As if I didn't have enough problems

This blog is great. I can post some other stuff that I wouldn't normally put in my main blog here. And I've gotten some great comments so far from people. Noone is judgemental here. I guess when you're on a site where people have dicks ranging from average to enormous, a lot of the normal attitudes are checked at the login page.

Ok, this morning I couldn't get hard to masturbate. That's the second time this week that I've had that trouble. I know I'm sick and all, but I didn't think that would be a deciding factor on whether or not I'd be able to get off.

I've been thinking about a sex counselor. Since 2005, I've been slowly sliding away from gay sex. Sex in general for that matter. Except for masturbation. I guess I just got tired of the whole rat race of trying to meet a guy that wasn't a dick (no pun intended) or had a hangup about my race. At 8 x 5.75, I figured I'd not have a whole lot of trouble getting guys. I was wrong.

Even though I have a bf right now, I still don't feel much in the sexual thing. I've just gotten so jaded by it. Can you actually have had so much sex that you get numb to it? Looking back, I've posted some high hookup numbers. Mostly quality too. LOL. But, maybe I'm just burned out on sex? That's something you don't hear everyday. I'm not even getting aroused checking out the massive cocks I see here. Shame really. There are some beauties out here.

I don't know. The whole thing reeks of another psychological issue. On top of the bipolar, I'm having erectile dysfunction. What fun.

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Well you could ask youself if you find it a problem why.

Maybe the result of 1 is not the cause of the same but the reaction to another.
 
If you have changed medications lately that might just be one cause of the E.D. thing, and really, from time to time we all have off times. Anything unusually upsetting can also cause this problem, and if you want to go the counseler route, that's a fine thing.
Can it be that you're becoming "un-gay"? It's scary to think that we can actually change our orientation, because we like to think of ourselves as being pretty much the way we are, but maybe that's actually the case. How about the BF? Is he truly caring and supportive? I'm sure that if you have a good relationship with him he will be of a lot of help to you if you have good communication with him.
I know this sounds just plain glib coming from a stranger, but try to relax and not stress out about this - it won't help. Take care.
 
Erectile dysfunction is common, every man will experience it some way or the other. The word is not to panic. It can happen to anybody. Why don't you try to consult a Doctor? If you want to get your sexdrive back look around there is always a solution.
 

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