The past two days were interesting. When work dies down, my idle mind wanders. To keep me in line I have been working off of a to-do list for a good part of my life.
The List
I have a running list of "Things to do" pertaining to all aspects of my life. Cleaning the bathroom and shaving to calling a client and sending emails, it is all on a list. Going through my list keeps me in line and some of the list items over time become habit which is nice because it frees up the list. I noticed the other day that the list never included things like, "watch erotica", "make passes at my wife" or "go for a bike ride at X place". I assume my decision to leave these things off the list was because I believed that they should just come naturally but in some cases, they don't. Maybe it is because these things tended to be bonuses if I finished the other items on my real list. I think this is a place where my priorities are all screwy. I have always smirked at the saying, "play romance" or "plan relaxation" but I as I mature I realize that these things must be planned because we tend to push these to the side if life is not going according to the plan. The "plan" cannot be complete without relaxation, romance, sex, masturbation, porn, fantasies, drinks with friends, bike rides, etc. Therefore, my list will now start including these things.
It is hard to write over the weekends so please don't hold my non-blogging against me! Despite my absence / silence, I have been good boy.
More later...on my thoughts on professional coaching.
Current Scorecard:
Pushups = 180
Mind wanderings = 12 or so
Personal Playtime = 1 (edge)
The big "O" = 0
Sexy time = 0
Porn-quest =0
Footnotes:
Sex coaching, happy ending massages, adding sex-ventures to my bucket list
The List
I have a running list of "Things to do" pertaining to all aspects of my life. Cleaning the bathroom and shaving to calling a client and sending emails, it is all on a list. Going through my list keeps me in line and some of the list items over time become habit which is nice because it frees up the list. I noticed the other day that the list never included things like, "watch erotica", "make passes at my wife" or "go for a bike ride at X place". I assume my decision to leave these things off the list was because I believed that they should just come naturally but in some cases, they don't. Maybe it is because these things tended to be bonuses if I finished the other items on my real list. I think this is a place where my priorities are all screwy. I have always smirked at the saying, "play romance" or "plan relaxation" but I as I mature I realize that these things must be planned because we tend to push these to the side if life is not going according to the plan. The "plan" cannot be complete without relaxation, romance, sex, masturbation, porn, fantasies, drinks with friends, bike rides, etc. Therefore, my list will now start including these things.
It is hard to write over the weekends so please don't hold my non-blogging against me! Despite my absence / silence, I have been good boy.
More later...on my thoughts on professional coaching.
Current Scorecard:
Pushups = 180
Mind wanderings = 12 or so
Personal Playtime = 1 (edge)
The big "O" = 0
Sexy time = 0
Porn-quest =0
Footnotes:
Sex coaching, happy ending massages, adding sex-ventures to my bucket list