as she flipped the valve, I could feel my cock flexing even harder and I started to cum. For the first few pulses, all I could feel was the flexing, no orgasm, but I kept sqeezing out load after load, and in another second, I could feel the most intense orgasm of my life! I was still in the cylinder (much to my regret!) but I didn't care. I was in heaven!
After finally coming down and resting for a few minutes, I got my shit together enough to actually have sex, but the funny thing was that after spending the last two hours telling my GF how hard I was going to pound her, I was totally spent, and I could barely even take the stimulation of letting her ride me on top. She hadn't yet cum, so she was absolutely merciless!
Anyway, since then, I have tried cumming without direct stimulation a number of times, and it remains the most intense orgasm experience I can manage. My GF hasn't yet figured out how or if it will work for her, but let me know if any of you ladies out there can offer us some advice!