I've been having an ongoing battle with a member off site. He insists that by saying I prefer to date white men I am being racist. I disagree.
See, I think in order to be racist I would have to refuse to date any black men. Which I don't. For instance, today I really wanted pizza for lunch at this special place but when I got there they were closed. :frown1: Instead I went to Zaxby's and had their Zensation Chicken Salad, which I love. It's as far away from thin crust, pepperoni pizza as you can get. Yet it was tasty, healthy, and quite satisfying.
Many years ago I was at a bar in Jersey one of those neighborhood/sports bars found round the country. Not part of a chain, great food and cheap, happy hour drinks. Anyway my girlfriend noticed that the guys I found attractive were usually what she called BDWG. BDWG = Big Dopey White Guys.
If a man were to say he only preferred red heads with freckles, or women with D cups or better I wouldn't think he were racist, even if he were black or Asian or whatever. Lots of black men, shun white and black women for Asian and Latina women. Are they racist also?
See, I think in order to be racist I would have to refuse to date any black men. Which I don't. For instance, today I really wanted pizza for lunch at this special place but when I got there they were closed. :frown1: Instead I went to Zaxby's and had their Zensation Chicken Salad, which I love. It's as far away from thin crust, pepperoni pizza as you can get. Yet it was tasty, healthy, and quite satisfying.
Many years ago I was at a bar in Jersey one of those neighborhood/sports bars found round the country. Not part of a chain, great food and cheap, happy hour drinks. Anyway my girlfriend noticed that the guys I found attractive were usually what she called BDWG. BDWG = Big Dopey White Guys.
If a man were to say he only preferred red heads with freckles, or women with D cups or better I wouldn't think he were racist, even if he were black or Asian or whatever. Lots of black men, shun white and black women for Asian and Latina women. Are they racist also?