An Oral Manifesto...

Just to clear things up, this is a manifesto concerning oral sex, not a general manifesto that's delivered orally.

Those of you that are familiar with my blog should be aware that I love giving head. I love everything about it, in fact. I think it's something about the selflessness of the act; serving the sexual needs of another without thought of reciprocation or your own needs. The fact that my recipients are often strong, sexy, eloquent men who look after themselves and are a sheer delight in their own right is neither here nor there. OK, so maybe selfless isn't exactly the right word... Regardless, this manifesto is written with the noble aim of making things better for both parties.

While it's clear that the giver has plenty of resources at his/her command to make the receiver's experience more pleasurable, similarly the receiver can make things even better for the giver. If you're sitting (or standing etc.) comfortably, I'd like to present a few such things here.

Feedback, as you're all aware, is greatly appreciated, and can be used to great effect by the giver. This can be anything from explicitly commenting on how whatever is being done feels really good, to a suble signal such as a touch or a soft moan. Part of the fun then becomes interpreting, and you may have the odd happy misunderstanding along the way. If your giver seems to be enjoying himself/herself and doing his/her best to cater to your every whim, why not ask for more and see what happens?

As well as for the purpose of feedback, moaning can be simply a sign of encouragement; 'good boy/girl, that feels great, I feel like a king!'. The main reason we're doing what we're doing is for you. We want you to enjoy it! Also, the noises you make are downright hot.

It may seem a little inconsequential, but part of the reason I chose to do this with you was how big and strong your hands look. Why not do something nice like touch my shoulders or neck with them? Just a little skin contact can make me feel appreciated, needed even. A little human touch, maybe eye-contact can go a long way towards intensifying the intimate experience. Rubbing the muscles in my neck and shoulders can help to relax me, and feels really good. I'm sure you'll agree, if there's one person in the world you want to make feel good at the moment, it's the person from whom you're receiving. 'Live and Let Live' is the motto here.

Finally, my hair. It's little difficult to express just how tender an experience it is when someone you're giving to runs their hand lovingly through your hair. It often sends chills down my spine, especially when the receiver explores different areas of my hair. He (I'll stick with just 'he' in this case :) ) can reach back to the nape of my neck and tug at the hair there, or run his hand from that spot up into my hair slowly. He can start at one side and rub across my head, start at the front and move backwards, or even move at random or in a zig-zag pattern (where are his hands going to be next? That's part of the excitement.)

If you're feeling a little bold, you could also try moving my head up/down/in whatever direction you think would give you more pleasure by tugging at my hair slightly. I promise I'll take the hint; 'what's that?? What you'd really like is for me to turn my head this way a little? Yes, Sir!'

One or more of these things, in a variety of orders or combinations, can turn a very good giving experience into a very great one. I'm inclined to make you happy anyway, but if you show you care about my pleasure as well, there aren't many things I won't do for you. But don't take my word for it...

Comments

Wow, that's hot, I like to hear moans and ahhhhhs and hand touching is great too, thanks for confirming this for us. I only wish we were closer to share a blow job and pleasure.
 
Female here...I totally agree. I cannot read a guy's mind, but moans, sighs, comments and even direction is welcomed. I like a hand in my hair---gently. Nothing makes me hotter than for there to be eye contact. I also like a guy to take his cock and hold it and rim my mouth and lips with it---teasing me....making me almost beg for it. Because I WANT to pleasure my lover...and it is a huge turn-on for me. Mmmm!!! So good.
 
A constant feedback loop... moans, touches, verbal, gestures... definitely enhances the blowjob experience for both parties. I think guys getting sucked like feedback too...telling him how big his cocks is, looking up into his eyes with a mouthful of his cock, appreciative sucking sounds, even gagging and choking turns a lot of guys on and stimulates a more intense climax.
 
Good points Deepthroat. In fact, I believe that some nice, eloquent 'receiver' should post their version of the manifesto. Mine's written from a giver's point of view, after all, and it's only healthy to understand things from all possible perspectives...
 
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I totally embrace the mind/mind/cock connection that makes these feeder/eater sessions magic. Seattle here.
 

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