Broken Gaydar

ok so every guy i fall for, ends up being straight. i don't try to fall for straight guys, it just happens. i like manly men nd i just don't find that in Australian gay guys. I went to a club for the first time last week and met a guy who flirted and bought me drinks. Then at the wnd of the night when we'd danced for like 3hrs he tells me he's straight "but thanks for a good night" then my driend of 15 yrs ends up dating him, and now they're in a commited relationship. I was gut wrenched and broken so badly, havent quite recovered yet. Is there a way to make sure this never happens again? a way i could tell? is anyone else in the same boat?

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it just means he took you for a test drive for 4 hours and didn't like what he tested.
in other words, you put a fake front up at first and he wore it down to see the real you in those 4 hours. then used an excuse to get away or back out of the deal.
lesson is, be real right from the start and don't try to be something or someone you are not.
I say this because i've been there and done it a million times.
and the one and first time i just decided to me, met and still have my b/f going on 13 years now.
so relax and be yourself, not someone who you think might be attractive to a masculine man.
 
fair enough. but (i should have specified) my friend, she is with him. I'm always real, i already did the fake thing, then the soul searching thing, i don't think its that, but thank you for some insight
 
I have a friend that is conflicted and wants to be totally str8, some days he is adamant about it and others he will lighten up enough to enjoy getting some head. I suspect he may be a closet bottom and a size queen at that! So I don't think I quite measure up for him at 7x5. That is okay with me for now! Whenever I feel frustrated I remind myself that he is here with me and when he is not that he is still my friend and we still maintain contact. My only wish is that I could be the size that he thinks he needs. The point is that many of my "playmates" have been "str8" bona fide with gfs, wives and kids too. So some of those claiming to be str8 may be really bi. I guess looking and acting more str8 I am totally safe or safer to be seen and even hang out with these guys. I will venture to say that I have only been with a couple of guys that claim to be gay. The others claiming to be str8, I have been with far more. Yes, most were very masculine. However, some were very average and not particularly manly men. So keep looking, the one you want is there for you.
 
i much prefer a masculine man, therefore i tend to fall for straight guys. i honest to goodness thought i was in the gay section of the club, so you understand my shock when he said he was otherwise, i like your opinion 1Cody very insightful and helpful.
 

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