For some odd reason, whenever I have spoken with a guy that was interested in me both in the past or the present, they always seem to feel the need to tell me about their previous sex partners. I believe its their way to show me that they are experienced and would know what to do if I was with them. While they intend for this bit of information to help my decision it does not help in the way that they desire. I don't need to know about every orifice you have been in while we are just getting to know each other.
Now don't get me wrong I have no problem with a person being extremely sexually active, even those whose list of partners is longer than the Gettysburg address, it is their preference and more power to them. I personally just don't find it attractive in the person I am dating. A history of a few sexual partners is fine as long as they have been safe. However most guys feel the need to tell you that they have been with like 40 people, and Im sure 90% of them are lying though their teeth.
When they tell me their " high number" I always do the same thing, Laugh and call them a man whore jokingly while crossing them off the the possible interest list in my mind. A few who I knew as friends later on told me they lied and that they had a much more reasonable amount. I guess I just dont understand the reasoning behind telling me that information in the first place when we hadn't been speaking that long to begin with.
I spoke to my best friend about this last night and while I would have no problem telling her if I was with a person or people, I don't think I would just let anyone know. We have both agreed that its odd when guys do this and we have similar thought on it. I haven't really spoken with any other women I know about it. I'm sure there are many who will differ from my opinion though.
Now don't get me wrong I have no problem with a person being extremely sexually active, even those whose list of partners is longer than the Gettysburg address, it is their preference and more power to them. I personally just don't find it attractive in the person I am dating. A history of a few sexual partners is fine as long as they have been safe. However most guys feel the need to tell you that they have been with like 40 people, and Im sure 90% of them are lying though their teeth.
When they tell me their " high number" I always do the same thing, Laugh and call them a man whore jokingly while crossing them off the the possible interest list in my mind. A few who I knew as friends later on told me they lied and that they had a much more reasonable amount. I guess I just dont understand the reasoning behind telling me that information in the first place when we hadn't been speaking that long to begin with.
I spoke to my best friend about this last night and while I would have no problem telling her if I was with a person or people, I don't think I would just let anyone know. We have both agreed that its odd when guys do this and we have similar thought on it. I haven't really spoken with any other women I know about it. I'm sure there are many who will differ from my opinion though.