Can't have sex with stupid people...

This just sort of popped into my head the other day, and I guess it's a sign that I'm getting a little bit older but I now sort of realise that intelligence seems these days just to be as important as physical appearance or general personality. More so, probably. I got so frustrated talking to some really willfully ignorant girls recently that it just made me sort of stop and think how much more of a turn on it can be if the woman is simply able to articulate a complete sentence or two.

I'm no arrogant bastard and I don't presume myself to be that bright, but I get so frustrated talking to women that dense that the idea of us getting anywhere near the bedroom just becomes pretty remote. Like I say, getting older, so guess I just need that connection on two levels.

I suppose what I'm saying is that I'm not a completely shallow bastard anymore it seems, or at least not as much of one. Maybe ever so slightly arrogant, though...

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I do agree... I can't deal with stupid, especially if I plan on having more than a one time thing or a real relationship with the person.
 
Yeah, I agree. Attractiveness, for me, is kind of a 'whole package' deal and definitely weighted more heavily towards an interesting mind and healthy attitude than a six pack.

Would my twenty year-old self have said the same? No comment ;)
 
I know what you mean. I started making them pass a quiz in basic geography years ago. "Don't know the capital of Spain? Sorry, no nookie for you.."
 
Oh, I totally get it. You must be *this smart* to ride :) And you are pretty smart, pretty cool and pretty hot. Feel free to have some standards!

For me, I'll give up firmness of body for a smart & funny guy every time. Smart & funny is better in bed anyway.
 
evilshogunmaster;bt35438 said:
I just want to bang who cares how smart they are when I have to take a piss I don't look for the smart urinal I just piss.

orgasm:vagina::piss:urinal

you're a real charmer.


Scotsman - personality is always the pull.
 
Intelligence is a turn-on and creative types have a huge advantage because I find them so sexy.
 
Good to know I'm not the only one... apart from the oddly vocal exceptions... and maybe I'm taking this one further and saying intelligence = better sex? Or at least a higher level of creativity I guess, which is part of intelligence.
 
vince;bt35436 said:
I know what you mean. I started making them pass a quiz in basic geography years ago. "Don't know the capital of Spain? Sorry, no nookie for you.."

Madrid... can I have my nookie now?? :tongue:
(and yes, I did that without google)

I agree, there are many factors that create good chemistry, with intelligence being top of the chart. Everything else falls below that. Oh, and by the way, intelligence does not mean you have to use the longest words in the vocabulary... just be smart enough to carry on a decent conversation....oh... and don't forget to make me laugh... :biggrin1:
 
I'm the same. I've had sex with beautiful people, but in the back of my mind I know I'm going to wake up in bed in the morning & have to talk to this person. So please have a brain, or I'm keeping (at least most of) my clothes on.
 

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