Big Dicks and Other Attributes

Dicks can get my attention.

• Big dicks, like flaccid ones that hang halfway to the knees, can overcome much of my reserve. A dick like that is just not that easy to be discreet about.
• Then there's foreskin. If it covers the head, even when the dick is erect, and there's still some skin left to make a little nozzle, yeah, that's very cool.
• And an upward curve... Man, that makes it look like a tool that is designed for good sex!

A dick doesn't have to have all three, or even any, of the above qualities to be a nice looking dick, but one with all three is almost guaranteed to have me lusting for a new friendship. It's almost as seductive to me as big jutting nipples.

Nipples on some guys can pretty much make me forget I'm mostly straight.

• Nipples sticking out a quarter inch or so... poking through shirts and sweaters... my eyes lock on them!
• Pencil eraser nipples, little cylindrical versions of dicks, but sticking out in public when dicks are still expected to be covered... very sexual, like a loophole in the indecent exposure laws that some guys can take advantage of.
• Big areolae are nice, sometimes quite attractive, but just not quite as enticing if not combined with big nipples.

Oh yeah, great nipples can get me to overlook a lot of things that might otherwise be unattractive about a guy. The only thing that trumps them is great muscles.

Muscles on a guy are so, SO, hot they could almost make me forgive someone for cheating by using steroids.... almost!

• Big ol' flaring lats are probably my favorites, doing an elegant serpentine "V" shape thing, accentuating wide shoulders and narrow waists.
• Abs, especially well defined lower abs that attract eyes downward are a major draw.
• Glutes, calves, pecs, biceps, and delts all follow closely and have their attractions...
• Quads and leg bis can be fine looking, but can also too easily be overdone.
• Traps and the neck are the last things I want to see huge... better to see them be defined, but not bulging.

An athlete or bodybuilder with great muscles poured into smooth, tan skin can almost convince me he's a fine, worthwhile person without uttering a word...

But that's the thing: even a great face thrown into the mix doesn't mean that the things seen on the surface truly reflect the character or worth of the person possessing any combination of or all of the above fine, lust inspiring, physical attributes... And when it comes down to it, I lose interest pretty quickly if the guy lacks manners, minimal conversational skills, or an ability to think beyond immediate gratification.

It can be likened to a hand in a poker game: some amount of factors that detract like drugs, body art, or crude behavior can be overcome by certain attractive physical characteristics, but the aces in the hand are the positive emotional, intellectual and spiritual characteristics.

So, guys can grab my attention with outstanding dicks, nipples and/or bodies, but if we're going to be friends or have some kind of lasting relationship, they've got to possess qualities like integrity, intelligence, and courage.

1.13.08
A fantasy I have at this point in my life (when I am still single... but getting seriously involved with a wonderful woman) is that some guy friend will be "ALL that" (both physically and spiritually beautiful) and we will be intimates.

Intimates physically, like guys who are comfortable hugging each other, who can hang out naked with each other, who work out at the gym and/or in the pool together, who might even catch a nap or night together without getting sexual.

Intimates spiritually, like best friends who are comfortable sharing thoughts honestly, who love each other platonically and care about what happens to each other.

Yeah, I know, it sounds like I want a guy spouse or partner without the sex... and that is not too far from how I feel. I do love getting blow jobs from guys; so, it's not like I'm afraid of sex with guys. Still, it doesn't seem to be in the cards for me to have the "whole package" with guys. I just have never fallen in love in that way with a guy.

So, I anticipate again being happily married, possibly with my current girl friend, but I would love to have one or two intensely close friendships with guys as well... as long as those relationships support or at least do not threaten my marriage.

3.26.08
Here's an example from the Hot or Not thread:
http://www.lpsg.org/attachments/25306d1206120444-hot-or-not-floater.jpg

The guy's dick is nice, maybe curved, but probably no bigger than mine, and probably circumcized. His nipples stick out a little, but they also are not that big a deal. It's his body that gets me thinking of things straight guys aren't supposed to be thinking about. If he also has the ability to generate interesting thoughts, speak with some clarity, project positive attitude, and have a good time without drugs and alcohol... jeez! I'm wanting a date.

God help me if I meet some guy who has all of that AND the dick AND the nipples!

Seriously, though, I'd probably seduce the fellow or let myself be seduced by him... and hope we could be lifelong friends once the lust subsided... because the lust WOULD subside eventually, and the things that I love about loving women WOULD eventually reassert themselves...

Hey, maybe he'd have a daughter who could marry my son and we could share beautiful grandchildren... Not just beautiful to look at, but children who've been raised in loving homes, taught to respect themselves and others, inspired to give of themselves so that their lives (and the lives of others who are touched by theirs) are happy, productive, meaningful.