I'm going to be in Chicago over Thanksgiving, and there's a location of a chain bath house in the downtown. In addition to Chicago, this chain has 2 locations in Canada, and 2 in West Coast US states.
I've never been to a bath house. On the one hand, it sounds exciting and daring, even if all I end up doing is watching. On the other hand, I'm a clean, safe guy. It feels insane to even think of going somewhere where (and this is my assumption) most of the guys let promiscuity override safety.
Also, is this a case of trying to run before you walk? Aside from some youthful indiscretions, this would be my first time even being in a situation where I'd even possibly be with a guy.
Is it creepy to go and just watch? Or j/o to others?
It also feels like something I could put off for later instead of trying to squeeze into the holiday schedule. But I've put off a lot "for later". BUT, it's only about a 2-hour drive from home. Waiting until some time in Jan or Feb might be smart. Argh, I don't know!
I guess my biggest question is: If I do not engage in anal sex (which isn't my thing anyway), and stick to just jacking off, possibly getting blow jobs or a mutual j/o session, is that "safe"? Or is the whole environment unsafe? This feels crazy even contemplating it!
I'm especially curious to hear from guys here who play safe and have gone to a bath house. Yay or Nay?
I've never been to a bath house. On the one hand, it sounds exciting and daring, even if all I end up doing is watching. On the other hand, I'm a clean, safe guy. It feels insane to even think of going somewhere where (and this is my assumption) most of the guys let promiscuity override safety.
Also, is this a case of trying to run before you walk? Aside from some youthful indiscretions, this would be my first time even being in a situation where I'd even possibly be with a guy.
Is it creepy to go and just watch? Or j/o to others?
It also feels like something I could put off for later instead of trying to squeeze into the holiday schedule. But I've put off a lot "for later". BUT, it's only about a 2-hour drive from home. Waiting until some time in Jan or Feb might be smart. Argh, I don't know!
I guess my biggest question is: If I do not engage in anal sex (which isn't my thing anyway), and stick to just jacking off, possibly getting blow jobs or a mutual j/o session, is that "safe"? Or is the whole environment unsafe? This feels crazy even contemplating it!
I'm especially curious to hear from guys here who play safe and have gone to a bath house. Yay or Nay?