Any Ideas?

So I have put up a few posts in the recent past bitching about how my love life has been. Just a place to vent ya know. Im going to do it again for your viewing displeasure.

So in my last post I was pissed that a particular woman decided that she was done talking to me. Just up and shut off communication. As you can tell I was pissed at first, but quickly got over myself as I went on a business trip followed quickly by vacation. Then smack right out of the blue, while on vacation, she starts back up with the talk. It was in the middle of the night, while I was up and sober, I dont know that she was. I made small talk and dismissed it as drunk texting. (Her texts were coherent, so I really dont know.)

Fast forward exactly one week...Im home from vacation, and enjoying a good time with friends. This was last night, and I get another message from her asking what Im up to. Simple conversation ensues till I get home and Im finally ready to call it a night. Here is where I screwed up. I messaged her today to say hello.

For anyone who didnt read my previous post, in the short amount of time that I dated this woman, I really enjoyed her company. And all indications would point to the same conclusion of her.

So all of that backstory for these questions. When she messages again (I would put money down that she does,) what would be a proper course of action? Since I am curious, can I ask her why she messages me?

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Uh, sure. Ask her, she sounds a bit off to me, like, if she really wanted to see you, she'd see you. If not....well, she wouldn't.

Maybe it's not that simple, maybe she's into 'games' and wants to know you will respond. Do you? When she texts, do you respond in a few minutes, seconds....or leave her hanging until the morning, then do an "I just saw this, nice to hear from you, how's it been? Why texting me now?" lol. I'd do that. This is an old post but no one responded and i was surfing around.

hope this helps out now or in the future.
 
Thanks for your comment. I have moved on from her. She has messaged me a few times since then. It is usually pretty late, so I chalk it up to drunk texting and make small talk. Leave it as such. Beings that the night life around here is pretty slight, we will see how things go when we have a run in.
 

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