Can't find a friend...

Here's a recent post I made to CL....and it only got one reoly...what am I doing or saying wrong???

"I am bisexual 54, married to an asexual wife. I am seeking friendship (w/oral benefits) with another single gay or married man. My wife and I are very close, she knows about my "bi" side, I don't "sneak around” behind her and I don’t want to "sneak around" behind your wife either. So if you’re married and out to your wife, keep reading.

I enjoy fishing boating & hiking, playing cards, playing pool, or just relaxing with good conversation. I'm easy to talk to and a great listener. I'm known for having a good sense of humor and I love my wife. I'm completely open and honest, so you should be too. No STD's, past or present and HIV tested negative. The same goes for you.

If you’re interested, drop me an email.

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guy....same here....i would meat and great you for sure....i have had worse luck finding a similar friend....seems our age wants but is afraid to go there....have tried telling more of myself and less....will not cruise the streets looking for a hook up...just want a buddy...agreed it is harder than most know....GOOD LUCK
 
Thanks Calambo...I got an e-mail today from a young man, 27 and gay...He sounds so nice...but young...but I can't let that cloud anything, heck, when i was that age, I had older friends....So I hope he calls....I also got an e-mail from someone my age, that is very into fly fishing....we may get to be fishing friends...no9 sex though, cause his wife doesn't know about his bi side...

Why is it so many guys are so afraid to be totally honest with thier wives? Is it that they can't be that honest with themselves or fear of loss??? I know in my case, our marriage is based on true love...and true love trandsends all isues and problems....enough for today...off to the shower and school...
 
Well, I was supposed to hook p with Felix today after school....it was really strange, I called a few times, got him on the line and then it went silent and disconnected....I kept calling back, getting concerned...finely a woman answers and tells me he's a bit "out of it"...apparently his sister just passed away....so I extend my deepest sympathy's, leave my name and sign off....I don't know if anyone else in his family knows he & I were about to kick-off our gay sexual relationship this afternoon....so now I have to lay low, while wishing I could extend comfort and friendship to him....grrrrr...I'd just like to be a shoulder for him to hug and cry on...but don't know his family and situation, we had just recently met and talked and decided to see what else clicked....so I guess I should just lay low and wait a bit to see if he calls??? Any ideas on how to proceed???
 
Nothing new to report. I re-posted in Cl last night, got 2 replies, both are doubtful....and woke up to another 3 inchs of GD snow!!! When will it ever go away??? We sure could use some global warming here in Eastern WA....we broke ALL recors ever kept for snowfall this year!!! oh joy oh joy...GRRRRRRRRRRRR
 

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