Chat report- Taking rejection

What's it like to be invited to a private chat and than the invitee leaves after only a "hey"
I can only conclude that mr muscles, not his real name of course, but a close description of him, didn't check out my profile and only did it after I accepted his gracious invitation to chat privately.

Well Mr Muscle guy i must surmise must have been scared off by me being 55 yo and not having a monster between my legs. And most likely was hoping for a young 20 something boy with a dong indistinguishable from a baseball bat or at least a rolling pin.

But off course had he checked my profile prior to inviting me, he wouldn't have to be so rude as to leave me in a room chatting to myself. And, until I noticed at the top of the screen that he had left some 4or 5 lines into my conversation, I was having a nice time. I'm finding that doing some investigative clicks here and there to find out who will be my host or guest lends to less disappointment.
Another side note, I tend to fire off questions and answers to questions with a lot of qualifiers, but that will be another post.

I wonder if this is standard fare in this kind of chat room. Hmmm. At least I could have had a nice "see you" or "sorry can't chat now" or the infamous "its not you its me" last words before I "x" him myself.

But I did get to chat with a buddy who made my chat session at least worth it. I'm starting to enjoy a few members that I have chatted with who don't mind a cordial whisper of greetings and welcome. and respond in kind. And if they or I can with go into private rooms. Ooooo, what goes on in these room are well private. So I shall leave it at that.

I can say though they have been stimulating at best.

So my mr muscle mans rejection turned out to be another lesson in the goings on in the chat room. My buddy unruffled my feathers and the day went on fulfilled and satisfied after all.

Comments

I know this is not to excuse the rude departure of the guy that invited you to chat, but I did want to say that perhaps he hit the "Private Chat" on the bar instead of "personal message" or "profile"

This has happened to me several times. Usually when it is unexpected or I am unsure I will ask "Was this an "oooops" hit the wrong button?" That way it also gives them an out in case I am not what they expect as well.

it's a nice way to say sorry...

there's never an excuse for inviting someone to private chat (whether or not it is intentional) and then just bailing without so much as as "bye" "sorry" or "later"

Yeah lots of people here really don't think much about manners, seeing it's an adult sex site... I guess they think that gives them clearance to act like an ass ... since they are already showing it (LOL) **Meant in jest**

Good luck, keep plugging along and don't let a few rude people get ya down. More nice than not around here.
 
Thanks for your comments, FP. I'm finding that writing my experiences here in a blog very satisfying. It enables me to reflect back, and being the lite-hearted person I am, use my cynical view of an experience to let it go. I see good in everything and will acknowledge it where it is due. Life's to short to dwell on the negative.
 
Sounds like a case of the finger slips, when you hit the PVT chat by mistake. I always say sorry
 

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