Hi guys, slightly new to
posting on the forums. Just wondering if anyone here has lost their V-Card at a pretty late age. And a follow up to that, was it to a friend, girlfriend, one night stand, escort, or someone not in that category.
I was 37 when I got married and my wife was my first. I am so happy I didn't get a one night stand I solve my problem because it was awkward and a little embarrassing when we first started having sex but because of my wife's love it was also fun and exciting and safe. There is nothing like the experience of being in a committed relationship and getting to learn. Don't cheapen it just to have sex. Sex has way too much value and also messes with you if you get into bad patterns or feel shame. It's worth doing it with someone you love who will be patient and laugh with you over the start up process. We love sex so much together and it is worth it.