Am I fat?

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I've been working out alot and watching my food intake. When I saw this picture I feel undecided but not. This doesn't make sense.

No, I am not insecure or embarrassed, but im still not happy with it. I will continue to diet and exercise, its a lifestyle now, but do you think I look fat or thick or curvy? Is my body gross? Honest please. I wouldn't lie to you.

Do I have sexy potential?

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Really? 24 views and not one person has an opinion? Maybe you all feel as if I'm fishing. Well, I'm not. I ask because first, I read a thread about "would you date, fuck or marry a fat girl? " And there was the question about defining fat, chubby and obese. Where do I fit in? And secondly, I ask because my boyfriend makes mean comments about my body and I just don't see where it's so bad?
 
Fat in comparison to what? I'd say you are overweight and they are guys out there who like thick women like yourself. If you want to continue to lose weight then answer some of these questions to help evaluate why you are stuck at your current weight or impatient with your weight loss as of late....How long have you been working out? What does your diet consist of? Do you get enough sleep? Are you stressed a lot? What our workout routine? Do you change it up every 4-6 weeks. Do you only take your weight into account or also waist measurements?
 
I think you look like a curvy healthy girl. Losing weight and eating healthy is a LONGGGG road. It took me 1.5 years to lose 80 lbs! You should always work a little bit harder every day @ the gym. Like running 2 minutes more each day etc. I was stuck at a plateau weight for a LONGGGG time ( 6 months) and i had to work out insanely to break it ! :)
 
You're fat if you feel and say you are fat. What is one persons opinion about what is fat may differ from another's. Only you can answer that question if you're fat or not.
 
I believe that you are what ever you think you are. To answer your question, given the picture that I see I would say you are overweight. As a man who has had trouble gaining weight I have no idea what it is like to live a life where you are trying to lose weight and avoid scrutinizing eyes. Your bf should be supportive of your efforts as using derogatory terms is not at all helping you with your dedication to your new lifestyle.

My gf thinks she is "curvy" but if you put her height and weight into a bmi calculator (try it to get an idea of where you may be) it will give a reading that is at the upper end of obese and nearly in the "extremely obese" category - being in the healthcare field I would consider her to certainly be overweight and I have hoped she would exercise and lose some for her own health (and honestly I will be more attracted to her if she has less padding). The beauty of it all is that it can be changed and it sounds like you are working on exercise and diet not due to your body composition but because you will be better for it and that is great! (btw my gf is working on the same lifestyle changes and is making great strides)

Feel free to contact me if you'd like further discussion.
 
SprinkleMe69;bt37850 said:
P.S. Dump the asshole boyfriend. :wink:

Ditto the advise!! You my dear are suffering from assholeitis...not from any overweight issues. There are wonderful men out there (and no I'm not hoarding them,lol!) who will not only think you're the most beautiful woman they've ever beheld, but will treat you like the sweet sexy woman you are. Dump him NOW!!!

Start holding your head high and look people square in the face not forgetting to make eye contact. It pulls your entire frame up, your abs in and breasts out. Smile even if you have to fake it and soon you'll be attracting men who know how to treat you with the respect and love you deserve!
 
There is nothing whatsoever wrong with trying to lose weight and stay in shape. But any man who tells you that you are in not a sexy and delicious woman is just blind. I don't know why you would stay with a boyfriend who doesn't appreciate what and who you are. If he doesn't think you are hot, why is he with you? Lose him...then find another man and lose a few pounds if it make you feel better emotionally and physically. The old boyfriend really feel like an idiot then.
 
Ok. I appreciate everyone. I just don't have good body image judgment. Lets see what kind of progress I make in a month! I currently burn 700 calories at the gym 3-5 days a week and typically eat around 1700-1900 calories per day.
 
I ll put it this way, you have only a few pounds to go and its not like some that need to loose 50 or a 100. I am not fat but need to loose 11 pounds to meet the Army's weight standard and I always remind myself that its not 50 and that I have a lot less to go than some. Then here's the kicker, why the hell can't I? LOL! No your not fat, I would be proud to be seen with you. If you wore a cute dress, my friends would be envious!
 
You look just fine. There is nothing wrong with a healthy diet + fresh air and exercise, but this is for your long term physical wellbeing.
Personally, I love curvy features, as much as I love slim athletic features.
What really turns me on is a confident smile, cuddles and a healthy apetite for mutually satisfying sex.
 
It's hard to tell what catagory you fit in by your pics, but your not fat. Also would agree that your posture is a bit off. Send me or us a full frontal and rear view, no pun intended. Wear skimpy panties or a thong if you don't wish to post a nude. Will be more specific then. Also keeping up with a good diet and excercise is needed for everyone.
 
It's hard to tell what catagory you fit in by your pics, but your not fat. Also would agree that your posture is a bit off. Send me or us a full frontal and rear view, no pun intended. Wear skimpy panties or a thong if you don't wish to post a nude. Will be more specific then. Also keeping up with a good diet and excercise is needed for everyone.
 

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