Dammit!

I had the best evening yesterday because I got to spend a few hours with my nieces. All was well that ended well. Or so I thought...

In the middle of the night their crazy mother walked into my moms house and expected to crash out at her house. Drunk and tweeking. Long story short, it's because of her condition that she prefers to be in, that got the kids taken from her. My mom is supposed to get them placed with her and most likely the incident last night caused my mom to lose that chance. Because of the kids' mother! I swear I wanna beat a bitch down. The kids are paying the price already and know they're going to be placed with grandma....now this shit......I'm so stressed, hurt, angry, grrrrr. Fuck!!!!

What do I do?

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JUst be there for your nieces and help where you can. They will love you. Best to you.
 
It is not easy to know what you can do without making things worse. All you can do is to be there for your family and be a good listener. Good luck.
 
I know you don't want to hear this but she is sick
see if you can find her some help
she needs to understand that her actions are affecting not just her but her mother you and her kids
hang in there.
 
Thank you guys. The feeling still hasn't passed yet on wanting to beat a bitch down. lol But my mom talked to the social workers and told them everything that went on that night. They told her the actions of the girls mother (my brothers ex wife) does not effect the girls being placed with my mom in a couple of weeks since she did nothing wrong and she (my mom) isn't the one with the problem. Who knows where the hell my brother is. My only worry in my family, at any given time, is my mom and all the kiddies. That's the kind of auntie I am. No kids of my own so I can just be the best auntie ever! :)
 
I think you are more than just a best auntie. Your compassion, hurt, love, everything, makes you a pretty great person. Period. Sorry I didn't see this post earlier! Sorry that you and your mom had to go through this. Has she considered placing a restraining order against the crazy bitch? She may not want to rock the boat, but sometimes the boat needs to be rocked, and that step would go a long way to show the social workers that se is serious about the kids safety (which of course we know she is, but I am talking about keeping all legal bases covered) If you want send me a PM with some of the particulars surrounding the case (again if you want to) and I can run it by my sis, who worked as a social worker for a bit. She used to help people like your mom who were trying there best for the grandkids (also aunts, uncles, you get the idea) when the parents were being (insert expletive here). I might be able to help you pass on some steps to your mom that may help her.

If you don't feel comfortable enough sharing the particulars (and I would not take offense if that is the case) I can still get some general advice from my Sis to give to you.

Hang in there girl, and just continue to be the supportive person you are to your mom. We will continue to support you in anyway we can :hug:
 

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