Then what about guys who get cut and pierced later on? I've always been curious about their outlook.
Most guys start masturbating at 12 or 13 so all the guys I know who got pierced and cut at 15 or later must have known how it felt like to have a foreskin. I guess this is when psychology takes over "simple" bodily functions.
When asking these guys how they feel their sexuality has evolved they all agree that masturbation, when only performed on their dick, is less satisfying than before and that it often required some hard stroking on their shaft. I think 99% of clean guys own a dildo or a butt plug, this is how you make up for the loss of sensations during masturbation.
However, when it comes to sex with a partner, they all agree that it's way better after getting cut and pierced. First because the piercing obviously gives you extra sensations, second because sex with a partner is the only time someone is rubbing your glans so it feels extra special and third because it boosts your self confidence, especially at age 15.
I talked to that man and his son :
He's a friend of my uncle's. They are not blood related to us at all and do not come from the same background. He had been a friend of my uncle's for many years when he suddenly decided to get cut (and rather heavily if you ask me) and pierced. It happened amidst a (nasty) divorce. The kind of decision you make at the same time you decide to exercise more and eat healthier. At the same time he was also exploring his sexuality with other men and this is how he ended up making this decision. My uncle gave him all the advice he could possibly give him and that was it. One piece of advice that he gave him was to be open about it with his family. This guy was not nudist at all, he did not understand why he would have to share that with anyone.
Yet, even if you're not nudist, you might be seen naked by accident at some point by someone and that moment might not be the best one to explain that piece of metal and missing skin. And then you're going to have to explain how, when, where and why it happened and some lies you might have told at that time will be exposed. It's never a good idea to lie to people and it's not a good look to get exposed.
His son told me how the conversation started. His dad had him sit down at the dinning room table and said :
- I'm gonna get small surgery at the hospital.
- What kind of surgery.
- Cosmetic surgery.
- You're gonna get a nose job?
- No stupid!
- Then what are you gonna get done ?
At this point the Dad, named P. was about to reply "none of your business" but I guess he remembered my uncle's advice. Plus, he knew he was going to feel very uncomfortable down there for months and therefore that the region he was planning on getting operated was going to be known at some point or another.
- I'm gonna get circumcised and pierced.
- Wait, what ?
- You know what circumcision means ?
- Yes, I do, I meant the "pierced" part.
- I'm gonna get a piercing basically going through the head of my penis.
- Why ? I mean, I don't get it.
- I think it looks better this way and also it enhances sexual stimulation.
- So you're not happy with the way your dick looks right now ?
- I guess you could say that.
- What's wrong with it?
- I mean ... I just think that it will look better this way.
- And how will it look like ?
- Well it's not done so I cannot show you.
Little did he know, a few months after he got it done, his son was back asking :
- Can I see how it looks like now ?
Most guys start masturbating at 12 or 13 so all the guys I know who got pierced and cut at 15 or later must have known how it felt like to have a foreskin. I guess this is when psychology takes over "simple" bodily functions.
When asking these guys how they feel their sexuality has evolved they all agree that masturbation, when only performed on their dick, is less satisfying than before and that it often required some hard stroking on their shaft. I think 99% of clean guys own a dildo or a butt plug, this is how you make up for the loss of sensations during masturbation.
However, when it comes to sex with a partner, they all agree that it's way better after getting cut and pierced. First because the piercing obviously gives you extra sensations, second because sex with a partner is the only time someone is rubbing your glans so it feels extra special and third because it boosts your self confidence, especially at age 15.
I talked to that man and his son :
He's a friend of my uncle's. They are not blood related to us at all and do not come from the same background. He had been a friend of my uncle's for many years when he suddenly decided to get cut (and rather heavily if you ask me) and pierced. It happened amidst a (nasty) divorce. The kind of decision you make at the same time you decide to exercise more and eat healthier. At the same time he was also exploring his sexuality with other men and this is how he ended up making this decision. My uncle gave him all the advice he could possibly give him and that was it. One piece of advice that he gave him was to be open about it with his family. This guy was not nudist at all, he did not understand why he would have to share that with anyone.
Yet, even if you're not nudist, you might be seen naked by accident at some point by someone and that moment might not be the best one to explain that piece of metal and missing skin. And then you're going to have to explain how, when, where and why it happened and some lies you might have told at that time will be exposed. It's never a good idea to lie to people and it's not a good look to get exposed.
His son told me how the conversation started. His dad had him sit down at the dinning room table and said :
- I'm gonna get small surgery at the hospital.
- What kind of surgery.
- Cosmetic surgery.
- You're gonna get a nose job?
- No stupid!
- Then what are you gonna get done ?
At this point the Dad, named P. was about to reply "none of your business" but I guess he remembered my uncle's advice. Plus, he knew he was going to feel very uncomfortable down there for months and therefore that the region he was planning on getting operated was going to be known at some point or another.
- I'm gonna get circumcised and pierced.
- Wait, what ?
- You know what circumcision means ?
- Yes, I do, I meant the "pierced" part.
- I'm gonna get a piercing basically going through the head of my penis.
- Why ? I mean, I don't get it.
- I think it looks better this way and also it enhances sexual stimulation.
- So you're not happy with the way your dick looks right now ?
- I guess you could say that.
- What's wrong with it?
- I mean ... I just think that it will look better this way.
- And how will it look like ?
- Well it's not done so I cannot show you.
Little did he know, a few months after he got it done, his son was back asking :
- Can I see how it looks like now ?