ok so every guy i fall for, ends up being straight. i don't try to fall for straight guys, it just happens. i like manly men nd i just don't find that in Australian gay guys. I went to a club for the first time last week and met a guy who flirted and bought me drinks. Then at the wnd of the night when we'd danced for like 3hrs he tells me he's straight "but thanks for a good night" then my driend of 15 yrs ends up dating him, and now they're in a commited relationship. I was gut wrenched and broken so badly, havent quite recovered yet. Is there a way to make sure this never happens again? a way i could tell? is anyone else in the same boat?