Any Parents out there?

I would just like to hear from some other married parents out there how they deal with there children having sex. How did you confront from? What did you say? Did you get into specifics?

Can anyone help me out? I have 3 sons two of which are 19 and 17 and they both have girl friends and I know they have been having sex, and I just want to make sure they are safe and wear there heads are at.

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I have three kids...two girls, 24 and 16, and a boy, 21. The only way to deal with sex and your kids today is to be upfront and open about it. I have had very deep discussions with all of them about the joys, hazards and responsibilities of having sex. Sure, there were uncomfortable moments. But I know that that kind of an attitude with them allows a mature and caring exchange of information that could actually save their lives. I have, for example, reminded each of them that they must remember that when they have sex, they are having sex with every other person their partner has ever had sex with. When they realize that, I think, they protect themselves...even in committed relationships. So far (and I make the sign of the cross here), my older two are in mature and healthy relationships and my youngest girl has not yet had sex (she tells me). Good luck!
 
talk to them i had parents that never talked about sex it was taboo in our home so i found out on my own what all the fuss was about and tho i love my little girl to death i no had i waited till after college life would have been alot easier
 
My dad caught me jacking off when I was 13. I had already been jacking for 2 years, but he was still treating me like I was a kid, which I alwasy thought was odd, because he had signed off on my sex ed class in jr, high....like I'd take it before I could jack off? Anyway, he walked by my bedroom after midnight one night on the way down to the bathroom and saw me stroking - I didn't stop and he just continued walking by. The next night I discoverd a lame book (like from the dr's office about puberty) underneath my pillow. The next morning at breakfast, in front of my Mom, he says "I left a book under your pillow last night. Maybe someday we can talk about it." That was it.... My mom actuall handled it better when he left and said - If you have questions just let your dad or I know or tell me you have questions for the doctor and I'll make an appointment. Oh, and close your door at night. I blushed and she said, it's alright, you are a man now you deserve privacy too. If we were jewish, we'd have a party."

My son will be 4 next month...I'm looking for advice on LPSG in 7 years.
 
i wish i had parents that actually care like. everything i know about sex i learn it online, witch by the way is very litlle since im a virgin lol
 

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