being told no, makes me sad/mad lol

Ah so my current squeeze likes to take it slow, and build a 'real' relationship with me. And is content with just cuddling and staring into my eyes.
That's all fine and dandy and i enjoy it, but if you start to tease me, u better finish the job!
GRRR one thing i very much hate is being riled up and teased, then being told no!

some reason i just get really sad :/, why???? its like it hits me right in the heart that you don't want me (even though it may be: not in the mood, or ppl may walk in type thing idk) but it downright ruins my mood.
Any way to get over my silly emotions of this???

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It's true what azhotguy says... some women are very concerned with taking it slow and have a certain amount of dates in their head that must take place before they get physical... that is silly. I am all for setting standards on waiting until you are comfortable but I think some people are concerned with being seen as whores or easy instead of doing what feels comfortable for them. However, if he really isn't ready it is also unfair of you to push him. I'd have an open discussion with him about it and ask him what it is he is waiting for to feel that comfort level. :)
 
lol thanks, i mean in past relationships where it was mostly solely based on the sexual aspect, being told no would really piss me off. ugh.
i don't want to mess this new relationship up at all, so ive been trying to keep my emotions under control :/ but its weird
 
I have no idea what/how/why's about your relationship but just a guess...if you want it, start acting like you don't want it. You'll get it then. Just the stupid games that sometimes have to be played.
 

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