I've been stressed and feeling super anxious a lot lately because of some of my co-workers/"friends".
They're not really my friends. They are big pains in my ass. I thought I was friends with these girls and they just continually build me up and let me down and I'm just plain sick of it.
Their negativity is affecting me in the worst possible way.
Is it worth the fallout of unfriending them on facebook? I know this is so dumb. I happen to work with this group of girls so I have to see them almost every day.
If I didn't, I wouldn't think twice about unfriending them.
I am, for the most part, pretty non-aggressive and I try to avoid confrontation in my every day life. I'm a people pleaser and it tends to get me walked over.
But I'm just so sick of it.
What would you do? I'm tired of seeing their updates about excluding me.
We had all been planning on a big vacation to the Keys 2 weeks ago - and I got left out of the planning, then told the trip was canceled, then back on again, and then canceled when one of the girls "G" encountered some drama from a guy who actually hit her in the face and they wanted to send him a message that it's not ok to hit girls - but canceling our vacation because we -might- run into him in the keys. I was pissed because I was not included in this decision to cancel the vacation that I'd been looking forward to all year.
Then, thanks to facebook, I see that the girl who was the main reason for canceling the trip WENT ANYWAY with another girl from the group "D". Just the two of them. No one else. On the sly.
I was furious.
The girls in this group talk so much shit about "D" that they only used her for her connections in the Keys and she's just fucking oblivious to it all.
I'm just sick and done with it.
I'm posting this here because I can't really talk about it at work w/o someone running their mouth off.
So, friends of LPSG, any advice? To friend or unfriend?
They're not really my friends. They are big pains in my ass. I thought I was friends with these girls and they just continually build me up and let me down and I'm just plain sick of it.
Their negativity is affecting me in the worst possible way.
Is it worth the fallout of unfriending them on facebook? I know this is so dumb. I happen to work with this group of girls so I have to see them almost every day.
If I didn't, I wouldn't think twice about unfriending them.
I am, for the most part, pretty non-aggressive and I try to avoid confrontation in my every day life. I'm a people pleaser and it tends to get me walked over.
But I'm just so sick of it.
What would you do? I'm tired of seeing their updates about excluding me.
We had all been planning on a big vacation to the Keys 2 weeks ago - and I got left out of the planning, then told the trip was canceled, then back on again, and then canceled when one of the girls "G" encountered some drama from a guy who actually hit her in the face and they wanted to send him a message that it's not ok to hit girls - but canceling our vacation because we -might- run into him in the keys. I was pissed because I was not included in this decision to cancel the vacation that I'd been looking forward to all year.
Then, thanks to facebook, I see that the girl who was the main reason for canceling the trip WENT ANYWAY with another girl from the group "D". Just the two of them. No one else. On the sly.
I was furious.
The girls in this group talk so much shit about "D" that they only used her for her connections in the Keys and she's just fucking oblivious to it all.
I'm just sick and done with it.
I'm posting this here because I can't really talk about it at work w/o someone running their mouth off.
So, friends of LPSG, any advice? To friend or unfriend?