Bigger isn't always better

There are some on this board, the truly twisted who really do believe that the cock that makes the man who would say "untrue! untrue!" to that.

I've been lucky over the past few months. Two of the women I've met aren't "into huge cocks." It seems as though both of them have had too many experiences with guys who have larger-than-averaged members who think that's the only thing they need. In contrast to their ex-boyfriends (one was described as long enough that "it didn't hurt too badly and thick enough that it wasn't uncomfortable," going on to say that "he used Magnum condoms because of the width, not length."), my size and my skills have been described as "perfect." While certainly a pleasure to hear, after I penetrated the first girl--after quite of bit of cunnilingus, fingers, and toys--she gasped and said "your cock is just perfect.

These recent experiences lead me to believe that there are more than just a few men with large cocks who don't know how to use their equipment which leads to an uncomfortable experience for her. Were those guys willing to listen to their partners they'd probably learn a thing or two, but have apparently been unwilling to just slow down and listen.

This is good for me, of course, because those women who have had well-hung yet inconsiderate lovers have now been exposed to a selfless, less-than-well-hung lover who's "blown their mind."

I'll take "blowing their mind" any day of the week and twice on Sunday, thank you very much.

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I have been very fortunate to have never been with a hung/huge guy that has hurt me. But, I have heard the horror stories. It is unfortunate that some well hung act in that manor. It is selfish and shows there is no consideration for their partner.

Last week, I was just involved in a conversation with one of our members here regarding this same subject, and he also agreed that it is unnecessary to hurt your partner.

Your are right, bigger is not always better, especially when the person with the tool is abusive.
 
When Jerry Jones was trying to get a new 100,000 seat stadium for the Cowboys, a smart ass reporter asked if if he thought "bigger is always better?". Mr. Jones replied "NO, but bigger and better is always better". He now has his 103,000 seat world class stadium.
 
Nothing wrong with being a selfish lover. I'm selfish, and the women I sleep with are selfish. We both get what we want and have great sex since nobody's anxious about what the other one thinks.
 
I will say this... my husband blows my mind every time we have sex. Yes there's something to be said about the selfless lover.

However, I've met a few big guys who were really great too and not quite as selfish as others. I've had mostly good experience from bigger... but yes a few that were less that enjoyable.
 

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