Bi Christian guys?

jasnecci;4618583 said:
So I can't be the only one on here.. I sure believe that being with another man is a sin, whatever, we can argue that but that's not what this thread is about.. My convictions are that, so whenever I play with a guy, I feel horrible.. I am also married and I know that I shouldn't do that, but I do.. so there, I'm a horrible person who cheats on his wife with men and regrets it every time, however, I love every second of it.

How many other guys, bi or 'str8' do that - single, married, whatever.. Just curious, because I can't be the only one...
Well you are not the only one!You should come and join us on the following site: www.g0ysrus.com...you will find some nice and interesting guys there........ps the 0 is a zero......my handle there is (nick1948) so hope to see you there
and it is a free site !!

Nick

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No, you aren't the only bi Christian guy. I think the cheating on your wife is more of the issue here.
 

Bi Orthodox Christian here...

The issue of man with a man...or a man with a female outside of marriage for that matter....will always be debated religiously...but, as you say, that is not for discussion
here.....

I agree with
nubian ...cheating on your wife...
be it with a man or a woman.....is more more the issue here.

I think the thing that would worry me most, would be the possibility of taking home
to my wife...or male partner...a sexually transmitted disease, or heaven forbid...HIV.
Even if you think you are practicing safe-sex...it could happen. Now that really would
make me feel horrible!

As a BI, I have always tried to keep true to whomever I was with at the time...either
when I was married, or in a committed relationship with another man. I have strayed
a few times (and yes I enjoyed every minute of it, too), but all-in-all, I have been
pretty good at keeping true. And...yes, I know what you mean about feeling horrible
when I cheated.

But, I have done my best to stay true, as I would hope they would stay true to me...
and it was rewarding...a lot more rewarding in the long run than a quickie could ever be.

That said, that does not mean that I never had wandering eyes then or now...I just
tried never to act upon the urges except for a bit of wanking in private.

I hope you can find a way that will make you happy and not bring problems to your wife or family.

Good luck..
 
I'm very new to the site, but I have a wonderful husband who we keep no secrets from each other. He's attracted to both men and women and I've know this since well before he asked me to marry him and I'd never put him down or make him feel ashamed for it. We are completely dedicated to each other and he's had to deal with my epilepsy over he years and I think of him (and I being attracted to women as well. There are many couples like this we've come to find out) I'm wondering why you haven't told your wife Christian or not and why you didn't reveal everything to your per marriage counsellor which if you were married in a church you pretty much have to attend. Our priest (episcopal and a woman) wasn't in the least surprised to hear us reveal this and we did so because my parents were married for 50 years before my dad died and I wanted that same level of commitment that they had. They didn't have me till my mom was in her mid forties so my brothers were off doing their own thing and I was an Aunt at age 18months! My husbands parents are still alive and never interact with each other and we knew we didn't want a marriage like his parents. She told us open honest communication was key and if later on once we had a good marriage pattern established and we still wanted to express some feelings then it was best to find another stable couple and all be together openly so everyone knew what was going on without angst and guilt.

I'm not a huge fan of organized religion and neither of our families know because they have no need to know about our private life. It sounds like you really need to talk to your wife because she could really surprise you and accept you because she loves you. Why go the secretive route if you don't have to? If you feel you have to hen you're married to the wrong person is the way I feel. It's only been 4 years for us, but I can't imagine keeping a secret any secret especially one this big hon. Is it really worth all the pain and misery that will come out one way or another? And don't try telling her in a public place...at home quietly in your living room and yes, expect tears, but if you both love each other, you can work through this and its so worth it. Good luck.
 
Please forgive all huge typos. I have epilepsy and tying to fix them all just isn't worth the trouble. I really hope what I've told you about out situation help yours though. Best too you. My husband is a practicing catholic, it's only me that's not really into organized religion anymore.
 
Christian man here too. I consider myself to have a bi nature in a str8 lifestyle. My wife knows I have a bi nature, but she also knows I have no intention to pursue it. What she doesn't know is the enjoyment I find on line. I enjoy webcams, which has to be as close to cheating as you can get without getting hands on the other guy. I don't want jerk-buddies because I don't want to complicate my life - but there is no way to deny nor ignore the interest and attraction to cock.
 
I'm also a bi Christian man. I struggle with the same issues. Only been with one man and the guilt was horrible. I haven't done anything in person since, but the urge never goes away.
 

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